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Title: Just got back from the Hospital :(
Post by: SD67 on September 01, 2008, 04:46:42 AM
And we're going back tomorrow.
Sarah lost the twins over the weekend at 10 weeks.
I'm still kind of in shock, we've been here before, but it's taken us 2 years this time to get pregnant. I really do not know if Sarah can risk it again considering her health issues :(
Just sayin' all, If you ever get 'em cherish them.:salute.
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Post by: Hangtime on September 01, 2008, 04:58:01 AM
aw, man.. that's just awful. My condolences...

sad, indeed.


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Post by: expat on September 01, 2008, 04:58:31 AM
SD so sorry to hear that :(
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Post by: gpwurzel on September 01, 2008, 05:04:24 AM
SD, sorry to hear that - condolences to you and Sarah

Dunno what else to say mate.

<S>

Wurzel
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Post by: Nilsen on September 01, 2008, 05:04:37 AM
Sorry to hear this SD :(

A friend of mine had this happen to them two years ago but thankfully they are now pregnant again. They had been trying for several years before they finally scored so it was a tough blow. Dont give up and keep trying ;) unless the doctor sais no. There are other ways to get kids and you will love em just the same :)
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Post by: Noir on September 01, 2008, 05:11:35 AM
 :frown: Sorry to hear that mate, all my condolences.
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Post by: crockett on September 01, 2008, 05:22:20 AM
Sorry to hear man.. My condolences
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Post by: SD67 on September 01, 2008, 05:34:22 AM
:salute guys thanks :)
It's going to be a tough week or two, but Brianna is busy running around reminding us of why it's all worthwhile :)
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Post by: Rich46yo on September 01, 2008, 05:50:53 AM
Prayers offered SD. And dont ever say never. God doesnt have limits.
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Post by: Rollins on September 01, 2008, 06:03:34 AM
Man, really, really- sorry for you guys.  For what it's worth, my prayers are with you.  Genuinely.
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Post by: -tronski- on September 01, 2008, 07:21:54 AM
We lost our first at about 16 weeks, then it took us over 2 years to get our twin boys...we just figure that our first baby just wasn't mean't to be then so thats why we got 2 the next time around because he was ready to be a part of our family.

Just support your wife the best you can and who knows what the future holds

 Tronsky
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Post by: Jackal1 on September 01, 2008, 07:39:46 AM
Man that`s sad.
My youngest daughter went through this.
Keep your head up and watch over your wife bud. The depression nearly got my daughter.
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Post by: AWMac on September 01, 2008, 07:48:16 AM
Aw man...sad.  Our condolences and prayers to you and Sarah.

Mac
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Post by: Bodhi on September 01, 2008, 07:52:26 AM
sorry to hear that.
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Post by: Dago on September 01, 2008, 08:03:33 AM
I am very sorry to hear of your loss, please remember that the sun will shine again and you and your wife will find reasons to smile again.
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Post by: Yossarian on September 01, 2008, 08:50:10 AM
I'm really sorry to hear that...prayers sent
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Post by: mensa180 on September 01, 2008, 08:53:32 AM
:(
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Post by: 007Rusty on September 01, 2008, 09:32:43 AM
sorry to hear, your family will be in my familys prayers sir ..    :salute
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Post by: eskimo2 on September 01, 2008, 09:59:18 AM
Oh man... :(

I'm sorry to hear that.  Don't try to read anything into it; babies are just risky business.  God or fate are not against you.  It seems like most couples lose at least one; some lose many.  I'm sure that doesn't make it hurt any less but understand that you are not alone.  I'm sorry to hear that you wife has health risks.  I couldn't count how many people I know who've had a rough time.

My wife also was high risk but we didn't realize what the problem was until the third birth/C-section.  Her rare condition would have killed her and the baby 100 years ago, probably even 50 years ago.  Modern medicine saved them both but her uterus was destroyed in the process.

My prayers are with you all.  Life gets better...
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Post by: SuBWaYCH on September 01, 2008, 10:07:03 AM
very sorry to hear that SD  :(


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Post by: Masherbrum on September 01, 2008, 10:07:52 AM
Check your PM's.   
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Post by: Spikes on September 01, 2008, 10:51:10 AM
Very sorry, prayers sent sir <S>
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Post by: MoeRon on September 01, 2008, 10:53:18 AM
that's always sad when a child is lost, my condolences.  

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Post by: lazs2 on September 01, 2008, 10:53:36 AM
so sorry to hear that.  just terrible.

lazs
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Post by: Steve on September 01, 2008, 11:05:50 AM
And we're going back tomorrow.
Sarah lost the twins over the weekend at 10 weeks.
I'm still kind of in shock, we've been here before, but it's taken us 2 years this time to get pregnant. I really do not know if Sarah can risk it again considering her health issues :(
Just sayin' all, If you ever get 'em cherish them.:salute.


Really sorry SD. It is terrible that bad things happen to good people. I know exactly how you feel, although I don't expect that to make you feel better. Stacy and I went through this and it took us almost 10 years to have kids. I know you said Sarah might not be able to continue but if she can, I hope you get to try again. 10 years of heartbreak, and our 4 toddlers make it all worth while. I hope you get to a similar happy ending. 
*prayers*

 :salute
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Post by: Baitman on September 01, 2008, 11:28:47 AM
My condolences.  :salute
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Post by: Apeotomy on September 01, 2008, 11:35:35 AM
You in my prayers, :pray
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Post by: Dowding on September 01, 2008, 11:41:53 AM
So sorry mate, that's terrible news. My condolences.
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Post by: Sox62 on September 01, 2008, 11:45:30 AM
My condolences.

My wife is 13 weeks pregnant,and this is my greatest fear.
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Post by: Maverick on September 01, 2008, 11:58:35 AM
SD,

Thoughts and prayers OTW. I hope your wife recovers fully and you can try again.
 :(
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Post by: texasmom on September 01, 2008, 12:39:12 PM
I'm very sorry for y'all to have heard that.  :(
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Post by: uberslet on September 01, 2008, 12:43:17 PM
that sucks, sorry to hear SD. Good luck with any future children you may have sir,  :salute be strong.
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Post by: Nwbie on September 01, 2008, 01:03:13 PM
SD - I am so sorry to hear that..I know from personal experience how devastating that can be..my wife carried to term and our son was born with a defective heart...9 years ago earlier this month - the pain and shock is still very vivid.... my prayers are with you and your wife and extended family

NwBie

 :pray

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Post by: eskimo2 on September 01, 2008, 03:07:18 PM
My condolences.

My wife is 13 weeks pregnant,and this is my greatest fear.

The first trimester is the riskiest, and your just about through it.  Hang tight.
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Post by: Elfie on September 01, 2008, 03:10:58 PM
Sad stuff for sure, my condolences.  :pray
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Post by: FrodeMk3 on September 01, 2008, 03:11:42 PM
Really sorry to hear that, SD...You have my prayers.
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Post by: SPKmes on September 01, 2008, 05:54:34 PM
sorry to hear this SD and Sarah. 
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Post by: DYNAMITE on September 01, 2008, 08:30:32 PM
Oh SD... I am so very sorry.

My best to you and your family. 
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Post by: SD67 on September 01, 2008, 08:42:05 PM
Check your PM's.   
I got it. Thanks K :salute
Thank you all :salute. It means a lot to us.
Sarah had her D&C today and she's resting. I've taken some time off work to help her out.
Brianna is busy keeping us distracted so it's not all bad. Kids have an uncanny ability to keep you focused on what's really important. :)
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Post by: DREDIOCK on September 01, 2008, 08:44:47 PM
And we're going back tomorrow.
Sarah lost the twins over the weekend at 10 weeks.
I'm still kind of in shock, we've been here before, but it's taken us 2 years this time to get pregnant. I really do not know if Sarah can risk it again considering her health issues :(
Just sayin' all, If you ever get 'em cherish them.:salute.


Really sorry to hear that.
My most sincere condolences to you and your wife.
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Post by: Getback on September 01, 2008, 10:03:02 PM
And we're going back tomorrow.
Sarah lost the twins over the weekend at 10 weeks.
I'm still kind of in shock, we've been here before, but it's taken us 2 years this time to get pregnant. I really do not know if Sarah can risk it again considering her health issues :(
Just sayin' all, If you ever get 'em cherish them.:salute.


My sincerest condolences. I can tell you from experience it is something you will never get completely over. My wife and I lost twins too. I think about them often. They lived for a little bit. My wife, ex-wife now, will cry when she hears these type of stories.

Eventually we had 3 great kids. They are 25, 26 and 31. The 31 year old was born premature and at first were not going to have any more than the first one.

Godbless and pray often for strength.
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Post by: redman555 on September 01, 2008, 10:50:39 PM
srry man...  :salute


-BigBOBCH
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Post by: CAP1 on September 01, 2008, 10:53:32 PM
aaww crap dude......

soooo sorry to hear.....condolences to you and your wife. stay strong. :salute
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Post by: Xasthur on September 02, 2008, 04:11:09 AM
Sorry to hear that, mate. I can only wish your wife a speedy recovery and good health in the future.

Best wishes to both of you, mate.

Mrs Arch is a nurse and she works in women's health, so I know what these cans be like. If there's anything I can do, let me know mate.  :salute
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Post by: Charon on September 02, 2008, 10:09:19 AM
That's terrible. Don't give up hope.

Charon
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Post by: xsarahx on September 03, 2008, 07:53:27 PM
I just wanted to pop in and say a big thank you to you all for your condolences and everything, I'm recovering, doing a bit better each day :)

 :salute
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Post by: straffo on September 04, 2008, 06:05:18 AM
sorry to hear that mate :(

mes condoléances.
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Post by: ROX on September 04, 2008, 07:05:09 AM
VERY sorry to hear.

Thoughts & prayers.




ROX