Sing Along! Here's the melody... sing all you like.

Now as to the rest...
It bears repeating that no one I've seen arguing the "furball" point of view wants game changes to prevent another player from doing anything else that's in the game. IE: Rude doesn't want game changes to prevent a bomber guy from bombing HQ and killing the dar.
To the contrary, it's been emphasized over and over that basically the fighter fighting crowd just wants to be able to find a place on each map to have their kind of fun.. that's it... that's all. Just want to have some fun flying, climbing, diving, turning and shooting.
It's been pointed out that Tank Town on Trinity provides the sort of thing for treadheads that's asked for fighters.
Nobody wants to "take away" anything from the rest of the game; they just want something left in for those who don't care who wins the war, don't care to play the "strat" game, don't care to go on huge missions, etc., etc.
As you say, it's currently unbalanced and it's unbalanced in favor of strat options. It didn't used to be this way; it slowly evolved as some folks requested changes to the game favoring "strat" play.
Now, the guys that were content to just fly and fight to no real purpose are feeling pushed out of the MA. That's the bottom line. So, they're speaking up.
And some don't think that's fair that they should get to speak their piece as the folks that have been asking for and receiving more strat features.