Well, I run a Supply Chain Organization, and I'm pretty good at that also.
Since I'm in that position, I DO have the authority to speak for the ownership...that's why they hired me.
I wouldn't have given the guy the bum's rush, but I would not have toleranted the non-disclosure of his intent as well. It would have been handled professionally, but handled appropriately as well, with it being explained to him that this is not how we start business relationships here, while being shown the door.
Nwbie's approach is want generally works best with me.
Interesting story about vendor/customer relationships (kind of a hijack, sry).
We had purchased a company and were in the process of closing the plant and moving to one of our own operations (yours truly got that wonderful pleasure), and in doing so, I also had to re-organize the existing vendor relationships.
Since our plant was vertical in many of the operations that the buy-out plant was not, I had to clean up alot of sub-contract agreements, etc.
Well I had one vendor were the contract had expired and notified them that I would be pulling the tooling to our vertically integrated plant. They refused to give up the tooling, even though we had clear documentation that not only did we pay for it, but we owned the intellectual design rights as well. I knew the motivation behind it....it would have a devestating affect on his revenue level.
So, they hold the tools hostage, basically. OK...I check out who are local legal representation is, get the gears warmed up to get a judge to write up the papers and the sheriff to serve them.
Then, with this plan lined up, call the company and invite the Owner up to work this out.
2 days later he shows up...I go to the lobby to meet with him (I've never met him face to face) and there are literally 4 guys there with him. He brought his VP of Sales, VP of Ops, His Attorney, and his Sales Rep for our account.
I ask who the decision maker is in the crowd, the Owner says he is, and I say, good, then just you come with me. He protests, and I tell him, either we work it out without the others there, or they can all get back on the plane and go home.
We met and worked it out. All he had to do from the get-go was deal straight with me, and I would have worked it out so that we didn't leave him a huge revenue hole to cover immediately (which is what we eventually did, although I accelerated it a little because of the earlier tactics).
Point is, I deal with each level of business accordingly. Some of those sub-contract injection molding shops, I've had to deal with very "straight-forward" manner.
My father-in-law owned an auto-body shop, and I also witnessed how he "had" to handle salesman at that level sometimes.
I think the response can certainly match the level initiated.