Author Topic: it's time for a change  (Read 447 times)

Offline Cherlie

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« on: June 10, 2003, 09:21:52 PM »
Many of you know my situation wiht my wife.....

I just want to let you know that I took many of your advice after 5 months or trying to make it work and I am filing for divorce.

I just want to thank everyone for your advice and help, esp Mazz.

It's a sad day but it jsut wasn't going to work and I didn't want to end up hurting her.


Thanks again guys
Cherlie

Offline Mini D

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« Reply #1 on: June 10, 2003, 09:32:38 PM »
Sorry to hear that.  Hope the whole thing doesn't get too painful for you.

[FDB]Once the divorce is finalized, go ahead and give the FDBs her new phone number and we'll post it in the bathroom.  If its the same as her old one... we already have it.[/FDB]

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Offline Saurdaukar

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« Reply #2 on: June 10, 2003, 09:46:16 PM »
Sorry to hear that it didnt work out bud, but based on the facts, its the only rational conclusion you could have drawn.

Some things are meant to be, and others arent.  Youll know the right girl when you find her, there wont be any doubt in your mind.

Offline Nash

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« Reply #3 on: June 11, 2003, 02:07:02 AM »
Wot Saur said... Based on what you told us about the her (and her mom :) ), you made a good decision.

So many people just don't have the courage... and let one miserable year melt away into the next, and the next.. and before you know it all this time has passed... is wasted...

There's just no reason to live like that. The short term pain will pass, then you can look forward to many years of hapiness with someone who isn't such a basket case. This divorce sounds like cause for congratulations.

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« Reply #4 on: June 11, 2003, 05:19:41 AM »
btw...

would it be out of line to ask what her reaction was? based on some of the stuff you told us about her, I'm mightily curious...

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« Reply #5 on: June 11, 2003, 05:43:31 AM »
Dump her and get an new younger model. One have to upgrade every 1-2 years....
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« Reply #6 on: June 11, 2003, 09:38:43 AM »
... and be sure to withdraw ALL the money you can before telling her !