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Title: A Great Man
Post by: yanksfan on April 06, 2007, 04:50:31 AM
He was born near Philidelphia in 1919.He grew up in an Irish catholic family who ran a grocery store, he worked there running a truck to market st in philly every day until he was drafted into the army in 1940.
 What was to be one year in the army of course turned into nearly six with the start of WWII. He attended infantry school at Ft Polk la., artillery school at ft Sill Ok.,Radio school at Ft monmouth Nj, And OCS back at FT Polk.
 He was sent to the pacific where he was training for island operations when the 1St marine div. needed to be rounded out he was attached to them as a 1st leutenant,on the eve of the siapan invasion he was promoted to captain when his CO was killed in some accident on a liberty ship, and he hit the beachs with the first wave of marines.
 He stayed on in siapan until the end of the war chaseing down snipers who would shoot at the B29's taking off for japan.
 After the war he returned to Pa where he raised a family, 11 children by the time he was 42. Moved the family to South Jersey when "that damn acme market opened up" he pronouced acme as "ack-a-me".
 He worked a couple different jobs befor becoming a carpenter, later a contractor,who's company still runs in Glassboro Nj to this day, And finally retireing with his wife of over 60 years in Vineland NJ.
 
 He was a hardworking, kind, honest, understanding and loyal man.  In the early morning hours of April 5th 2007 he closed his eyes for the last time.
 The world lost a great man, I lost my father.

                              James Joseph Dougherty
                                       1919-2007
Title: A Great Man
Post by: Ball on April 06, 2007, 04:52:48 AM
Sorry yanksfan :(

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Post by: eskimo2 on April 06, 2007, 05:03:52 AM
to your father; he had a good run.  

11 kids!  Holy shamolie!

My father-in-law is the same age; he lives with us.
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Post by: Xargos on April 06, 2007, 05:27:36 AM
Sorry to hear.  :(
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Post by: TequilaChaser on April 06, 2007, 05:49:07 AM
Sorry to hear, yanksfan, may you and your family find solace in the days to come, knowing and mentioning all the great triumphs your Father was able to accomplish........

~SALUTE~
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Post by: Masherbrum on April 06, 2007, 06:19:02 AM
<> Mr. Dougherty
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Post by: 69bee on April 06, 2007, 06:39:39 AM
My prayers go out to you and your family. It is sad to lose another great one from the greatest generation.
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Post by: badhorse on April 06, 2007, 06:47:03 AM
Yanksfan
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
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Post by: Angry Samoan on April 06, 2007, 06:51:18 AM
You forgot to add, producing a fine player named yanksfan.

Mr Dougherty
Title: God Bless
Post by: 4deck on April 06, 2007, 07:45:04 AM
My depest sympathies to you and your family
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Post by: SkyRock on April 06, 2007, 07:46:46 AM
Yanks, I am very sorry for your loss.  I wasn' quite ready for reading your story, but then again noone is ever ready for a loss such as this.  I do believe in what has already been posted about your father from another player in this thread, "he had a good run!"  Be thankful you had him this long and again, I am sorry for your loss.  I am sure he was a very proud man!

Mark  
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Post by: Shifty on April 06, 2007, 07:49:47 AM
I'm sorry for your loss Yanksfan. I'm happy that you had the kind of man you did for a father. I know the rest of your life you can find comfort and happiness in the memory of him.:)
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Post by: thndregg on April 06, 2007, 07:52:24 AM
:(
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Post by: pipz on April 06, 2007, 08:00:47 AM
My buddys Mom use to pronounce Acme the same way.It must be a local thing from back in the day or somethin I could never figure it.Sorry to hear of your loss YF.

Pipz
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Post by: Widewing on April 06, 2007, 08:05:45 AM
My heartfelt condolences to you and your family, Yanksfan.

:(

My best,

Widewing
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Post by: Ghosth on April 06, 2007, 08:08:14 AM
Nothing lasts forever Yanksfan, and while I am indeed truly sorry for your loss.
I expect he was getting tired and needed a rest.  Sounds like he lived a truly good life.

Sounds to me like you were lucky to have had such a man for a father.

Our condolences and a from all the 332nd Flying Mongrels.
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Post by: Gaidin on April 06, 2007, 08:41:16 AM
Deepest sympathy Yanksfan.  Best possible to you and your family in this time of sorrow.  You will be kept in our prayers.
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Post by: 68Ripper on April 06, 2007, 08:45:09 AM
My condolences Yanksfan. James Joseph Dougherty
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Post by: Captain Virgil Hilts on April 06, 2007, 08:53:18 AM
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Post by: Joachim on April 06, 2007, 09:06:15 AM
I'll have a drink on him tonight :aok
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Post by: BBBB on April 06, 2007, 09:11:03 AM
I'm sorry for your loss Yanksfan. If I was a smarter guy I would say something heart felt and meaningful. But I do not have those words. to your father. I hope you are doing all right. If you need anything just ask.


-Sp0t
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Post by: Oldman731 on April 06, 2007, 09:14:34 AM
Quote
Originally posted by Ghosth
Sounds to me like you were lucky to have had such a man for a father.

Agreed.  And he was fortunate to have you for a son.

- oldman
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Post by: Max on April 06, 2007, 09:18:33 AM
/O
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Post by: BaldEagl on April 06, 2007, 10:05:36 AM
Sorry to hear Yanksfan.
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Post by: FrodeMk3 on April 06, 2007, 10:15:01 AM
Yanksfan, I really can't come up with the right words...I humbly offer all condolences, and a .
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Post by: rabbidrabbit on April 06, 2007, 10:31:03 AM
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Post by: Eagler on April 06, 2007, 10:47:59 AM
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Post by: Solar10 on April 06, 2007, 01:16:26 PM
My condolense to you and your family Yanksfan.
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Post by: -VM- on April 06, 2007, 01:27:48 PM
I hope my life is that full when it is done. I hope I'm half the dad he obviously was to you . I'll pass on the 11 kids tho WHEW. 5 about done me in. I dont drink much anymore but a whiskey sure sounds good right now.

SALUTE MISTER DOUGHERTY
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Post by: texasmom on April 06, 2007, 01:35:06 PM
Warmest regards to you and your family during this time of loss.  Thanks for sharing that with us Yank.
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Post by: Mulligan on April 06, 2007, 02:53:05 PM
My Prayers are for you and your family  S!


Mulligan
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Post by: Guppy35 on April 06, 2007, 02:57:06 PM
Sincerest condolences Yanksfan.
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Post by: Hornet33 on April 06, 2007, 03:18:25 PM
The Final Inspection

The soldier stood and faced his God,
Which must always come to pass;
He hoped his shoes were shining bright,
Just as brightly as his brass.

"Step forward now, soldier,
How shall I deal with you?
Have you turned the other cheek?
To my church have you been true?"

The soldier squared his shoulders and said,
"No, Lord, I guess I ain't;
Because those of us who carry guns,
Can't always be a saint.

I've had to work most Sundays,
And at times my talk was rough;
I've had to break your rules my Lord,
Because the world is awfully tough.

But, I never took a thing
That wasn't mine to keep;
Though I worked a lot of overtime,
When the bills got just too steep.

And I never passed a cry for help,
Though at times I shook with fear;
And sometimes ... God forgive me,
I've wept unmanly tears.

I know I don't deserve a place
Among the people here;
They never wanted me around,
Except to calm their fears.

If you've a place for me here, Lord,
It needn't be so grand;
I never expected or had too much,
But if you don't, I'll understand."

There was a silence all around the throne,
Where the saints often trod;
As the soldier waited quietly,
For the judgment of his God.

"Step forward now, soldier,
You've borne your burdens well;
Come walk peacefully on Heaven's streets,
You've done your time in HELL!"
~ Author Unknown ~

Godspeed James Joseph Dougherty
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Post by: morfiend on April 06, 2007, 03:32:27 PM
how do I follow Hornet..
  I'm truely sorry to hear that.
 

  Your Friend.............
                                  John
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Post by: Drano on April 06, 2007, 03:42:14 PM
Sorry to hear, Yanksfan.

Drano
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Post by: Sting138 on April 06, 2007, 03:49:31 PM
My Deepest condolensces and sympathies to you and your family!!  
<>S<> To you and your dad!
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Post by: Hap on April 06, 2007, 04:01:23 PM
Yanks,

Prayers for all.  I lost my Mom 3 years ago, and my Dad when I was 18.

I also became the archivist of the family pictures.

You'll find a way to share with best stories with those you love.  The ones that lay out the best morals.

Condolences,

hap
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Post by: fuzeman on April 06, 2007, 04:32:01 PM
James Joseph Dougherty
1919-2007


Title: A Great Man
Post by: yanksfan on April 06, 2007, 07:13:36 PM
I found out about my father, yesterday morning at work.Of course his death was on my mind since that moment, but it didn't really register until this morning.
 I run an auto center and as the funeral is not until thurs. the 12th,I tryed to rearange my schedule to take the time off then,and it was some juggling, this morning over coffee and reading the boards it started to hit me, thats when I wrote this thread, much easier for me to type it then say it, I actually regreted posting it here, I didn't mean to make a fuss.  Today was a very long day for me.
 But im so glad I did, thank you all for your kind words they really mean alot to me as I am not one that enjoys face to face emotion. I was doing pretty well keeping it togeather until i read Hornet33's poem, ty for that.
 
 Thankyou all,          Yanks
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Post by: Hornet33 on April 06, 2007, 07:33:18 PM
Your welcome sir. By the way, your dad and I stomped some of the same ground. I attended Army basic and AIT at Ft Sill. I read that he was there, I remembered that poem and it just seemed to fit.

I'm sorry for your loss, but remember he is in a better place now.

As a fellow redleg and Irish Catholic myself, I'll hoist a glass in his honor for his service, and offer up a prayer thanking the Lord that He let us have him at a time when we needed him most, and to take care of him now that he's with the Lord.
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Post by: Dichotomy on April 06, 2007, 07:49:15 PM
Yanks all I can say is that to take a measure of a man all you have to do is look at their children.

Every single interaction I've had with you in this game has been a pleasant and positive experience.  Youre a friend to me as I hope I am to you.

Reading about him reminded me of one of the greatest men I will ever know my grandfather.

From all of my family to you and yours our heartfelt thoughts and prayers will be with you through this time.

James Joseph Dougherty
and Godspeed
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Post by: yanksfan on April 06, 2007, 08:18:39 PM
Quote
Originally posted by Hornet33
By the way, your dad and I stomped some of the same ground. I attended Army basic and AIT at Ft Sill.  


 Funny, so did I, in 1982, was a long 32 weeks. "osut training"

 And thank you again for your the poem.
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Post by: Slash27 on April 06, 2007, 08:20:01 PM
James Joseph Dougherty
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Post by: storch on April 06, 2007, 10:01:16 PM
my condolences to you and your family yanksfan.
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Post by: LYNX on April 06, 2007, 10:40:41 PM
To you your whole family and a big to ya dad.
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Post by: 68Boomer on April 06, 2007, 11:26:36 PM
My condolences and prayers to you and your family YanksFan
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Post by: dracon on April 06, 2007, 11:31:37 PM
A Soldier Died Today
 
   He was getting old and paunchy,
     And his hair was falling fast;
   He sat around the Legion,
    Telling stories of the past.
 
   He told of a war he had fought in
      And the deeds that he had done;
  In his exploits with his buddies ...
     They were heroes....everyone.
 
  And 'tho sometimes to his neighbors,
      His tales became a joke,
  All his buddies listened ...
     For they knew whereof he spoke.
 
  But we'll hear his tales no longer,
     For ol' Bob has passed away;
 And the world's a little poorer,
    For a soldier died today.

 He won't be mourned by many,
   Just his children and his wife;
 For he just lived an ordinary,
  Very quiet sort of life.
 
 He held a job and raised a family,
   Quietly going on his way;
 And the world won't note his passing,
    'Tho a Soldier died today.
 
 When politicians leave this earth,
     Their bodies lie in state;
 While thousands note their passing,
    And proclaim that they were great.
 
 Papers tell of their life stories,
   From the time that they were young;
 But the passing of a soldier,
   Goes unnoticed and unsung.
 
 Is the greatest contribution,
   To the welfare of our land,
 Some jerk who breaks his promise,
   And cons his fellow man?

 Or the ordinary fellow,
   Who in the time of war and strife,
 Goes off to serve his Country
  And offers up his life?
 
 The politician's stipend
   And the style in which he lives,
 Are sometimes disproportionate,
    To the service that he gives.

 While the ordinary soldier,
   Who offered up his all,
 Is paid off with a medal
   And perhaps a pension ... small.
 
 It's so easy to forget them,
   For it was so long ago,
 That our Bob's and Jim's and Johnny's,
   Went to battle, but we know ...
 It was not the politicians,
   With their compromise and ploys,
 Who won for us the freedom,
   That our Country now enjoys.
 
 Should you find yourself in danger,
   With your enemies at hand ...
 Would you really want some cop-out,
    With his ever waffling stand?
 Or would you want a Soldier,
   Who has sworn to defend,
 His home, his kin, and Country,
   And would fight until the end?
 
  He was just a common Soldier
    And his ranks are growing thin,
  But his presence should remind us,
    We may need his like again.
 
  For when countries are in conflict,
   Then we find the Soldier's part,
  Is to clean up all the troubles,
    The damn politicians start.
 
  If we cannot do him honor,
   While he's here to hear the praise,
 Then at least let's give him homage,
   At the ending of his days.
 
  Perhaps just a simple headline,
    In the paper that might say,
 
 
    "OUR COUNTRY IS IN MOURNING"
   
         "For a Soldier Died Today."
 
              ~ Author Unknown ~


With deepest sympathy and as is the motto of the 31st FG your DAD is: "Returning With Honor"
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Post by: JB88 on April 07, 2007, 01:46:07 AM
:(
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Post by: Kermit de frog on April 07, 2007, 04:00:59 AM
Quote
Originally posted by fuzeman
James Joseph Dougherty
1919-2007







You are lucky to have had a great person as your father.
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Post by: wipass on April 07, 2007, 03:13:55 PM
What you wrote was a moving tribute to your Dad

Salute


wipass
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Post by: daddog on April 07, 2007, 03:53:23 PM
I am sorry for your loss.

My condolences Yanksfan to you and your family.
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Post by: Mr No Name on April 07, 2007, 04:44:12 PM
Sorry for your loss, you were fortunate to have him a very long time, although it's never long enough.

Best to you and yours.
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Post by: Tsnow on April 07, 2007, 05:07:39 PM
Yanks,
I am so sorry.

"Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well-preserved body, but rather to skid in broadsided, thoroughly worn out and loudly proclaiming: WOW! What a Ride!"


Tsnow
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Post by: Hajo on April 07, 2007, 07:08:48 PM
My deepest sympathies and condolances to you and yours.

He sounds like that he commanded respect that he fully earned.  He lived his life, lived it well, did a good job, and now is rewarded.
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Post by: rodak on April 09, 2007, 09:39:57 AM
Sorry to hear about you Dad yanksfan..... I'm from Vineland too but I don't think I ever met him as there's so many people here these days.  Are the services going to be here in Vineland?
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Post by: expat on April 09, 2007, 09:45:14 AM
Sorry for your loss  
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Post by: badmood on April 10, 2007, 01:54:29 AM
Sorry for your loss Yanks,

My condolences  to you and your family... sir.
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Post by: parin on April 10, 2007, 02:01:26 AM