Aces High Bulletin Board
General Forums => The O' Club => Topic started by: skorpion on November 08, 2011, 10:00:54 PM
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I need some help, im not going to state why, i cant take it out into the general public, its just not something that should be shared with people that dont have a clue what its like to have this happen. if someone could PM me that has a bit of counseling experience that'd be nice. life is starting to fly right into the cow crap about now.
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skorpion, talk to someone you know and knows you, i would never ask for that type of assistance over the net :aok
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skorpion, talk to someone you know and knows you, i would never ask for that type of assistance over the net :aok
since when do the people i know give a single flying crap? they all treat it like a joke.
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I'm a business consultant, living with a psychologist..pm if you wish.
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A shot of Penicillin and a case of beer will fix it.
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Come on guys. The kid is asking for help. Lighten up a bit.
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You can PM me and I'll try what I can to help out. No professional degree, just almost 3 score years on the planet.
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Come on guys. The kid is asking for help. Lighten up a bit.
Agree. Skorp, pm me and will try and help you as well.
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You're much better off finding someone to talk to, face to face. Maybe a school counselor, a church representative, scout leader, a teacher, etc.
Asking the general community in Aces High for help with a personal problem is akin to jumping into a warm ocean, full of sharks, after you have cut yourself shaving.
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You're much better off finding someone to talk to, face to face. Maybe a school counselor, a church representative, scout leader, a teacher, etc.
Asking the general community in Aces High for help with a personal problem is akin to jumping into a warm ocean, full of sharks, after you have cut yourself shaving.
Tell this to AWmac or Banshee. They would disagree. Especially mac.
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If I were you I wouldn't trust anyone on this forum (or any other).
Maybe a school counselor, a church representative, scout leader, a teacher, etc.
I disagree. Those people don't work for you and are not your friends, very high possibility that they'll stab you in the back.
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Sorry Del,
Got to disagree with you on this one. I've gotten plenty of help or just someone to listen to me when I've had personal problems and done my fair share of listening to others.
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I disagree. Those people don't work for you and are not your friends, very high possibility that they'll stab you in the back.
you're kidding right?
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If I were you I wouldn't trust anyone on this forum (or any other).
I disagree. Those people don't work for you and are not your friends, very high possibility that they'll stab you in the back.
Often friends can't give the best advice, because they are too close. If you are in trouble, a more distant point of view can be much more helpful at times. :old:
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Please note I said 'general community', which excludes squad-mates and such.
Recently, a squad-mate in the 80th Headhunters literally was able to increase my insurance claim with advice to the point I got a new roof and kitchen out of it.
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you're kidding right?
I do believe that they will try to help you, but in their own way. For example if it's a school counselor and you tell him that your doing drugs and trying to quit they'll call the cops as soon as you leave.
Their allegiance is not to you, and if you make a mistake thinking otherwise your going to be really screwed.
Often friends can't give the best advice, because they are too close. If you are in trouble, a more distant point of view can be much more helpful at times. :old:
Agreed about friends, but I would still not trust anyone that's "more distant". So sometimes it's best to just solve your own problems.
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Bottom line is listen to all that offer help but think things out and make your own choice.
Take into consideration what may happen, good or bad, when you chose a path and then consider what action you'd take if those things happen. Think things all the way out.
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guys can we quit the "dont trust anyone" crap right now? this is serious.
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call this number they will talk to you or refer you to somebody. and I mean call now. they have helped me in the past.
1-800-273-8255
semp
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guys can we quit the "dont trust anyone" crap right now? this is serious.
That is why I said that.
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ill be glad to help we are in the same age group so yeah.
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I know almost all of you guys here, and im not stupid enough to take the bait such as "oh come meet me and.."
I have some really good friend here that might be of assistance, and if i do PM you, please DO NOT and i mean DO NOT share it with anyone else. i've only told 2 people here. that is my limit.
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someone die?
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I'm beside myself. Someone asks for help and some turn it into their own little soap box of who and who not to trust. If it's help he seeks, then help, otherwise shut the hell up and don't post. Contact me if you need it bud. If you have the help you need, I hope it works for you and you can move on from whatever it is.
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I'm beside myself. Someone asks for help and some turn it into their own little soap box of who and who not to trust. If it's help he seeks, then help, otherwise shut the hell up and don't post. Contact me if you need it bud. If you have the help you need, I hope it works for you and you can move on from whatever it is.
He stated he had told 2. So I take it he has found the help.
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Or he has at least tried, but maybe they were the wrong people, and didn't take him seriously. Just a thought.
Canacka? :salute I fully agree-- if you don't have anything nice to say, keep your mouth closed; or rather, your fingers away from the keyboard.
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I'm beside myself. Someone asks for help and some turn it into their own little soap box of who and who not to trust. If it's help he seeks, then help, otherwise shut the hell up and don't post. Contact me if you need it bud. If you have the help you need, I hope it works for you and you can move on from whatever it is.
That was help.
If anyone has a problem with the type of help than either don't ask for it or ignore the help you don't like.
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1) if it's a chick..and you are not going to marry her.......they like bad boys. stop being so nice. she'll dig you more if you are a prik.
2) if it's a job...tell them to shove it...look for something that you dig..so it doesn't feel like work. you've eventually excel at it too.
3) if it's the closet.....don't sweat it. ... it's not behavioral .....you were born like that...and it's time you tell the world. two pops and a snap! not that there's anything wrong with that.
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How about we just let this thread die without all the smarmy stuff gents? I think that would be best.
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who sir....are you calling a gent?
duly noted....I said my peace