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Title: Cant handle it much longer
Post by: mia389 on December 14, 2003, 02:41:01 AM
Ok my instructor is starting to mess my head up. Cant think strait and drink alot. Shes only thing on my mind. Been going good last couple months.  Have my private and my instrument now, working on comercial now. Have a christmas vacation for 3 weeks, so going back home up north. I have been working on her slowly and I think its working. We have been spending lots of time together and most it outside of school. Were gonna be going out soon I think. Just keeping ya updated. Still havnt told her how feel yet, not ready for that step

http://www.hitechcreations.com/forums/showthread.php?s=&threadid=97430&highlight=instructor
Title: Cant handle it much longer
Post by: Chairboy on December 14, 2003, 02:44:52 AM
What ever happened to her fiance?
Title: Cant handle it much longer
Post by: mrblack on December 14, 2003, 03:25:55 AM
Do you enjoy making an arse out of yourself?
Keep your personal life personal.
Title: Cant handle it much longer
Post by: FUNKED1 on December 14, 2003, 03:28:32 AM
[Chris Rock]FRIEND ZONE!!![/Chris Rock]
Title: Cant handle it much longer
Post by: _Schadenfreude_ on December 14, 2003, 03:33:48 AM
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Originally posted by Chairboy
What ever happened to her fiance?


He's probably home alone over the xmas season, drinking too much and polishing his gun collection.
Title: Cant handle it much longer
Post by: davidpt40 on December 14, 2003, 03:36:34 AM
(1) Stop being an alcoholic
(2) Develop some new hobbies besides flying to make yourself more interesting
(3) Whatever your feelings for her, divide that by 10, thats probably how she feels about you
(4)  If she has a fiance, go into a 'holding pattern' and do not attempt to engage.

If all else fails, the quickest way to get over someone is to find someone else.
Title: Cant handle it much longer
Post by: Kirin on December 14, 2003, 03:49:24 AM
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Originally posted by mrblack
Do you enjoy making an arse out of yourself?
Keep your personal life personal.


Well, IMO mias thread was one of the best I've read on this board (well, before SW of course... ;) ).  Some honestly tried to help, some remembered their own little misadventures in love, some read it for pure entertainment, some just shook their heads. But it was not offensive in any way, no flamewar, noone got hurt or anything.

Can you say the same about your comments, MrBlack? mia might shared his true feelings, might trolled us badly but far from the arse-like behaviour you show in this BBS!
Title: Cant handle it much longer
Post by: Vulcan on December 14, 2003, 03:54:32 AM
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Originally posted by mrblack
Do you enjoy making an arse out of yourself?
Keep your personal life personal.


This from the guy whos most exciting night this year involved dressing his date up in lingirei from http://www.gloves-r-us.com

:rolleyes:
Title: Cant handle it much longer
Post by: Holden McGroin on December 14, 2003, 03:58:22 AM
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Originally posted by Kirin
but far from the arse-like behaviour you show in this BBS!


  [Gomer voice]  Citizen's arrest!  Personal attack!   Citizen's arrest!  Citizen's arrest!   [/SIZE] [/Gomer voice]
Title: Cant handle it much longer
Post by: lord dolf vader on December 14, 2003, 04:11:48 AM
move. i mean it, your in a tailspin.
Title: Cant handle it much longer
Post by: moot on December 14, 2003, 04:15:07 AM
if she's really "the one" for you, you need not "work it", it'll happen by itself with barely any effort: quit trying so hard and let it come to you.

If she's anything less, you're already too wrapped up in it. Move on, it's way past the time.
Title: Cant handle it much longer
Post by: Stringer on December 14, 2003, 07:55:19 AM
Date a Stripper.
Title: Cant handle it much longer
Post by: Maniac on December 14, 2003, 08:33:11 AM
Stomp on your heart before she does...

Did she read that email you sent her? if so what did she say about it?
Title: Cant handle it much longer
Post by: Wlfgng on December 14, 2003, 10:23:01 AM
moot hit the nail on the head
Title: Cant handle it much longer
Post by: Airhead on December 14, 2003, 10:25:30 AM
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Originally posted by mrblack
Do you enjoy making an arse out of yourself?
 



Why do you ask, Mr.Black? Are you forming a Squad of people who act just like you do?
:rolleyes:
Title: Cant handle it much longer
Post by: JBA on December 14, 2003, 03:06:57 PM
remember what Chairboy said

"Whatever you think you're reading, you are WRONG! Keep telling yourself this right up until she puts her hand down your pants, and then, and ONLY THEN, start to wonder whether or not your original thoughts were correct. "
Title: Cant handle it much longer
Post by: FUNKED1 on December 14, 2003, 03:09:40 PM
Mia every guy over 25 has been there done that.  Crap or get off the pot.  Bust a move, get it over with.  If she wants you (which IMHO she doesn't) then you will know.  If she doesn't like you, then you can spend your time on more productive things like finding a real woman who is available.  In 5 years you will be kicking yourself for wasting so much time.
Title: Cant handle it much longer
Post by: Airhead on December 14, 2003, 03:21:40 PM
Funked, if her mouth is nearly as purty as yours is then I can understand the obsession.

Follow your dreams, Mia. ;)
Title: Cant handle it much longer
Post by: Mark Luper on December 14, 2003, 03:24:59 PM
"Drinking a lot" not only never solved a problem but it has a tendency to put you in a state of depression. It's ok to think about her a lot but really, the drinking problem is what concerns me the most. It doesn't accomplish any thing.
Title: Cant handle it much longer
Post by: AKIron on December 14, 2003, 03:29:13 PM
Mia, she's probably been telling her fiance that you're her gay student/friend.                       Just kiddin' ;)  

Go for it, most women want a man bold enough to go after what they want. Good luck.
Title: Cant handle it much longer
Post by: mrblack on December 14, 2003, 03:30:24 PM
I was just trying to tell him that this is not the place to air it out.
he will not get any good advice here people are just being entertained by his affection for this girl.

And I don't think Mia or his feelings for this girl should be the butt of jokes or for your fun.

Mia If you want to talk to someone and you don't have a "real" persone to speak with then talk to a squadie.
You know we will give you an honest answer.
Title: Cant handle it much longer
Post by: Maniac on December 14, 2003, 03:41:51 PM
Well, she certainly must know what his feelings are by that email he sent her... unless shes dumb as a brick... but then she wouldnt be an instructor i guess...

If she knows and its gone this long without anything happening then Mia is toast...

She might appriciate the "courtship" from him but it will never fly...
Title: Cant handle it much longer
Post by: senna on December 14, 2003, 03:54:14 PM
Why dont you make a wish to the love goddess on venus.
Title: Cant handle it much longer
Post by: mrblack on December 14, 2003, 03:59:30 PM
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Originally posted by Airhead
Why do you ask, Mr.Black? Are you forming a Squad of people who act just like you do?
:rolleyes:


LOL your handle fits you.
Title: Cant handle it much longer
Post by: Airhead on December 14, 2003, 04:09:22 PM
Are you Ripsnort on dope?
Title: Cant handle it much longer
Post by: mrblack on December 14, 2003, 06:21:45 PM
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Originally posted by Airhead
Are you Ripsnort on dope?


I will take that as a compliment thx:D
Title: Cant handle it much longer
Post by: beet1e on December 15, 2003, 03:47:20 AM
Mia389,

I’m glad your pilot training is going well, but I worry about your safety, and the safety of those who fly with you. A good pilot learns from mistakes made – preferably the mistakes of others. But you don’t appear to learn anything from past mistakes. At least not on this BBS.

Look at it: You started a thread about three months ago, airing the “dilemma” facing you in your personal life. You know what this community is like, and you might know the direction a thread such would take, and you might also know that HTC would disapprove of their BBS being used for such purposes. Sure enough, skuzzy locked your thread.

But this, it seems, has taught you nothing. Because here you come, having started another thread in the same vein as the first one which almost seems designed to explore the flight envelope of the BBS and to push your luck to the limits. You even have the temerity to hotlink to your closed thread.  It seems clear to me that this one is going to degenerate in much the same way as the first one, and with the same end result.

It’s most odd that someone seeking a solution to the problem you describe should feel that this BBS might be the most likely source to yield a remedy. Or is this thread just a glorified troll?
Title: Cant handle it much longer
Post by: Dowding on December 15, 2003, 04:25:53 AM
Get another instructor. Then ask this bird out straight with no complicated situation in the background. In fact, tell her she can't be your instructor anymore and tell her why. That is the manly thing to do and she will appreciate the honesty and consideration.

Drinking to solve your problems is never going to get you anywhere nice.
Title: Cant handle it much longer
Post by: jigsaw on December 15, 2003, 01:08:53 PM
*cough* troll *cough*
Doubt he's a pilot.
Title: Cant handle it much longer
Post by: Airhead on December 15, 2003, 01:20:08 PM
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Originally posted by mrblack
I will take that as a compliment thx:D


For you, it IS a compliment :)
Title: Cant handle it much longer
Post by: Octavius on December 15, 2003, 01:27:34 PM
waaait minute.

Mia, define "Drinking alot."  Most on this BBS see that as a giant flashing red light to pass a snap judgement.  It's relative.  

Most college students "drink alot."  Take me for example.  State college = much drinkage.  Been that way for quite some time.  

Before you guys assume you know all the facts, I'd like to hear some more info.  Give us a who, what, why, where, and how often.
Title: Cant handle it much longer
Post by: gofaster on December 15, 2003, 01:32:12 PM
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Originally posted by Stringer
Date a Stripper.


Best advice on here, just remember (a) keep your wallet in your pocket, and (b) tell us all about your "I'm dating a stripper" adventures.

Also, why would you want to hang out with a lady that looks like Grampa from The Munsters when you can go out with Aicha, wooo-oooo Aicha (http://home.powertech.no/nowfree/upload/OMFG.wmv)?
Title: Cant handle it much longer
Post by: midnight Target on December 15, 2003, 03:37:58 PM
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Originally posted by mrblack
IAnd I don't think Mia or his feelings for this girl should be the butt of jokes or for your fun.




You got a point there......


So anyone hear the one where Mia and his instructor go into a bar?
Title: Cant handle it much longer
Post by: BlckMgk on December 15, 2003, 04:19:01 PM
Man up...  those two balls hanging between your legs are what you call testicles.. If you want it, go for it, but don't go for it in a wishy washy maner.. but with some Balls! If you ever feel nervous.. and that lump coming upyour throat... bite down and face it... make it a thrill, because if you want her.. you're going to want every part of her... and that'll make you happy..
Have ever been afraid of something that made you happy?

Only thing I can say, is be comfortable, because if you are, that my friend is you, and you is the only person you can be well.

So.. if she doesn't want to play with your marbles... spread some peanutbutter on em and let her dog lick em...

Good luck partner
-BM
Title: Cant handle it much longer
Post by: Mathman on December 15, 2003, 04:29:04 PM
Jesus H. Christ!!!

In the words of that great pontificator Yogi Berra:  "It's like deja vu all over again"

(http://www.angelfire.com/tv2/kristin83days/hourgl1.gif)

Isn't she the one that looked like Grandpa from the Munsters?

(http://www.pscelebrities.com/alhead1.gif)
Title: Cant handle it much longer
Post by: SOB on December 15, 2003, 04:29:09 PM
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Originally posted by Mark Luper
"Drinking a lot" not only never solved a problem but it has a tendency to put you in a state of depression. It's ok to think about her a lot but really, the drinking problem is what concerns me the most. It doesn't accomplish any thing.

You take that back!  It's not true, Mia, don't listen to the horrible man behind the harley!  ;)
Title: Cant handle it much longer
Post by: crowMAW on December 15, 2003, 08:47:07 PM
I think we need a pic posted before we can tell you what you should do.  Preferably one with her wearing a wet tee shirt or some other revealing top that nicely displays her tits.

Where are you in FL?  We have quite a little CFI hottie in Jax who is learning to fly gliders at my club.  She is about 23 and I think teaches at Embry Riddle.  Watching her climb in and out of a Blanik cockpit is a thing of joy...oh my! :aok
Title: Cant handle it much longer
Post by: Scootter on December 15, 2003, 09:35:57 PM
Mia, Stop handling it and get a date, Please, any date buy one even. but please grow the crap up dude. You are giving pilots a bad name here.:D
Title: Cant handle it much longer
Post by: Saurdaukar on December 15, 2003, 09:37:26 PM
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Originally posted by gofaster

Also, why would you want to hang out with a lady that looks like Grampa from The Munsters when you can go out with Aicha, wooo-oooo Aicha (http://home.powertech.no/nowfree/upload/OMFG.wmv)?


Where in the HELL did you find that?  LOL!

Mia - All of us here (except Funk) have been in your shoes.

100% of all putts left shortof the hole never go in.

Hit the frikken ball and see what happens - the worst possible scenario?  You get ruthlessly embaressed and feel like a tool for a whole 30 minutes.

It just sounds like you need a good old fashioned bellybutton kicking to me.
Title: Cant handle it much longer
Post by: midnight Target on December 15, 2003, 09:40:09 PM
Saur's got it right. watermelon or get off the pot boy!
Title: Cant handle it much longer
Post by: mia389 on December 15, 2003, 11:54:36 PM
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Originally posted by Dowding
Get another instructor. Then ask this bird out straight with no complicated situation in the background. In fact, tell her she can't be your instructor anymore and tell her why. That is the manly thing to do and she will appreciate the honesty and consideration.

Drinking to solve your problems is never going to get you anywhere nice.


Im thinking of this option as well
Title: Cant handle it much longer
Post by: mia389 on December 15, 2003, 11:56:05 PM
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Originally posted by BlckMgk
Man up...  those two balls hanging between your legs are what you call testicles.. If you want it, go for it, but don't go for it in a wishy washy maner.. but with some Balls! If you ever feel nervous.. and that lump coming upyour throat... bite down and face it... make it a thrill, because if you want her.. you're going to want every part of her... and that'll make you happy..
Have ever been afraid of something that made you happy?

Only thing I can say, is be comfortable, because if you are, that my friend is you, and you is the only person you can be well.

So.. if she doesn't want to play with your marbles... spread some peanutbutter on em and let her dog lick em...

Good luck partner
-BM


option 2 :-)
Title: Cant handle it much longer
Post by: mia389 on December 16, 2003, 12:03:40 AM
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Originally posted by midnight Target
Saur's got it right. watermelon or get off the pot boy!


:-) Is it that odvious :D    Think Ive thought all of these replys but wich to do?  Cant wait to get to back here after christmas, Get to  think about it for 3 weeks.
Title: Cant handle it much longer
Post by: Animal on December 16, 2003, 12:34:50 AM
Dude she's all over you, go for her, she's meant for you and you for her, there is no other woman in this heavily populated planet, she is THE ONE and if she ever rejects you as a partner, kill her.
Title: Cant handle it much longer
Post by: Octavius on December 16, 2003, 12:38:53 AM
HAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHA - i love you lamina
Title: Cant handle it much longer
Post by: gofaster on December 16, 2003, 08:42:25 AM
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Originally posted by Saurdaukar
Where in the HELL did you find that?  LOL!


I stole it from another thread posted up by Monkii. :p

Mia389 is all wound up like the guy in the video.  Next thing you know, he'll be dancing in his 10x10 bedroom, under a bare light bulb, lying on his bed with the Disney comforter wearing an adidas sweatshirt.
Title: Cant handle it much longer
Post by: Maniac on December 16, 2003, 04:38:00 PM
Mia, youre a nerd, you will never get her...

Good luck and dont kill yourself trying.

Title: Cant handle it much longer
Post by: Saurdaukar on December 16, 2003, 05:53:16 PM
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Originally posted by Animal
Dude she's all over you, go for her, she's meant for you and you for her, there is no other woman in this heavily populated planet, she is THE ONE and if she ever rejects you as a partner, kill her.


Oh man... I think Im going to have to add this to my sig.

Never a dull moment with you post.  :D