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Title: No sex for me!
Post by: oakranger on June 25, 2010, 08:44:04 PM
My wife was tested positive for mononucleosis, aka :mono.  And she is to have her right ovary remove next week, that will not happen now.
Title: Re: No sex for me!
Post by: 321BAR on June 25, 2010, 08:48:23 PM
this is one of those awkward threads thats gonna get the shutdown by the skuzzinator before it goes to numpty factor ballistic. (read my sig and find the thread that made me put that there :lol )
Title: Re: No sex for me!
Post by: fudgums on June 25, 2010, 08:48:48 PM
I am so sorry man.
Title: Re: No sex for me!
Post by: oakranger on June 25, 2010, 08:55:59 PM
this is one of those awkward threads thats gonna get the shutdown by the skuzzinator before it goes to numpty factor ballistic. (read my sig and find the thread that made me put that there :lol )

You think so.  Really could not match to his rules but if it dose, sorry skuzzy.

I am so sorry man.

Thank, sucks for her at the age she is
Title: Re: No sex for me!
Post by: 321BAR on June 25, 2010, 09:02:11 PM
You think so.  Really could not match to his rules but if it dose, sorry skuzzy.

Thank, sucks for her at the age she is
Ehh i dont care much if its locked. but im sorry also mate.


But i think this "may" fall under rule 6.
Title: Re: No sex for me!
Post by: bravoa8 on June 25, 2010, 09:38:25 PM
The first topic that I've said Sorry and IN at the same time. :confused:
Title: Re: No sex for me!
Post by: Rattler on June 26, 2010, 12:13:01 AM
Rule #6? naw no porn nothing vulgar or offensive...sorry about your wife sir  :frown:
Title: Re: No sex for me!
Post by: bravoa8 on June 26, 2010, 12:17:16 AM
Rule #6? naw no porn nothing vulgar or offensive...sorry about your wife sir  :frown:
Maybe it dosen't violate rule #6... Anyway sorry to hear that oak I'll keep her in my prayers. :pray
Title: Re: No sex for me!
Post by: Jayhawk on June 26, 2010, 12:27:54 AM
Should be fine if we act like adults....








in that case, IN.


In all seriousness, I wish her a speedy recovery and good luck in the surgery.
Title: Re: No sex for me!
Post by: guncrasher on June 26, 2010, 02:16:25 AM
Sex is the least of your worries.  she needs your support now more than ever, this is what separates the men from the boys.  prayers are with your wife.

semp
Title: Re: No sex for me!
Post by: oakranger on June 26, 2010, 02:44:01 AM
Sex is the least of your worries.  she needs your support now more than ever, this is what separates the men from the boys.  prayers are with your wife.

semp


The sex and her having mono was the joke.  She is 32 and the thought of her having mono was funny to the both of us.  However, the surgery was planed over a month and most likely will not happen because of the sickness.  Feel so bad for her with the endometriosis that she decided to have the one remove.  I am all support for her, it have to be the hardest thing for any women to do. 

Thx guys
Title: Re: No sex for me!
Post by: fbWldcat on June 26, 2010, 08:31:01 AM
Here it is... See rules yet to be added.  :noid

Sorry, bud.
Title: Re: No sex for me!
Post by: whipster22 on June 26, 2010, 09:57:41 AM
 :salute


and IN
Title: Re: No sex for me!
Post by: shppr01 on June 26, 2010, 10:43:49 AM
Im so sorry Oak! I will put her on my prayer list.
Title: Re: No sex for me!
Post by: Closer on June 26, 2010, 11:03:18 AM
Very sorry to hear that Oak. :pray
For those of you that are worried about being IN or who think they are rule judges, you have a very, very long way to go.
It looks like the man thought he has some some friends in this community and need to vent.
Remember-what goes around- comes around.
Title: Re: No sex for me!
Post by: Rattler on June 26, 2010, 12:17:52 PM
Why the hell are people saying in? I'm no moderator but this does'nt break any rules....or does it?  :headscratch:
Title: Re: No sex for me!
Post by: uptown on June 26, 2010, 12:30:40 PM
Sex is the least of your worries.  she needs your support now more than ever, this is what separates the men from the boys.  prayers are with your wife.

semp
My thoughts also.
Title: Re: No sex for me!
Post by: RedTop on June 26, 2010, 03:24:40 PM
Book mark all the Wednesday Babes here....then you'll be set. You can see planes and game stuff....do what comes natural while staring at he Wed. Babes...and soon enough wife will be better!!!!  Problem solved.








AND...no viruses and trojans!!!!!  Unless ya want to use em....perfectly natural for some I guess... :bolt:
Title: Re: No sex for me!
Post by: ROX on June 26, 2010, 03:46:36 PM
I see no rule violation in his OP.

Bless you and the missus and I hope she gets well from all soon.  Being sick is no joke and I wish her the speediest of recoveries.
 :pray   :pray
ROX
Title: Re: No sex for me!
Post by: DREDIOCK on June 26, 2010, 04:35:25 PM
Why the hell are people saying in? I'm no moderator but this does'nt break any rules....or does it?  :headscratch:


Rules are sometimes subjective. But there's a good chance it will depend on which direction the thread takes. So long as it remains reasonably respectful and cordial I dont see any particular problem. BUT if it even hints at going overboard. Then out comes old El Kabong

(http://www.starstore.com/acatalog/quickdraw_2.jpg)

Just my thoughts.

Sorry bout the wife. I wish her well
Title: Re: No sex for me!
Post by: Maverick on June 26, 2010, 04:46:01 PM
Hey Oak, Tell her to hang in there, it's just a bump in the road. All this will do is take tome to get over the mono and then finish up the surgery. Times for the two of ya to kick back a little and put some stuff on the back burner. As the saying goes, life is what happens while you are busy making plans.

Thoughts ands prayers for the both of you.
Title: Re: No sex for me!
Post by: oakranger on June 26, 2010, 06:28:06 PM
Thx guys.  If any of you have wives have endometriosis, try to be understanding and supportive.  If is vary painful for them and really nothing they can do to prevent it or control it other then having their ovaries remove.  Nothing worst for a women to have something like that to happen.   
My wife has had endometriosis for 15 years.  She is at the point to do something or continue having the pain. 
Title: Re: No sex for me!
Post by: SEraider on June 26, 2010, 06:31:05 PM
Sex is the least of your worries.  she needs your support now more than ever, this is what separates the men from the boys.  prayers are with your wife.

semp

+1
Title: Re: No sex for me!
Post by: maddafinga on June 26, 2010, 06:51:19 PM
My wife was tested positive for mononucleosis, aka :mono.  And she is to have her right ovary remove next week, that will not happen now.

Man I had mono about three years ago, it's apparently much harder on you if you get it as an adult.  On the positive side you can only get it one time.  On the negative side, you can be very very sick for several months.  I ran up well over a thousand dollars in doctor bills because I got it after I already had an upper respiratory infection, and the docs thought it was some other sort of secondary infection that they couldn't quite identify.  It was probably a month before it occurred to someone to test for mono.  I think I ran a fever of over 100 for three straight months.  I feel your wife man, that's rough stuff. 
Title: Re: No sex for me!
Post by: Maniac on June 26, 2010, 07:04:17 PM
Maybe you can have sex in "number two".

 :joystick:
Title: Re: No sex for me!
Post by: maddafinga on June 26, 2010, 07:09:14 PM
The thing with the mono is not that they'd be unable to have sex, there's no reason why not really, either he'll catch it or he won't.  If he's already been exposed, he won't get it, otherwise, he most likely will.   The real issue is that she'll be so sick as to be totally uninterested in sex in any capacity. 
Title: Re: No sex for me!
Post by: fbWldcat on June 26, 2010, 07:11:07 PM
The thing with the mono is not that they'd be unable to have sex, there's no reason why not really, either he'll catch it or he won't.  If he's already been exposed, he won't get it, otherwise, he most likely will.   The real issue is that she'll be so sick as to be totally uninterested in sex in any capacity. 

It isn't about him catching it. When a person had mono, their spleen enlarges, and too much activity (i.e. sex) can cause it to rupture, causing internal bleeding and possibly death.
Title: Re: No sex for me!
Post by: Serenity on June 27, 2010, 12:23:33 AM
I caught mono about a year ago. It almost cost me my NROTC scholarship :cry
Title: Re: No sex for me!
Post by: oakranger on June 27, 2010, 12:30:45 AM
I caught mono about a year ago. It almost cost me my NROTC scholarship :cry

Yea, my younger brother got it six years ago.  He was half way through polices academy in Texas, end up to drop out. 
Title: Re: No sex for me!
Post by: 321BAR on June 27, 2010, 09:18:23 PM

Rules are sometimes subjective. But there's a good chance it will depend on which direction the thread takes. So long as it remains reasonably respectful and cordial I dont see any particular problem. BUT if it even hints at going overboard. Then out comes old El Kabong

(http://www.starstore.com/acatalog/quickdraw_2.jpg)

Just my thoughts.

Sorry bout the wife. I wish her well
well so far im incorrect. i had a feeling this thread would take a childish road. <S>
Title: Re: No sex for me!
Post by: Dragon on June 28, 2010, 07:14:27 AM
Sorry to hear about the wife Oak.   :pray sent for a speedy recovery. 
Title: Re: No sex for me!
Post by: Masherbrum on June 28, 2010, 08:49:13 AM
Sorry Oak, best wishes from my family to yours.    :rock
Title: Re: No sex for me!
Post by: Plazus on June 28, 2010, 09:40:44 AM
Sorry to hear about the wife, oakranger. Hope all is well soon. I guess for the time being, tissue paper and lotion will prolly have to do. :old:

 :salute
Title: Re: No sex for me!
Post by: lowZX14 on June 28, 2010, 01:42:22 PM
Sorry to hear about the wife oakranger, best wishes for a speedy recovery.
Title: Re: No sex for me!
Post by: oakranger on June 28, 2010, 08:54:16 PM
Thx guys,  she going ahead to do the surgery on Thursday.  Hope she dose not have complications after the surgery. 
Title: Re: No sex for me!
Post by: fbWldcat on June 28, 2010, 09:10:15 PM
Epstein-Barr virus is no fun. I hope she comes out of everything fine and dandy.

Just make sure she takes plenty of Tylenol, maybe gargle some salt water to help throat pain, and get plenty of rest.

The best to you both  :salute
Title: Re: No sex for me!
Post by: Serenity on June 30, 2010, 04:31:33 AM
It isn't about him catching it. When a person had mono, their spleen enlarges, and too much activity (i.e. sex) can cause it to rupture, causing internal bleeding and possibly death.

Actually, this hasn't been proven at all.

NO, I am NOT a doctor. But I did stay at a holiday inn express last night. Oh, and a case of mono and the resulting enlarged spleen almost deprived me of a tier 1 ~$200,000 ROTC scholarship.

The spleen may be mildly enlarged by mono, however, there is not necessarily any link between enlargement, activity, and rupture. The assumption is, that since the spleen is enlarged it is weaker. If it is weaker, it must be more likely to rupture with activity. However, statistically, more spleens are ruptured sitting on the toilet than during any other action. There is no proof that the spleen is weaker with enlargement, and the likeliness to rupture wouldn't increase with sex, unless part of your sex is punching your partner in the abdomen.

Just some public information I spent months studying with my MD to fight "the man" holding me down :D
Title: Re: No sex for me!
Post by: oakranger on June 30, 2010, 04:05:16 PM
I got no spleen, was remove in 1981 from a blood infecting. 
Title: Re: No sex for me!
Post by: oakranger on July 01, 2010, 03:19:36 PM
Wife just had her surgery this morning.  It took a hour and now home walking around.  Everything was ok other than still have the mono.  Will be sore for a while. 
Title: Re: No sex for me!
Post by: Jayhawk on July 01, 2010, 04:12:58 PM
Glad to hear everything went smoothly.  I wish her a speedy recovery.
Title: Re: No sex for me!
Post by: dunnrite on July 01, 2010, 04:16:26 PM
Wife just had her surgery this morning.  It took a hour and now home walking around.  Everything was ok other than still have the mono.  Will be sore for a while. 

Great news oak.  Here's to a speedy recovery  :cheers:
Title: Re: No sex for me!
Post by: oakranger on July 01, 2010, 06:27:20 PM
Great news oak.  Here's to a speedy recovery  :cheers:

Yep, quit amaze that she is in and out on the same day for that kind of surgery.  If we were going back to 1980s, she would be a overnight stay. 
Title: Re: No sex for me!
Post by: fbWldcat on July 02, 2010, 09:29:52 AM
Glad to hear everything went well. I hope she recovers soon.
Title: Re: No sex for me!
Post by: fbWldcat on July 02, 2010, 09:43:26 AM
Actually, this hasn't been proven at all.


http://www.monotreatment.com/ruptured_spleen.html (http://www.monotreatment.com/ruptured_spleen.html)
a quote from this site as to what could cause rupturing ;) "Roughhousing, Vigorous exercise, Contact sports...."   

There have been proven links to it, but it is not so much "oh it will absolutely happen, it'll rupture and you will die"
Physical activity isn't recommended as it does pose a certain risk.

"Avoid sports, physical activities or exercise of any kind until your doctor tells you it's safe. Moving around too much puts you at risk of rupturing your spleen, especially if it is enlarged. You need to avoid physical activities and contact sports for about 3 to 4 weeks after you've had mono."
http://familydoctor.org/online/famdocen/home/common/infections/common/viral/077.html (http://familydoctor.org/online/famdocen/home/common/infections/common/viral/077.html)

We can have this battle if you would like. Although I think oakranger wouldn't like it. Just some info on Mono.
Oak, I hope your wife has a speedy recovery.