Thank you guys, very much appreciated. Some gun considerations I haven't even thought of.
Currently on my lists, is a S&W .40, which felt very comfortable in my hand, another S&W 9mm which is being sold at a "sale" price, because S&W is trying to knock Taurus out of the market, It's almost like a Glock, with maybe 1 extra piece, and the trigger spring is exposed Priced at $289.
And today the thing that suprised me the most was the .22's ammo 300 rounds for $10, but yes yes, Ammo shoots differently. The dealer I went to, showed me the .17 rifles saying that they're extreamly accurate, If i just wanted to plink some off.
Oh and WOW! I got to hold the 30 freakin pound m82 50 cal rifle. JEBUS! Ultimate in home defense haha let the robber get ohhhh 2 miles away, haha then knock one off " KA - BLAM!" haha ....
Anyways thanks again for the info.