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Title: I'm going to have some AWESOME inlaws!!!
Post by: Serenity on August 27, 2007, 11:12:12 PM
LOL!!! Okay, well, my 15th birthday was on saturday, and my parents and my girlfriend's parents surprised me by taking me out to dinner. Well, her parents also got me a gift. It was a shirt. Now, lets make this clear. I'm 15. And my 15 year old girlfriend's parents got me the following shirt, a day before she spent the WHOLE day alone with me:

"Lets flip a coin.
Heads I get tail,
Tails I get head"


GOD I'm gonna have some awesome inlaws, lol!
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Post by: Chairboy on August 27, 2007, 11:23:42 PM
It was a test, if you didn't look at them blankly and say "I don't get it", then you failed.

:D
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Post by: Serenity on August 27, 2007, 11:28:06 PM
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Originally posted by Chairboy
It was a test, if you didn't look at them blankly and say "I don't get it", then you failed.

:D


I laughed my arse off and said "Bugger, if only I had a coin!"
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Post by: Mark Luper on August 27, 2007, 11:29:36 PM
Happy birthday Serenity!

Read your mail.

Mark
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Post by: Swager on August 27, 2007, 11:31:05 PM
You are one lucky young man!  That was their way of telling you, "Go for it!"  with their daughter!!
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Post by: Serenity on August 27, 2007, 11:31:27 PM
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Originally posted by Serenity
I laughed my arse off and said "Bugger, if only I had a coin!"


By the way, this quote is a joke. Thought id clarify before Furball or someone came in here to rip me a new one...


I did mark, thanks.
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Post by: BaDkaRmA158Th on August 27, 2007, 11:38:54 PM
That or she is a flyin' flippin' psycho and even her parents want her out of there lifes. Hopefully your not so much as sucker the parents try to pawn her off on you.

"look hun, lets buy him a shirt and dinner and get her the hell out of our house!"

Sure they want you do hit it, you knock her up, you take her..fooooor...eeeevvvveeeeee rrr.

Dahahaaaaaaaa.


*ehem* yeah whatever, hit it up.
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Post by: Serenity on August 27, 2007, 11:48:09 PM
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Originally posted by BaDkaRmA158Th
That or she is a flyin' flippin' psycho and even her parents want her out of there lifes. Hopefully your not so much as sucker the parents try to pawn her off on you.

"look hun, lets buy him a shirt and dinner and get her the hell out of our house!"

Sure they want you do hit it, you knock her up, you take her..fooooor...eeeevvvveeeeee rrr.

Dahahaaaaaaaa.


*ehem* yeah whatever, hit it up.


If we DID do anything, you folks wouldnt find my body when her parents were done with me. They would KILL me! But at least this shows they have a sense of humor.
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Post by: cav58d on August 28, 2007, 12:25:20 AM
You're 15 and your already talking about future inlaws?  With all due respect, has your body even finished going through puberty?

Anyway's, post pictures of her in 3 years or whenever she is 18, and we'll let ya know if she's worth it =).

Fun shirt by the way...Reminds me of something from t-shirt hell.
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Post by: Spikes on August 28, 2007, 12:37:47 AM
:eek:
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Post by: RightF00T on August 28, 2007, 12:50:08 AM
Here's my G/F:

(http://forumspile.com/IBTL-Trinity.jpg)
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Post by: cav58d on August 28, 2007, 12:50:35 AM
Do us a favor and DELETE that picture NOW before you get all of us in trouble.
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Post by: Serenity on August 28, 2007, 12:51:02 AM
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Originally posted by RightF00T
Here's my G/F:

(http://forumspile.com/IBTL-Trinity.jpg)


I'm anticipating a lock with the tightening of rules, but I dont see any rule violations...
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Post by: stockli on August 28, 2007, 01:13:35 AM
She looks so happy in that pick.
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Post by: cav58d on August 28, 2007, 01:20:32 AM
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Originally posted by Serenity
Well, 18 is 2.5 years off, but what do you think now, HUH? lol. (By the way, that ISNT underwear. Its a spaghetti strap shirt and shorts)



Serenity...I don't know if you posted a provocative picture on purpose but the "HUH"? part makes me think you did....

1-  I doubt your 15 year old fiancee would really like that...

2-  Your in a forum where 99.9% of the other users are adults, and dont want to see pictures of 15 year old girls like that...Not to mention, even though you are of age, posting that picture or pictures like that could get YOU in trouble for kiddie porn...
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Post by: Serenity on August 28, 2007, 01:25:12 AM
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Originally posted by cav58d
Serenity...I don't know if you posted a provocative picture on purpose but the "HUH"? part makes me think you did....

1-  I doubt your 15 year old fiancee would really like that...

2-  Your in a forum where 99.9% of the other users are adults, and dont want to see pictures of 15 year old girls like that...Not to mention, even though you are of age, posting that picture or pictures like that could get YOU in trouble for kiddie porn...


Actually, i dont post ANYTHING of her without checking with her first. She thinks this conversation is hilarious. However, I agree, in hindsight that was pretty stupid. Picture is gone.
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Post by: Curval on August 28, 2007, 08:24:53 AM
15 and talking about marriage and in-laws?  Crazy.
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Post by: AWMac on August 28, 2007, 08:33:32 AM
Yessem we all done left the doublewide trailer and went to Dennys for sum eats an dey got me dis here kewl shirt....

:rofl

Mac
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Post by: Halo on August 28, 2007, 10:02:50 AM
After reading that and thinking back to when I was 15, the overriding thought is, Wow, you have such a lot of living ahead of you!  Stay flexible, keep a good sense of humor, and roll with the punches, because they are coming along with the thrills and good times.

And I'll repeat the best advice my Father ever gave me:  Never do it with anyone you wouldn't marry.  

And I'll add:  ... and be able to support in the manner she deserves.

-- Methuselah   :D
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Post by: Maverick on August 28, 2007, 10:28:40 AM
Mac.......  :rofl
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Post by: Curval on August 28, 2007, 12:39:34 PM
I re-read the initial post...the T shirt is basically saying "Have sex with our daughter".  If I was 15 I'd think that was cool.  Being 42 and having a daughter of my own I think it is very weird.
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Post by: cav58d on August 28, 2007, 12:49:01 PM
Serenity-  Maybe you can go on the show "Engaged and Underage"...AKA  I'm a fluff'n moron and will most likely be divorced in the next decade because I was too stupid not to date anyone else, and I now realized that making these big decisions at 15 years old, was actually a really dumb idea.  =)
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Post by: Jackal1 on August 28, 2007, 01:06:35 PM
Jerry Springer candidate. :)
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Post by: WilldCrd on August 28, 2007, 01:13:40 PM
DAMNIT!! i missed the pic!!!

was she hot?
if hypothetically she was 18+ would i hit it?

oh well time to go back thru my collection of victoria pratt photo's
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Post by: Stringer on August 28, 2007, 08:00:42 PM
Why would your Aunt and Uncle give you a shirt like that???
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Post by: DREDIOCK on August 28, 2007, 08:25:01 PM
Your all a bunch of perverts!







Keep up the good work!
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Post by: Denholm on August 28, 2007, 08:33:58 PM
I'm 17 and never had anything near a relationship. If you find out everything about her chances are you will be bored when you get married, and boredom leads to painful divorces.

Just remember, when you get married, it's the same as adding two different colors of play dough together. When you get a divorce you are attempting to separate both colors from one another. Obviously everyone should know just how difficult this is.

Have some good times, just don't break the rule barrier.:aok
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Post by: Serenity on August 28, 2007, 08:34:25 PM
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Originally posted by Halo
After reading that and thinking back to when I was 15, the overriding thought is, Wow, you have such a lot of living ahead of you!  Stay flexible, keep a good sense of humor, and roll with the punches, because they are coming along with the thrills and good times.

And I'll repeat the best advice my Father ever gave me:  Never do it with anyone you wouldn't marry.  

And I'll add:  ... and be able to support in the manner she deserves.

-- Methuselah   :D


Really, REALLY good advice on both counts! I agree completely with both. Now, the inlaws comment was a little flame-baiting, i'll admit, but I couldnt help myself :D
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Post by: Serenity on August 28, 2007, 09:08:13 PM
Alright, since I got a BUNCH of requests to see a picture of her, Ill post another one, (MUCH less provacative though). This is her:

(http://a914.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/95/l_54e1220f013e751280479c1e39ee6339.jpg)

(http://a812.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/49/l_3dd091b393439ef566cf33f534d04433.jpg)

(http://a732.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/102/l_5f600873710b0405819a0efe17640a3b.jpg)
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Post by: Chairboy on August 28, 2007, 09:15:05 PM
Yep, nothing creepy about a bunch of 30-60 year old crotchety old guys looking at pictures of your 15 year old girlfriend.
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Post by: Serenity on August 28, 2007, 09:17:35 PM
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Originally posted by Chairboy
Yep, nothing creepy about a bunch of 30-60 year old crotchety old guys looking at pictures of your 15 year old girlfriend.


lol. Nice...
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Post by: Maverick on August 28, 2007, 09:20:14 PM
You are being foolish in the extreme of you are planning to make one of the largest commitments of your entire life at the age of 15. You have no idea of what the world is really like at that age. Frankly most 25 year olds are having a hard time seeing the world past their hormones with more than double the life experience you have had.

Before you take on responsibility for others you should have learned to take responsibility for yourself. That means living on your own, by your own means and getting comfortable with yourself. You've hardly even been introduced to yourself yet. Yes that sounds a bit strange at first blush, but your body hasn't yet even come to terms with it's growth and chemistry yet. You have no idea how it's going to settle down and you are contemplating having another person in your life, every day of your life?

You have a ton of growing yet to do and much to experience that will shape your life. Get that accomplished before you decide to limit all of your social and other relationships based on one primary relationship.
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Post by: Serenity on August 28, 2007, 09:22:58 PM
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Originally posted by Maverick
You are being foolish in the extreme of you are planning to make one of the largest commitments of your entire life at the age of 15. You have no idea of what the world is really like at that age. Frankly most 25 year olds are having a hard time seeing the world past their hormones with more than double the life experience you have had.

Before you take on responsibility for others you should have learned to take responsibility for yourself. That means living on your own, by your own means and getting comfortable with yourself. You've hardly even been introduced to yourself yet. Yes that sounds a bit strange at first blush, but your body hasn't yet even come to terms with it's growth and chemistry yet. You have no idea how it's going to settle down and you are contemplating having another person in your life, every day of your life?

You have a ton of growing yet to do and much to experience that will shape your life. Get that accomplished before you decide to limit all of your social and other relationships based on one primary relationship.



Like I said, them being my future inlaws, was flame-baiting. It intruiges me to hear all of the negative oppinions on the subject.
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Post by: Mark Luper on August 28, 2007, 09:30:15 PM
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Originally posted by Serenity
Like I said, them being my future inlaws, was flame-baiting. It intruiges me to hear all of the negative oppinions on the subject.


I have been enamored of the opposite sex since I was 10 years old. I have had them on my mind for as long as I can remember.

She's a lovely young lady Serenity and I would imagine a great companion and a lot of fun to be around. Make the most of life while you can. Having someone to do that with you makes it a lot more fun. Real friendships are hard to come by, hang on to this one as long as you can.

Word.

Mark
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Post by: Chairboy on August 28, 2007, 09:33:27 PM
Getting married doesn't magically fix or cement anything, btw.  Shack up for a few years, if you're still interested after that, then get married.  Folks who shack up like that before marriage are less likely to get a divorce in the long run.
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Post by: Maverick on August 28, 2007, 09:33:35 PM
If you are looking at everything being a "negative" here, other than the back slapping and hooting, then you aren't reading them as intended.
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Post by: AWMac on August 28, 2007, 09:45:25 PM
I'll shows you all whens I finish in sum yers from dat carny jobs I bean plyin fer and hav heaps o monies.

Looks me up sum dey whens I hab mys own doublewid traller, my owns dawgs n truk n muy kidds.

I'ms 15 n's I noes whuts Liifs bout so ya'll stop messin wit me.

:D
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Post by: Meatwad on August 28, 2007, 09:51:56 PM
I hate to tell you, but getting engaged at 15 is not a smart thing to do.


You both are still young. Go out and have fun out in the world with other people. Do the things that kids like to do at that age.


Five years from now if you both got married when you two were 16 (however local laws there work), you will be very lucky if the marriage is still intact. If not, you will look back on it and regret giving up your youth. Your youth now and the fun times you have with your friends at this age only come once. Dont let them pass by, take every advantage to create fun memories of now before you get too old and regret not doing them.


I threw away my youth by getting married too early. And yes, I regret it by missing out on all the fun things others my age were doing while I gave up college to work full time to support us. I will never make that same mistake again.


I am speaking from personal experience on this.
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Post by: Serenity on August 28, 2007, 10:54:35 PM
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Originally posted by Maverick
If you are looking at everything being a "negative" here, other than the back slapping and hooting, then you aren't reading them as intended.


I mean the lovely stories people have a tendency to break into here about how marriage is such a horrible thing.
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Post by: Chairboy on August 28, 2007, 10:59:19 PM
No, marriage can be great.  The wrong marriage is horrible.  That's why I suggest shacking up first, you find out if you're right for each other.
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Post by: Serenity on August 28, 2007, 11:02:43 PM
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Originally posted by Chairboy
No, marriage can be great.  The wrong marriage is horrible.  That's why I suggest shacking up first, you find out if you're right for each other.


Yeah. A lot of you guys assume ive made up my mind to marry her. My parents got divorced. I KNOW how nasty it can get. I HAVE made up my mind, just not the way you folks think. Ive decided to... well, think more about it before deciding! And thats a decision I made a while ago.
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Post by: Xargos on August 28, 2007, 11:11:45 PM
Make sure you get a dowry if the girls family wants to pawn her off so fast.
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Post by: Serenity on August 28, 2007, 11:13:00 PM
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Originally posted by Xargos
Make sure you get a dowry if the girls family wants to pawn her off so fast.


lol. Trust me, theyre not pawning her off. They KNOW if they wanted to get rid of her theyd have no problem. It was a joke, and I know if I ever tried something like that, they WOULD kill me.
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Post by: cav58d on August 28, 2007, 11:15:18 PM
Serenity...What you say about being 15 and basically being engaged is just laughable.  No disrespect, and no one is poking fun at you, it's just very very comical to everyone else.  You cant drive a car.  You cant buy a ticket for a rated R movie.  You cant join the military, and your body hasnt even finished going through its adolescent growing stages, and you are thinking of marriage?

I know it's a really happy though to you right now, but i'm nervous for you that it will go to both of your heads, and you will be trapped into thinking, I HAVE TO GET MARRIED.

Listen, there is absolutely nothing wrong with marriage.  It's the most beautiful thing in the world IMO (most of the time).  But man...You have never even been with a WOMAN before.  Your girlfriend is just that.  A YOUNG GIRL.

I know this is really fun for you right now, but I really hope you don't both end up convincing eachother you have to get married when you turn 18.  You are barely teenagers.  Your not even close to being adults...I don't care how mature you are, 15 is 15.  I'm not saying marriage is a mistake what so ever, but dont make the mistake of manifesting up in your mind that you two HAVE to make this committment, when you have never known anyone else.

By the way...Every girl I have dated at one point has been the love of my life at some point. (well...uhh....some...others were just for fun =)..)

Anways...After I broke up with one I was really into, I would meet another a couple months later who was 10x's better.  Then i'd break up with her, and a couple months later meet another who was 20 x's better.....

Do you get my point?

I dont believe in "TRUE LOVE".  Right now I am in the most fantastic relationship in my life, and I have never been more happy.  Really...Its really hard to describe.  Would I be absolutely devestated if we broke up?  Sure...Prolly for a long time....But at no point would I ever say, ohh no, I lost it all, and will never have it again....

Odds are, with the 3 billion or so other women on the planet, i'm pretty sure I could find someone just as good, if not even better.

dont limit yourself until you've played in other bushes.....Some will be filled with thorns....Others with candy......But most are just a lot of fun....

15.....maybe bushes is too early lmfao
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Post by: Serenity on August 28, 2007, 11:17:30 PM
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Originally posted by cav58d
Serenity...What you say about being 15 and basically being engaged is just laughable.  No disrespect, and no one is poking fun at you, it's just very very comical to everyone else.  You cant drive a car.  You cant buy a ticket for a rated R movie.  You cant join the military, and your body hasnt even finished going through its adolescent growing stages, and you are thinking of marriage?

I know it's a really happy though to you right now, but i'm nervous for you that it will go to both of your heads, and you will be trapped into thinking, I HAVE TO GET MARRIED.

Listen, there is absolutely nothing wrong with marriage.  It's the most beautiful thing in the world IMO (most of the time).  But man...You have never even been with a WOMAN before.  Your girlfriend is just that.  A YOUNG GIRL.

I know this is really fun for you right now, but I really hope you don't both end up convincing eachother you have to get married when you turn 18.  You are barely teenagers.  Your not even close to being adults...I don't care how mature you are, 15 is 15.  I'm not saying marriage is a mistake what so ever, but dont make the mistake of manifesting up in your mind that you two HAVE to make this committment, when you have never known anyone else.

By the way...Every girl I have dated at one point has been the love of my life at some point. (well...uhh....some...others were just for fun =)..)

Anways...After I broke up with one I was really into, I would meet another a couple months later who was 10x's better.  Then i'd break up with her, and a couple months later meet another who was 20 x's better.....

Do you get my point?

I dont believe in "TRUE LOVE".  Right now I am in the most fantastic relationship in my life, and I have never been more happy.  Really...Its really hard to describe.  Would I be absolutely devestated if we broke up?  Sure...Prolly for a long time....But at no point would I ever say, ohh no, I lost it all, and will never have it again....

Odds are, with the 3 billion or so other women on the planet, i'm pretty sure I could find someone just as good, if not even better.

dont limit yourself until you've played in other bushes.....Some will be filled with thorns....Others with candy......But most are just a lot of fun....

15.....maybe bushes is too early lmfao


You appear to keep missing the part where I say "IM NOT ENGAGED". I put ONE word in to see what kind of reactions I would get.
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Post by: cav58d on August 28, 2007, 11:18:15 PM
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Originally posted by Serenity
Yeah. A lot of you guys assume ive made up my mind to marry her. My parents got divorced. I KNOW how nasty it can get. I HAVE made up my mind, just not the way you folks think. Ive decided to... well, think more about it before deciding! And thats a decision I made a while ago.


At 15 years old, you shouldnt even be thinking about that.

Listen carefully.

Your thought process should be like this (at least mine was at your age).

1-  Who do I know that drives?
2-  Where can I get beer, or who do I know that can get my beer?
3-  Who can I try and mess around with?
4-  How much I hate freshmen year of high school
5-  As a sophmore, can I possibly get playing time on Varsity
6-  Naked Girls
7-  food

and so on and so on............
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Post by: cav58d on August 28, 2007, 11:19:11 PM
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Originally posted by Serenity
You appear to keep missing the part where I say "IM NOT ENGAGED". I put ONE word in to see what kind of reactions I would get.


I know your not engaged....But you are entertaining the idea at 15...

whatever, have fun man...Send me some Hawaiin sun, i'm sick of the North East.
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Post by: Xargos on August 28, 2007, 11:19:53 PM
In order to have in-laws you'll need to be Married, hence the title of the thread.
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Post by: Serenity on August 28, 2007, 11:22:33 PM
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Originally posted by Xargos
In order to have in-laws you'll need to be Married, hence the title of the thread.


Hence my saying I was flame-baiting. Its amazing, I start a "Spitfires SUCK!" thread and its immidiately flame-baiting, but I shout "IM FLAME BAITING" and everyone doesnt believe me, lol.


And Cav, of COURSE im entertaining the idea. Theres no point in wasting time in a relationship if you cannot see any future in it. So of course its a THOUGHT. But nothing more.
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Post by: Serenity on August 28, 2007, 11:24:38 PM
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Originally posted by cav58d
At 15 years old, you shouldnt even be thinking about that.

Listen carefully.

Your thought process should be like this (at least mine was at your age).

1-  Who do I know that drives?
2-  Where can I get beer, or who do I know that can get my beer?
3-  Who can I try and mess around with?
4-  How much I hate freshmen year of high school
5-  As a sophmore, can I possibly get playing time on Varsity
6-  Naked Girls
7-  food

and so on and so on............


1- I know more than enough people who drive
2- I hate beer, and alcohol in general. Yes, ive had it, and I hate it.
3- Already got someone to mess around with
4- I actually liked my freshman year
5- We have ONE male varisty team, and I dont fancy football in this state
6- Ive got an on-call naked girl already
7- she comes with food too.
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Post by: cav58d on August 28, 2007, 11:29:40 PM
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Originally posted by Serenity
Theres no point in wasting time in a relationship if you cannot see any future in it.  


lmao

;)

Don't even bother with college bud.  Your not gonna have fun lol
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Post by: Xargos on August 28, 2007, 11:31:34 PM
Next time a pretty-pretty turns your head, you better take a look at her mother instead.
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Post by: Serenity on August 28, 2007, 11:31:58 PM
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Originally posted by cav58d
lmao

;)


Why is it so funny that I take an interest in my own future. I plan what job I want to have, I plan the kind of college I want to attend... This is just as big of a decision, so why NOT at least THINK about it. I'm not running out to buy a ring, but I spend a lot of time with this person, and a lot of money too. I would like to know that i'm not wasting both.
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Post by: Chairboy on August 28, 2007, 11:40:31 PM
Let me guess, nobody else can understand the depths of your feeling.  She's different...

You know all those 18 year old divorcees, bitter about life?  They felt exactly the same way you do right now.  When I was 16, I realized that 15 year old me was a handsomehunk.  When I was 17, I realized that 16 year old me was a *******.  When I was 18, I realized that 17 year old me was an idiot, etc.

It starts to slow down as you get older, but I don't think it fully stops.
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Post by: cav58d on August 28, 2007, 11:40:46 PM
This is my last post in the thread...Do what you want, whatever makes you happy.  I just hope you both dont convince yourselves that this is what you HAVE to do.

And the reason I laugh is because of your age.  I've seen you on the forums for years, and I know your a bright, and very mature kid.  Prolly more so than a lot of people your age, and a lot of people older than you.  I also dont doubt that you most likely know how to treat a girl right.  You understand whats important in a relationship.  It's thats a good thing, and prolly something most people my age haven't come close to grasping....

That said...I laugh because as intelligent, friendly and mature as you appear to be, you still have no idea about this idea you are entertaining.  As mature as you are, you are still a very young boy.  I bet you do very well with adults in person, but it still provides no real understanding of the different social and emotional relationships that adults practice, compared to the social and emotional level that adolescents practice.  5 years from now when you look back on 15 years of age, it will blow your mind....10 years from that, and so on and so on...

Listen man....Have fun, just dont ever convince yourself that you have to do something, when you really haven't experienced anything "adult", nor mature relationship.
Title: I'm going to have some AWESOME inlaws!!!
Post by: Serenity on August 28, 2007, 11:43:02 PM
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Originally posted by cav58d
This is my last post in the thread...Do what you want, whatever makes you happy.  I just hope you both dont convince yourselves that this is what you HAVE to do.

And the reason I laugh is because of your age.  I've seen you on the forums for years, and I know your a bright, and very mature kid.  Prolly more so than a lot of people your age, and a lot of people older than you.  I also dont doubt that you most likely know how to treat a girl right.  You understand whats important in a relationship.  It's thats a good thing, and prolly something most people my age haven't come close to grasping....

That said...I laugh because as intelligent, friendly and mature as you appear to be, you still have no idea about this idea you are entertaining.  As mature as you are, you are still a very young boy.  I bet you do very well with adults in person, but it still provides no real understanding of the different social and emotional relationships that adults practice, compared to the social and emotional level that adolescents practice.  5 years from now when you look back on 15 years of age, it will blow your mind....10 years from that, and so on and so on...

Listen man....Have fun, just dont ever convince yourself that you have to do something, when you really haven't experienced anything "adult", nor mature relationship.


I won't. Thank you for your concern.
Title: I'm going to have some AWESOME inlaws!!!
Post by: Vudak on August 29, 2007, 12:15:24 AM
Good grief, guys, the kid's 15! He's got a high school sweetheart, they're in looooove...  "It's gonna last forever," the world is their oyster, they talk on the phone for more time than AXER plays this game.  They're HAPPY.  Don't you grouches remember what that feels like :D

Why's everyone giving him such a hard time?  Don't you think he can figure things out for himself?  Or that the world will give him a lesson or two when needed, just as it did for all of us?  I doubt he'll get to choose the cards he's dealt, you know! ;)

Sheesh.  Save the marriage counseling :rofl  he's a kid - going through some High Times.  

Enjoy it while you have it, Serenity.  However long that may be :aok
Title: I'm going to have some AWESOME inlaws!!!
Post by: moot on August 29, 2007, 02:08:58 AM
Serenity, enjoy whatever comes your way while it lasts, it won't happen twice.  Just take it easy and don't skip any steps.
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Post by: WilldCrd on August 29, 2007, 08:17:25 AM
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Originally posted by Serenity
Alright, since I got a BUNCH of requests to see a picture of her, Ill post another one, (MUCH less provacative though). This is her:

(http://a914.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/95/l_54e1220f013e751280479c1e39ee6339.jpg)

(http://a812.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/49/l_3dd091b393439ef566cf33f534d04433.jpg)

(http://a732.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/102/l_5f600873710b0405819a0efe17640a3b.jpg)



Oh yeah id hit it....in 3 years ofcourse :aok
tell her to call me 1-800-get-some lol








































just kidding dude, she looks very pretty but, as other "old" hands have stated dont go jumping into anything permenment till ya get some life experiences under your belt
Title: I'm going to have some AWESOME inlaws!!!
Post by: Xargos on August 29, 2007, 08:41:17 AM
16 will get you 20.
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Post by: Curval on August 29, 2007, 09:18:09 AM
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Originally posted by Xargos
16 will get you 20.


Doesn't that depend on the state?

But, it is "food for thought" there Serenity....if your state laws say that 16 is the age of concent and your birthday is before your girlfriend's then having sex with her, in any form, after your 16th birthday and while she is still 15 could get you charged with statutory rape.

:O
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Post by: Denholm on August 29, 2007, 09:46:23 AM
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Originally posted by Meatwad
I threw away my youth by getting married too early. And yes, I regret it by missing out on all the fun things others my age were doing while I gave up college to work full time to support us. I will never make that same mistake again.

You'd better pray your wife doesn't magically discover this thread!:D
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Post by: Vudak on August 29, 2007, 09:48:16 AM
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Originally posted by Xargos
16 will get you 20.


That's a state by state thing, in CT the saying is, "15 will get you 20, but 16 will get you shot" :D
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Post by: JBA on August 29, 2007, 11:38:29 AM
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Originally posted by Curval
I re-read the initial post...the T shirt is basically saying "Have sex with our daughter".  If I was 15 I'd think that was cool.  Being 42 and having a daughter of my own I think it is very weird.


I agree.
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Post by: Serenity on August 29, 2007, 08:14:15 PM
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Originally posted by Curval
Doesn't that depend on the state?

But, it is "food for thought" there Serenity....if your state laws say that 16 is the age of concent and your birthday is before your girlfriend's then having sex with her, in any form, after your 16th birthday and while she is still 15 could get you charged with statutory rape.

:O


Shes actually older than me, and here in Hawaii, age of consent is 16 I believe. Thats next march for her, next august for me.
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Post by: Rollins on August 29, 2007, 11:37:17 PM
Elope and post the wedding pics :aok




















:rofl J/K- enjoy life and all it throws at you.  Marriage is paper, love who you love.  :aok
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Post by: Serenity on August 29, 2007, 11:48:40 PM
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Originally posted by EndofSilence
Marriage is paper, love who you love.  :aok


wow. I cannot count the time those same words went through my head!
Title: I'm going to have some AWESOME inlaws!!!
Post by: Rollins on August 30, 2007, 06:51:19 AM
I know, and that being said, enjoy life-but listen to the guys in this thread-slow it down, chief!  Experience is a hard teacher, take what they have to say on board.  What I said I would like you to do, but give things time.  We aren't offering advice because we're bored...It's because we know.
If we were bored we'd be playing some online flight sim...:lol
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Post by: AWMac on August 30, 2007, 11:29:31 AM
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Originally posted by Serenity
Shes actually older than me, and here in Hawaii, age of consent is 16 I believe. Thats next march for her, next august for me.


So you mean we can have your hand locked up for Statutory Rape seeing as how the rest of you is under 16?

Wait your hand is under 16 also and it's related to you...

NOW that's plain SICK!!!!!



:huh

Mac
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Post by: Vudak on August 30, 2007, 11:32:22 AM
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Originally posted by EndofSilence
I know, and that being said, enjoy life-but listen to the guys in this thread-slow it down, chief!  Experience is a hard teacher, take what they have to say on board.  What I said I would like you to do, but give things time.  We aren't offering advice because we're bored...It's because we know.
If we were bored we'd be playing some online flight sim...:lol



No offense meant to Serenity (WARNING - perhaps patronizing comment coming), but I'm having a hard time figuring out why so many of you are taking him so seriously to actually offer any advice at all ;)
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Post by: Serenity on August 30, 2007, 11:20:37 PM
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Originally posted by Vudak
No offense meant to Serenity (WARNING - perhaps patronizing comment coming), but I'm having a hard time figuring out why so many of you are taking him so seriously to actually offer any advice at all ;)


I know! Ive been doing nothing but discrediting myself! I agree completely.

lol Mac!!! I dont need my hand ;)
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Post by: Grayeagle on August 31, 2007, 07:01:56 PM
15 .. hormones without much in the way of control.
(no really .. the physical controls aren't even built yet)
Hormones start being produced around year 13.
The controls aren't completely in place until 20.

It's a wonder we make it thru at all :)

Heck you dont even know how tall you will be yet.
(among other things)

Oh sure.. the roller-coaster ride can be fun,
..until someone gets their eye poked out!

Enjoy the ride.
Don't take it seriously!

-Frank aka GE
(just sayin, tm Pasha)