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Title: not normal
Post by: HawkerMKII on March 21, 2014, 09:41:14 PM

in the past few months I have lost 4 very very good friends of mine. two days ago I lost my sister and today I lost it so bad, tried to stay strong but.........@#&())(%%%*)^^( crying like a freking baby....to freking old for this

Title: Re: not normal
Post by: SmokinLoon on March 21, 2014, 09:46:06 PM

I'm sorry for the tragedies, losing friends and family members is no fun.  No, it certainly is not normal to be hit so hard.  May God Bless.

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Post by: RedBull1 on March 21, 2014, 09:49:59 PM

Very sorry to hear this hawker... I truly hope things improve for you soon. :(

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Post by: homersipes on March 21, 2014, 09:51:38 PM

Sorry for your losses sir  :salute

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Post by: BuckShot on March 21, 2014, 10:28:09 PM

Keep your head up Hawk. You can make it through.

I just sent you some good vibes.

~S~ Buck

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Post by: FLS on March 21, 2014, 10:51:28 PM

Everything passes Hawker. Grieving is part of healing. Hang in there.

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Post by: ozrocker on March 22, 2014, 12:05:02 AM

 :pray

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Post by: BluBerry on March 22, 2014, 01:12:21 AM

hard to read, very sad. You take care of yourself man.

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Post by: RotBaron on March 22, 2014, 03:53:10 AM

Sorry to hear of your losses. A wise man once told me I needed to learn to cry, he said if I can not, then I can not grieve and go on.

If this doesn't apply to you (not being able to cry for loss) then you know you'll be in good shape with time. Wishing you strength.

 :salute

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Post by: Swoop on March 22, 2014, 04:48:06 AM

thoughts with ya mate

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Post by: Dichotomy on March 22, 2014, 05:21:35 AM

you've got a family here sir.  I'm a PM away if you need to talk, rave, scream, cry. 

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Post by: Hap on March 22, 2014, 05:27:53 AM

Condolences, Hawk.  So sorry to hear the bad news.

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Post by: Curval on March 22, 2014, 07:23:40 AM

Sorry to hear this. Thoughts are with you.

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Post by: shotgunneeley on March 22, 2014, 08:32:33 AM

So sorry to hear that Hawk. Like it's been said, we're here for you. Stay strong and take care.

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Post by: Tracerfi on March 22, 2014, 09:29:44 AM

Sorry for your loss man stay strong  :salute

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Post by: The Fugitive on March 22, 2014, 09:57:32 AM

Hang in there <S>  :pray

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Post by: WEZEL on March 22, 2014, 05:25:10 PM

Sorry for your pain, hang tough  :salute

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Post by: HawkerMKII on April 04, 2014, 08:59:44 PM

Does it never squealing (sorry ht ban me if you wish) STOP.....just found out another close friend was found dead today after battling cancer and thought he won. Guess when you get older you lose more people near and dear to you. Hug you family and friends cuz you just never know. RIP Will.....love ya bro :salute

Title: Re: not normal
Post by: Slate on April 05, 2014, 07:53:22 PM

   Someone once asked is it easier to go first or have to watch the others go before you?

  Stay strong for the family. My Wife lost her Mother recently and I lost a good friend also. It's tough but I need to be the stabil force to help others through it. Rejoice in the fact they lived life and you were there to live it with them. Like you said hug those close to you a little tighter and enjoy everyday pushing the BS aside.

     Prayers for loved ones passed.  :pray  Slate

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Post by: skorpx1 on April 05, 2014, 08:03:53 PM

Gotta keep your head up Hawker, I know it's tough losing someone you love. I had a friend die in a pretty bad car accident last year, and it seems like just yesterday I was talking with her and us screwing around in my math class.

What I found helps is just listening to music, but that might be different for you. For me it drowns out the rest of the world and I don't have to focus on whatever it is that's f**king me in the back of the mind.

Title: Re: not normal
Post by: shotgunneeley on April 05, 2014, 09:35:40 PM

Speaking of not normal, a healthy 21 year old girl died in her sleep last week. Autopsy did not find a cause of death and as far as I know the family still doesn't know what happened. All we do know is that she came to spend the night at her grandparents (even stayed up talking to them like normal before bedtime). By mid-morning the next day they could not wake her up.