Plain and simple folks... You have to be an American to understand our feelings completely. One can sympathize, or even empathize with us, but completely understanding is impossible unless you're an American. For us, being American goes way beyond citizenship in our country.
Hell, I sit here trying to explain it in words, and I can't. It's like us men trying to understand childbirth. The closest we can come is imagining the pain of getting kicked in the nuts, but we'll never fully know what it actually feels like.
Don't be angry fellas. People just don't understand.