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General Forums => Aces High General Discussion => Topic started by: greens on August 30, 2012, 01:40:56 PM
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Life has been a trial lately past few weeks, please we need extra prayers. my wife has been diagnosed w breast cancer. I am lost and not myself lately, please pray fer wifes recovery, surgery on the 11th of sept. thnx all
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She is in our prayers greens, best of luck sir and keep us updated :pray :pray :pray :pray
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God save your wife.
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Many prayers for you both and all of your family!!!
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We'll include her and the whole family in our prayers.
My sister-in-law is a breast cancer survivor along with 2 of my friends. They can really do alot now when caught early.
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My thoughts are with you and your wife Greens...... Keeping positive in times like these can be a trial I know but keep it positive brudda ... and that goes for your wife too..... don't give in, keep playing the breathing game to its fullest..it can be a pain in the butt .... but ultimately....it is a great game ;) :angel: :cheers:
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:pray for your wife and you :salute
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:salute ty guys
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Thinkin of you and yours. Staty strong. :salute
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:pray EXTRA extra prayers sent for the both of you. May the road to a full recovery be swift.
Here is some homework for you. Take a look into support groups online. I recall that you are located somewhat rurally, but I bet you will find others close by that will have answers and advice when you need it. It wouldn't surprise me at all if Aces High members had a group.
Give me a holler anytime.
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Prayers sent bud. I hope everything comes out ok.
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Well wishes for your wife and the entire family. Tell her to hang touch! :salute
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greens prayers sent for you both, here's a number for you to call 714 979-4422
they have a :pray list and they'll put your wife on it never hurts to try.
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greens and Mrs. :pray sent, Try to keep positive.
I am a Bladder Cancer survivor, diagnosed in Aug 07, surgery 12/07 to remove tumors.
5 years this month.
I know it makes your world turn upside down when told, but it can and does get beaten, every day.
Stay strong & Best Wishes for you.
Oz
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:pray Stay strong Greens.
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:pray Prayers for your Wife. Staying positive for her is the best you can do. Most of Cancers pain is emotional.
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I know exactly what you are going through, friend. My wife was diagnosed on November 12, 2010. It was the scariest time in our life. There were times that I was so scared, it was almost unbearable. But my friend, she made it through and is doing well today :) I wanted to tell you this because I had no one to reassure me that it doesnt mean you'll lose her. Just be strong and confident for her and everything will be okay. You are in our prayers and if you would ever like to talk or ask any questions, please dont hesitate to message me. God bless you and your family.
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Greens,
My wife is a 25 year survivor! There is hope and she'll need all your support.
If you ever want to talk just pm me,it helps to share your feeling on this,trust me.
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I am / have been through a similarly worrying time. Live one minute at a time Brother, don't speculate about the future, just survive this minute, then the next and so on.
My family, in its own way will pray for your family. Strength. :salute
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It will be ok :old:
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In my prayers sir, stay strong :pray
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Mrs Rondar and I also are going to pray for your wife and family, Greens.
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I am sorry to hear your wife is having such difficulties. Thoughts and prayers sent.
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Almost two years...my wife a survivor.
Stay strong, patient, and positive.
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Like others my wife is also a survivor, she was diagnosed 24th December 2009(the doctor called the house on that date and just stated it as a matter of fact).
Best wishes for your family through this trying time.
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Thoughts and prayers go out to you and your wifey Greens from Killuminati :salute
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you got em.
19 year survivor here. Things I learned when going through my ordeal.
Maintain an even plain. Dont let yourself get too low or too high.
Stay positive at all times.
The longer you have to wait for test results. Usually the better the results are. Its just the doctors rechecking everything to make sure nobody missed anything.
If the doctor says to "stay active" then stay active. I went though nearly half my treatments before I realised that at least me personally. the more I layed around after treatments the worse I felt. the simple act of getting up and moving around and keeping my mind busy made me feel better then any of the anti nausea meds they gave me
Depending on her treatment. If its chemo there will be times she may not want to eat. I used to receive my treatments every other thursday and I wouldnt eat again till the following sunday night.
But when I could eat. I ate as best as I could. All fresh food. Meals made from scratch.
during times I couldnt eat besides no appetite everything tasted disgusting. An egg sandwich tasted and felt like I had a big blob of snot in my mouth. And cola soda tasted like garlic water. I found things that I could drink that did taste normal. For me it was powdered ice tea mix. And beer.
Since I wasnt eating for 4 days the doc gave me a big green light to drink all the beer I wanted. LOL Too bad Im not a big drinker. I kept it moderate.
You will have to find what works for you. And its all dependant on the type of treatment as well
In the meantime. keep your chins up and keep moving forward
Good luck to the both of you
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Best to both of you mate, advice above is good.
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Prayers out for you and yours.
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Prayers from my family to yours on there way! :pray
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greens i feel you man my mom has been going thru cancer for the last year and a half. i wish you and your wife the best of luck sir... <S> its tough. if you need any support i'm here just message me bud
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Green, will do.
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:pray Hope all go's well
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Nayuutiruq sayakturuq suunaaba!
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Life has been a trial lately past few weeks, please we need extra prayers. my wife has been diagnosed w breast cancer. I am lost and not myself lately, please pray fer wifes recovery, surgery on the 11th of sept. thnx all
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Absolutely in our families prayers!
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Your wife and you are in my daughters and my prayers.
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you and yours are in my prayers :pray
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Greens,
I've been in your shoes before and I know how scary it is. My wife, Jen, was diagnosed with breast cancer 4 years ago now and had to have a double mastectomy. We then had to get 18 weeks of chemo, 32 treatments of radiation, and then reconstructive surgery (tram flap procedure). It was tough but with the help of God, family, and friends made it easier. Jen has been cancer free now for 3 years and every thing is back to normal for the most part. Remember to always try to stay positive because your wife's mental state/recovery will depend on it.
If you have questions about any thing, a heads up on what to expect, or just some one to talk to call me 706-978-9531.
Lambo/ Rod
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Greens hang in there. Been there/am there. Wife had breast cancer three years ago. Went through 6 months of chemo and radiation. And last year she was diagnosed with Ampullary cancer, rare aggressive form of cancer that involves the pancreas, only 2000 cases in US. Totally unrelated to the breast cancer she had. She also had a "Whipple procedure" a real extensive surgery. After which the site got abscessed, So I had to learn to pack a deep open wound etc. Then it was 9 months of chemo and radiation again. Remember it's all about attitude....... What gets us through this is thinking of it this way, remember "It is what it is". Nothing you can do about it. Just go on doing whatever you are up to doing that day. Worrying won't help. Just try to make her laugh everyday. That's what I do. PM me if you have any questions, would be good to talk to someone else who's been through it.
http://www.webmd.com/cancer/pancreatic-cancer/whipple-procedure
Ampullary (AM-poo-la-ree) cancer is rare and similar to pancreatic and bile duct cancers. The name comes from the ampulla of Vater, where the bile duct and pancreatic duct meet. Ampullary cancer can block bile from flowing through the bile ducts and into the small intestine, causing the skin and eyes to turn yellow (jaundice) and other symptoms. These symptoms can cause people to seek treatment earlier than they would for most pancreatic cancers, leading to better outcomes.
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My ex got breast cancer about 12 years ago while we were still together, first on one side then on the other. She's still around and doing fine.
During that ordeal I made the mistake of not going with her to one of her check-up's because I'm squeemish around anything medical (my own Dr berated me several years ago for having a mild stroke and not going in to see her for weeks afterward) and she evidently really wanted me to go so if she asks you to go with her go with her.
Best wishes to your wife's speedy recovery.
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Thoughts for you :salute
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Stay strong. Thoughts with you and yours. :salute
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Praying for the best possible outcome Greens for you and your wife. Hang in there. She and your family need you now more than ever.
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greens old friend i am just a phone call away if you need to talk anytime bud
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Prayers and wishes for a swift recovery for your wife greens. Keep it positive.
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u got it bud, stay strong :pray
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Heavenly Father,
I do not know Greens or his wife, but I know You do and I ask now that Your merciful and compassionate hand would be upon them to comfort them and assist them in this time of trial. I pray that as your Son healed many who were sick with various diseases during His earthly ministry, that you would be their healer now. I acknowledge that You heal through many means, so I ask that you would give their doctors skill and wisdom as well as gentleness and kindness as they treat Green's wife. Cause them to make the right decisions, and make that which they prescribe efficacious for her healing. Above all Father, I would ask that you take away fear and give them confidence, faith, and consolation in their time of need. Let Green's wife know that You will never leave us or forsake us, and please use this sad providence for their ultimate good and the good of many. You tell us that when we are weak, you are strong, help them to remember that. And may you get all the glory.
In Jesus Name, I pray.
Greens, if I can ever be of assistance to you, please don't hesitate to send me an IM, give me a call, or send an email. You can find all my contact info at my church website: www.providencepca.com (http://www.providencepca.com) Don't lose heart my friend!
- Pastor Andy Webb, aka SEAGOON
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the lord shall watch over her. She will be fine. Keep ur chin up greens.
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Heavenly Father,
I do not know Greens or his wife, but I know You do and I ask now that Your merciful and compassionate hand would be upon them to comfort them and assist them in this time of trial. I pray that as your Son healed many who were sick with various diseases during His earthly ministry, that you would be their healer now. I acknowledge that You heal through many means, so I ask that you would give their doctors skill and wisdom as well as gentleness and kindness as they treat Green's wife. Cause them to make the right decisions, and make that which they prescribe efficacious for her healing. Above all Father, I would ask that you take away fear and give them confidence, faith, and consolation in their time of need. Let Green's wife know that You will never leave us or forsake us, and please use this sad providence for their ultimate good and the good of many. You tell us that when we are weak, you are strong, help them to remember that. And may you get all the glory.
In Jesus Name, I pray.
Greens, if I can ever be of assistance to you, please don't hesitate to send me an IM, give me a call, or send an email. You can find all my contact info at my church website: www.providencepca.com (http://www.providencepca.com) Don't lose heart my friend!
- Pastor Andy Webb, aka SEAGOON
So much more inspiring than my little prayer....... but they all add up. :aok
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Thanks guys, some very kind words prayers that are very much needed. And to the ones w wives gfs who battled breast cancer, you give us encouragement. Salute greens
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Very sorry to hear this. Praying for a speedy recovery for both of you.
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Sorry to hear greens but keep your chin up! Breast cancer isn't as bad as it was 20 years ago. My mom has had breast cancer for the past 2 or 3 years n you could never tell. She also does research n works in a lab at a cancer center so she calls me all the time to let me about the break throughs in her research. Anyways hopefully your wife was good about getting her mamagrams n they caught it early. If so, she'll be fine. Just hormone therapy n radiation to shrink the tumor then they cut it out n continue the hormone therapy for years to make sure it doesn't come back. One thing about that hormone therapy is it makes em reaaaal squeaky. At least that's what I noticed when I'd go visit. Best of luck to you n yours greens!
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Haha it corrected my cuss work with squeeky.. Hormone therapy makes go into menapause so yeaahhhh, it may rough for you too
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I will be praying so much for her and her doctors tomorrow! I hope to see posts from you in the future with great news!
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Best wishes for your wife tomorrow. Hang in there, on the other side of my wifes battle and I can say it does get better. Doesn't seem like it now, but keep looking ahead.
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:pray Greens, I know there is a time difference but give me a call anytime (hope you still have my cell #). More :pray :pray prayers on the way.
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Hey all, well longest day yesterday. surgery went well, dr <not u dr7> said he removed all of the cancerous part. never reached her lymph nodes <thank GOD> not u dmgod. so.. we waiting till friday to make sure it hasnt reached her lymph nodes. i can relax now and i am slowly being myself. my wife is a very strong woman. dont know how she hacks the pain. wife got discharged today n we in hotel room. I pray other women regardless of age get tested often. Life is to short to be sad and angry at loved ones...so if u got a loved one u are keepin distance from, love them talk hug love em. thanks all for prayers and kind words.
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good to hear Greens ...
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Hey all, well longest day yesterday. surgery went well, dr <not u dr7> said he removed all of the cancerous part. never reached her lymph nodes <thank GOD> not u dmgod. so.. we waiting till friday to make sure it hasnt reached her lymph nodes. i can relax now and i am slowly being myself. my wife is a very strong woman. dont know how she hacks the pain. wife got discharged today n we in hotel room. I pray other women regardless of age get tested often. Life is to short to be sad and angry at loved ones...so if u got a loved one u are keepin distance from, love them talk hug love em. thanks all for prayers and kind words.
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Thank God! Sleep well tonight ... :pray'ing for good news on Friday!
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Will keep praying for a speedy recovery for mrs. Greens. Hang in there greens. Give her hugs from the AH community k.
Hey all, well longest day yesterday. surgery went well, dr <not u dr7> said he removed all of the cancerous part. never reached her lymph nodes <thank GOD> not u dmgod. so.. we waiting till friday to make sure it hasnt reached her lymph nodes. i can relax now and i am slowly being myself. my wife is a very strong woman. dont know how she hacks the pain. wife got discharged today n we in hotel room. I pray other women regardless of age get tested often. Life is to short to be sad and angry at loved ones...so if u got a loved one u are keepin distance from, love them talk hug love em. thanks all for prayers and kind words.
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Following Seagoon's example, and prayers sent up, Green. :pray
Also, taking stock of your advice about loved ones.
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Great news bro, will continue to send positive thoughts, don't forget to take care of yourself too :salute
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You all are like a second family, my wife kinda thought me checking forums was gayish, but after reading posts.... she wept and now she knows there are perfect strangers out there, she loves this place now. she never thought thered be someone you have never met in person that cared so much. THANKS GUYS AND GALS. now mebbe she will let me get a decent comp, looking forward to coming back to aces. I too never thought thered be so much love and prayers from ppl i have never met in person. Seagoon..... your prayer is badash man.
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will post after friday appointment ;)
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:) Happy to hear greens! N for the record, the forums are kinda gayish :lol :neener:
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I'm happy to do it. I'm not likely to help anyone here with my terrible flying, but I serve an awesome God, and I know He "is able to do exceedingly abundantly above all that we ask or think." Please let me know if I can ever be of service to you and your wife and if there is anything in particular to pray for. :salute
When men work, men work, when men pray, God works.
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Great news greens, best of luck man :pray :salute
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great news Dr said no trace of cancer left, another appt wednesday and findout if she needs chemo, but the doc says most likely she will not need any. so..... so far so good, thanks all for prayers you guys are the best. the wife and I is sure missin our kids tho. age 12, 9, and 8. our daughter is taking it hard. think she needs more prayers than us. gramma is watching the kids. Again THANK YOU ALL FOR PRAYERS!! GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY, PRAYING FOR GOOD HEALTH FOR ALL.
<S> greens, akgreens, greeny
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great news Dr said no trace of cancer left, another appt wednesday and findout if she needs chemo, but the doc says most likely she will not need any. so..... so far so good, thanks all for prayers you guys are the best. the wife and I is sure missin our kids tho. age 12, 9, and 8. our daughter is taking it hard. think she needs more prayers than us. gramma is watching the kids. Again THANK YOU ALL FOR PRAYERS!! GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY, PRAYING FOR GOOD HEALTH FOR ALL.
<S> greens, akgreens, greeny
This is all good news........ All of you are still in our prayers for a speedy recovery and getting back to a normal home life.
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terrific news sir! :x
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Thoughts and prayers with you old friend :salute
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great news Dr said no trace of cancer left, another appt wednesday and findout if she needs chemo, but the doc says most likely she will not need any. so..... so far so good, thanks all for prayers you guys are the best. the wife and I is sure missin our kids tho. age 12, 9, and 8. our daughter is taking it hard. think she needs more prayers than us. gramma is watching the kids. Again THANK YOU ALL FOR PRAYERS!! GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY, PRAYING FOR GOOD HEALTH FOR ALL.
<S> greens, akgreens, greeny
WOOHOOOOOO!!!!!! :banana:
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Wife is healing fine, miss the kids greatly. appt wednesday to c if she needs extra chemo. :pray
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btw, if anyone in aces community would be willing to meet up < in anchorage area >, message me please
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great news Dr said no trace of cancer left, another appt wednesday and findout if she needs chemo, but the doc says most likely she will not need any. so..... so far so good, thanks all for prayers you guys are the best. the wife and I is sure missin our kids tho. age 12, 9, and 8. our daughter is taking it hard. think she needs more prayers than us. gramma is watching the kids. Again THANK YOU ALL FOR PRAYERS!! GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY, PRAYING FOR GOOD HEALTH FOR ALL.
<S> greens, akgreens, greeny
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That is very good news Greens! I can imagine how happy and relieved your whole family must be. We here at Aces High are similar to pen pals only better. Mostly because we get to smoke each others rear ends in virtual air combat !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :aok :aok :D
Best wishes!
"A bandit at your six is better than no bandit at all"
Pipz
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Best wishes for a full recovery and many happy years together. :pray
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Great news !! ty Lord :pray
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That is awesome Greens! She must be a strong woman! May she continue to stay healthy! :salute :pray
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Great news Greens..........will pray for continued health and recovery :angel:
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That's a great start greens :salute
There will be far MORE of these :pray from me.
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thanx guys!!
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Awesome news Greens!
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Hey Guys N Gals,
good news!! the doctor said my wife is fine, just fine!!. everything is all good. doctor suprised by how she recovered so fast. she didnt need any chemo or any more treatment. the Lord is GREAT!!! THANK GOD SHES OK. to all who prayed fer her health, I THANK YOU-may GOD BLESS YOU. we are waiting at the anchorage airport on our way to kotzebue then to nome. tomorrow morning we goto Elim ( HOOOOMMMEEE!!!! ) we cannot wait to see our kids!! once again, THANX!! <S> greens
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So very good to hear :) Isn't it amazing how much shorter the road looks when you look back down it from the other end? Please send best wishes and congratulations to your dear wife.
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Good things like this make a frustrating day seem quite alright
Im very glad everything worked so well :)
Best regards
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Such awesome news! We are very glad to see this and God bless you.
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Hey Guys N Gals,
good news!! the doctor said my wife is fine, just fine!!. everything is all good. doctor suprised by how she recovered so fast. she didnt need any chemo or any more treatment. the Lord is GREAT!!! THANK GOD SHES OK. to all who prayed fer her health, I THANK YOU-may GOD BLESS YOU. we are waiting at the anchorage airport on our way to kotzebue then to nome. tomorrow morning we goto Elim ( HOOOOMMMEEE!!!! ) we cannot wait to see our kids!! once again, THANX!! <S> greens
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Salute greens old buddy glad the wife is fine
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Great news greens.
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Great news and I know you're relieved.
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Hey Guys N Gals,
good news!! the doctor said my wife is fine, just fine!!. everything is all good. doctor suprised by how she recovered so fast. she didnt need any chemo or any more treatment. the Lord is GREAT!!! THANK GOD SHES OK. to all who prayed fer her health, I THANK YOU-may GOD BLESS YOU. we are waiting at the anchorage airport on our way to kotzebue then to nome. tomorrow morning we goto Elim ( HOOOOMMMEEE!!!! ) we cannot wait to see our kids!! once again, THANX!! <S> greens
y'all live just south of our family (deering). Great news about your wife :)
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:salute greens old pal, thoughts and prayers with you
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thanx guys!!
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Glad to hear Greens, thanks for being there for me. It's about time I be there for you. :salute
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Hey all. Wife and I still in anchorage. No chemotherapy needed. But we still having appointments left n right. I am very homesick and depressed. It ain't fun being away from the kids for so long. Life sure is a big trial in the wife and I's life. The wife is very strong n has a heart like a diamond. Prayers please as I feel like I am about ready to snap and give up on everything. Depressed.
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Chin up, Greens!
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Hang on in there buddy, you'll be home before you know it. Strength :salute
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Consider it done. God Bless and watch over your family and you.
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What ever prayers or positive thoughts and wishes I can send ...Lucas
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Greens,
You have exactly what you need brother, just remember that. A loving wife and family, a generous heart, and gazillion brothers and sisters all praying and willing you all through this. Yes, there are moments and times in our existence that our "view" may be dimmed, but just know that bulb is burning just that much brighter then, and when your eyes are fully opened again, everything will seem fully illuminated. That my friend, cannot be bought, sold or manufactured, but I promise you it is truth.
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greens old buddy chin up i got some great news
after all these years of us trying to hook up guess what i will be in Anchrage this FRIDAY October 19th and i will be there till sunday.
if you and the wife are up to it me and the misses will buy dinner. our son has a Championship football game down there Saturday. PM me bro and i will give you my contact info
hope to hear from you
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Still many thoughts and prayers for your wife, you, and your family.
I pray that you will be both home safe and well soon and that your sad time will be over.
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Hang there Greens and Mrs. Greens....Hard parts done...Prayers continuing....be safe and take care!!!
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You're in our thoughts and prayers Greens
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Thanx guys. The Dr sent us home fer a few days. Be back down on Sunday night. Kilz bud, dam man thanx for the offer, look like we just missed by a hair. Lemme know how ur son does on his game. Curious. What team?. Brudda chili, you are always there :salute thanx all.
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awesome news green :rock.
semp