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Title: Thoughts and prayers
Post by: MarineUS on January 29, 2011, 02:28:00 AM
My girlfriend and I recently found out she was two months pregnant which was ok but on the 25th she passed out in our living room and once more when I was trying to sit her up. I picked her up and carried her to the car and drove her to the nearest hospital where we were seen immediately but had to wait six hours to have an ultra sound done.....I got to see our baby and hear it's heartbeat....but we found out she had an eptomic pregnancy which is where the baby is growing outside of the uterus.

Well once they found that out they realized she was bleeding internally (she passed out twice at the hospital) and she had to be transferred by ambulance to have emergency surgery around 3:30am. They had to terminate the pregnancy and take out one of her tubes because it had ruptured.

It's been very stressful sitting up here at the hospital (I'm on my itouch). We're both ready to go home. We're physically and emotionally drained. I haven't slept since 5pm on the 25th and she's been having trouble sleeping.

We didn't even get to really know the little guy...I made sure that right before she went into surgery to kiss her stomach and say "daddy loves you, I'm so sorry."

If you don't see me on for a few days or are wondering where I've been, now you know. It will probably be another day or two before I'm back on. Just keep her in your thoughts and in your prayers.

-marineus
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Post by: Karnak on January 29, 2011, 03:11:38 AM
I am sorry to hear that.  Best wishes for your lady and yourself.
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Post by: Curlew on January 29, 2011, 03:15:13 AM
Im sorry to hear that man, stay strong  :pray
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Post by: MrRiplEy[H] on January 29, 2011, 04:17:35 AM
Best of wishes, I have a clue of what you're going through right now from personal experience.
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Post by: lyric1 on January 29, 2011, 07:07:14 AM
Very sad to hear this. :pray
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Post by: Phantomz on January 29, 2011, 07:16:42 AM
:pray  i feel for ya man my now ex had a miscarraige its not always easy to deal with on both sides if u need anything lemme know man sometimes its good to have people to talk to.
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Post by: fudgums on January 29, 2011, 07:20:10 AM
I'm so sorry man, defiantly in my prayers.  :pray
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Post by: Vudu15 on January 29, 2011, 07:32:00 AM
 :salute
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Post by: Plawranc on January 29, 2011, 08:19:43 AM
Lot of tragedy in this world these days, and its us who cop it.

Im so sorry man, I really am  :pray
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Post by: Dichotomy on January 29, 2011, 08:23:33 AM
My thoughts are with yall and I'm truly sorry  :pray
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Post by: Dadsguns on January 29, 2011, 08:38:24 AM
 :pray

I sent you a PM, I hope that can help.
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Post by: Melvin on January 29, 2011, 09:21:52 AM
 :pray
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Post by: expat on January 29, 2011, 09:33:48 AM
i am so sorry   :pray
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Post by: The Jekyll on January 29, 2011, 09:47:49 AM
Our prayers and thoughts are with you both. Sad when life throws us such painful experiences.
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Post by: oakranger on January 29, 2011, 10:02:33 AM
That breaks my heart to heard that, MarineUS.  my prayer to you, girlfriend and the little one.   :pray
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Post by: MarineUS on January 29, 2011, 01:04:41 PM
Just wanted to say thank you guys. We both finally got to take a nap this morning. She's doing ok. Very spaced out and tied. Her hemoglobin (I think that's the right word), level is only around 6.4 so it's looking like another night here, but we'll see.

Dads I read the message, I'll reply when I can get on a computer. Thank you again.
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Post by: Selino631 on January 29, 2011, 01:26:17 PM
sorry man, hang in there
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Post by: Maverick on January 29, 2011, 01:42:44 PM
Prayers OTW. Sorry for what you both have lost. I hope she recovers fast and you can continue building your lives as soon as possible. Don't forget you have assistance available for the both of you. Using that help doesn't diminish you, it just makes you stronger and everyone needs a hand now and then.
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Post by: ROX on January 29, 2011, 04:21:10 PM
    :pray    :pray    :pray
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Post by: MarineUS on January 30, 2011, 10:49:27 PM
Well we got to come home from the hospital today. She's doing O.K., we're both a little depressed right now and it's still sinking in, but we'll be able to get through it together. Thank you guys so much for everything and the thoughts and prayers. You guys are awesome.
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Post by: GreenEagle43 on January 30, 2011, 10:50:20 PM
thoughts and prayers to you's :salute
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Post by: bravoa8 on January 30, 2011, 11:13:37 PM
Very sorry Marine I'll be praying for ya'll.