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General Forums => The O' Club => Topic started by: Scared on August 16, 2020, 05:23:41 PM
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just wondering how many grandkids you old farts have. i've already got 8 and I'm still a very youthful 48. lol
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Through blood relations, zero. By contract (marriage) 15 with one due in December. I also have 2 greats. Ther contract grandkids are great. One does not have to be genetically related to love them. I do more with the majority of them than their "real" grandparents do. I even play Minecraft with one online.
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I have 4 and 1 great otw in December.
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Two.
- oldman
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3 We haven't been able to see since feb
Eagler
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3 We haven't been able to see since feb
Eagler
I saw all of mine about 6 weeks back. We had a BBQ at a park. Around 25 family there.
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Through blood relations, zero. By contract (marriage) 15 with one due in December. I also have 2 greats. Ther contract grandkids are great. One does not have to be genetically related to love them. I do more with the majority of them than their "real" grandparents do. I even play Minecraft with one online.
its the love, not the blood that matters man. :aok
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10 grandkids and 6 great-grandkids with no signs of them slowing down any time soon. :rolleyes: :old:
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Sixteen. And they sure keep me busy! Love it.
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wow...we are all very lucky!
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One. He turned 5 two weeks ago. Love him to bits.
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its the love, not the blood that matters man. :aok
AMEN!!!!!!! My Son, was a byproduct of Wife's infidelity! I got the best out of that BS! Yo...Co-worker of Dark/Melanin SOB...Surprise MF'er!! CHILD SUPPORT! Back to topic at hand....he has 3 Kids and my Daughter has 2,(Daughter's, are being raised by the EX)! My Son has been fighting Tooth and Nail...to be involved in his kids Life! Daughter....ME/I come first...where is my next fix? Havent talked to her in YEARS!! So having Tybird as a son makes me PROUD! I couldnt have done better myself...obviously :uhoh
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1stpar3, I understand the situation you were in. My son is all mine but was born during the early stages of the last of my marriage to his Mom. I spent the next several years constantly fighting to stay involved with him. An example of what she was like. I had orders to go to Panama, right after pineapple face was taken prisoner because the Army realized that when you fir all the cops in the nation there is no one to keep the lid on things. So they activated every Reservist who had ANY MP or Police training. A buddy of mine also got the same treatment art our department. Things were still a bit testy with some of the Panamanian hold outs who like to fling a few AK rounds in the direction of some troops. So the night before I leave at 0500 for the airport the ex picks up the kid and hands me a note saying she is moving to California and taking the kid with her. Fortunately one of the folks we spoke to at Ft Benning was the JAG. He was rather miffed that she would do that and had a request for an injunction already on the way to AZ, before I finished getting my Central American vaccinations. Really pissed her off to be handed a court order to leave the kid in AZ if she wanted to go to California. Unfortunately she pretty much ruined Aaron for adulthood. He is almost 35 and still lives with his Mom. I haven't seen him in 5 years now.
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:uhoh Wow...a real bad deal! At least my ex, knows I was the best she was gonna do, lol. Found out about 10 years too late :rofl On a side note: The nurses at Tyler's birth sure did act funny! Wife whiter than I am and...well they called SECURITY :rofl I saw them and was like"Yes...I know". The fatter one was like"whew". "We had a guy just last week wreck a Delivery Room! I was gonna quit!" :rofl "All because of hair color! Glad you know, cause this had TROUBLE written all over it. Then whispered"He isnt gonna come by is he?" :rofl Never forget the look on his face :devil I won all the way around :rock
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it aint about them it's about the kids. I remained friendly to my ex gf. went to the hospital and the nurse handed me that beautiful baby, I just knew then that I couldnt walk away, so I asked her if she wanted to get married. that beautiful boy turned into a great man. I dont regret, years after we got divorced and we got a couple of kids, she asked me if i ever loved her, I said, i did, you gave me a great son. I am proud of all my kids, 2 of mine one of hers, but that little boy, I wouldnt trade him for anything, same for my 2 kids.
after the divorce it wasnt fun. but I just told her, you ever try to stop me from seeing him, I'll make sure you wont get a penny from me.
he's not my step son, he's my son. I raised him and I loved him as I did with my other kids. what happened between their mom and me, wasnt their fault. but now we are older, we let things go by, we have raised 3 kids we are proud of and the past is the past. I have 3 grandaughters from my middle girl. havent met the 2 youngest ones they dont live nearby. cant wait to see them.
i had an exwife from hell with family working for child support but that's the past. I call her once in a while and sometimes she comes and visits, we dont talk about the past as it doesnt matter, what matter is the future for our kids and our grandkids.
semp
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Exactly! I wouldnt trade him for anything! I proudly signed that Birth Certificate! Even the Ex wifes other 2 kids call me Dad. They are just as much family as well! It made for some awkward stares at times, but we all just laughed. Me and my ex had a descent relationship for years after the divorce. Long enough to have been a positive impact on those other kids at least. I wouldnt do anything different. Lucky all the bad BS happened later. It was good times for a while, so no regrets :aok
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just wondering how many grandkids you old farts have. i've already got 8 and I'm still a very youthful 48. lol
1st one arrived in April
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Seven Grand, two Greatgrand, all healthy and happy.