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General Forums => The O' Club => Topic started by: moose on October 29, 2002, 06:01:38 AM
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Here is the problem:
Longterm relationship (3 years) starting to get stale
Friends don't particularly care for you
Family doesn't think highly of you
What do you do?
(besides play aces high :D )
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Girlfriends are a dime a dozen(if you go to the right house)
Friends is a TV show who cares if they like you!
Families never think much of you till you become rich or famous so F'em!
My advice is to stop watching so much TV and while on the way to "The right house" stop and get a lottery ticket!:p
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go join the marines
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moose... go buy a basket case panhead and build it yourself and get into drugs and alcohol and ride all around the country. If you survive, and after you kick the addictions... many things will seem trivial to you that bother you now.
lazs
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A: Remind yourself your going with the local Homecoming Queen or equivilent. Sure there are other "girls" but your involved with the best one around already arn't you?
B: As for friends, well they tend to be overrated.
You could try spending a bit more time with them and they may change their mind. Or you could make some new freiends who understand you better.
C: Like said above, familys never think highly of you till your rich or famous. Do what you have to do & ignore the atttitude.
My dad finally realised that all that online stuff really means something to me, and that maybe it wasn't so bad. He actually helped me to make it to the AH con this year. So there is hope, just don't expect it any time soon.
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Originally posted by moose
Here is the problem:
Longterm relationship (3 years) starting to get stale
Careful with the "long term relationship" thing. I have known sooooo many guys that have gotten sick of their long term relationship with their high-school sweethearts...broken up with that person...then wished like hell 6 months later that he didn't do it. And...by that time she is having a great time with another guy and wondering why she dated the guy in the first place.
Soon after this happens the guys I have known "romanticise" their former relationships so much that the girls become the love of their lives and they "pine" for the girl in question for a long, long time.
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why the hell does a teenager have a 3 year relationship?
teenage years are you 'shopping around' years. hell you are perfectly free to keep shoppping around for as long as you like, but the teen years are kinda the required minimum.
you're kinda young to be dig'n ruts.
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damn Lazs.. that's sooo true.
not that I know anything about it but..
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Girls? Trust me, you are better off alone, then with the wrong women....have patience:)
Friends? What a simple and cheap word which is tossed about so easily....my Dad told me when I was a young turd, that if I could count my friends on one hand during my entire lifetime, I would be a bessed man. Again, you reap what you sow....be a real friend to others first, then and only then will you foster real friendships.
Family? I used to think when I was young, that adults had it all together....I was wrong. They are just folks, with problems and fears no different than what you feel....you may think they do not like you, which may be true...but if you're speaking of your own parents, be assured that they love you:)
Regarding what to do? I would buy a Bible, find the Book of Matthew(first book of the new testament) and read it....you don't have to go to church or listen to a pastor, just read it and wait to see what happens:)
Jesus spoke of being born again....those around him said how is that possible...do we return unto the womb to be born again? Jesus told them that a man is born once from water, but must be born again in the spirit. This happened to me when I was 27...God changed my heart and who I was...I was and am no longer the same man.
Many ridicule what I've just told you, while they chase happiness in this world....if all you have is the world and what it offers, then be prepared for disapointment.
Sorry to preach, just felt inclined to share this with you as I had met you at the con.
Cyas up!
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Longterm relationship (3 years) starting to get stale
First off, didn't know you've only been masturbating for 3 years.
Friends don't particularly care for you
You must have noticed I didn't shake your hand at the con.
Family doesn't think highly of you
That's because they can hear you in the bathroom banging it against the sink.
What do you do?
Give it up and get a girlfriend.
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Originally posted by Curval
Careful with the "long term relationship" thing. I have known sooooo many guys that have gotten sick of their long term relationship with their high-school sweethearts...broken up with that person...then wished like hell 6 months later that he didn't do it. And...by that time she is having a great time with another guy and wondering why she dated the guy in the first place.
Soon after this happens the guys I have known "romanticise" their former relationships so much that the girls become the love of their lives and they "pine" for the girl in question for a long, long time.
Wow Curval....
The girl i was dating all summer had this happen...we'd been dating for 6 months when she got an email from her old High School boyfriend (14 years ago was the last time they saw each other)....she dropped me to persuit that. Now she's all depressed because its a long distance (500 mile +) relationship and she hardly sees him. Oh but love conquers all...LOL....
Sometimes its not worth chasing that first love...times change, and so do people. We still talk, and she knows how I feel for her...but I'm moving on with my life. All I can do is shake my head and wonder....
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Originally posted by Eagler
go join the marines
Semper Fi Eagler.
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Ouch Rip! LMAO
zzzzing!
Moosey, I'd break free. Do your friends not care for you because you're spending time with your stale girlfriend over them? If thats the case, then your friends need to wake up... or you do. Either way, change is good. If one thing isnt working, try something else. You may not know exactly WHAT to do now, but break it off, change your attitude (impress your family somehow), just change *something* and you'll find a new groove.
I agree with what Rude said: girls, friends & fam... the other part you'll have to try for yourself moose. Good luck to ya
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Share her with them and they will appreciate you more.
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you resort to the forums and just lay back and do things....
and join the navy!
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Originally posted by Hawklore
you resort to the forums and just lay back and do things....
and join the navy!
4000 sailors leave, 2000 couples return. :)
JK!
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lol
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live with it and laugh at the ones with a gf (they take away from playing time)
or drink your cares away with homemade shine you made in your room under your bed (oh wait first place parents look) better make it in your secret cuboard in the attic.
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Be all that you can be...
get a messed up life, and an ugly wife in the Aaaaaaa aaarmy!
JK :)
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Hey, now is your time in your life that you can think only of yourself. If the relationship isn't great, you can get out of it easily (much better than marrying her, then finding out you aren't totally excited about her).
You are in charge of your own money. You can do whatever you like. You don't answer to anyone right now.
Go have fun. Join the military, do something you dream of doing (travel, whatever). You can be risky right now, in ways you can't when you are responsible for a wife and perhaps kids. Enjoy life to it's fullest.
College is a great thing....
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Oh yeah, and listen to Rude.
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Moose, dont take any women or friends too seriously at this age.
Trust me on this one.
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LePaul...that is what happens when you listen to too much "Jimmy Buffet" my friend.:D
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Originally posted by moose
Here is the problem:
Longterm relationship (3 years) starting to get stale
Yup, you're right.. that is a problem.
3 years? Man, you got a whole helluva lot more patience than I do.
-SW
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I was never in a relationship for longer than 1.5 years until I married. Now my 13 year marriage feels like we were only married 1.5 years ago! :p :eek:
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We are the only people that really care about you. Post nekkid piXXX of your girlfriend....now.
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Actually I meant *her* friends and family :)
Just currently frustrated a bit, though of course before everything started to crap out life was great. She even likes AH. (hey dinger, remember that lost c-47 in Afrika Korps?)
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Ahh, even better. In that case get her to share her friends with you and you will appreciate them more.
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EXACTLY..... what rude said.
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1.) Um... if her freinds dont like you, tough toejam - who the hell are they? They will make life difficult for you and attempt to convince her everyday about what a horrible person you are. It is in your best interests to pay to have them assasinated before they cause more damage. (PS - do NOT pay assassin by credit card)
2.) Her family doesnt like you? Tough toejam - are you sleeping with the mother? If the answer is no, the next question is "why not?" followed by STFU.
3.) She likes you? Great - Hope shes well endowed and treats you right. I hearby quote a line spoken by Silent Bob from the immortal "Clerks" - "There are a million beautiful women in the world, but not all of them bring you lasagna at work, most of them just cheat on you."
4.) Still not sleeping with the mother? Why not? STFU.
5.) If you want to be happy for the rest of your life, make an ugly woman your wife.
6.) See my sig for the REAL key to happiness.
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What Fatty said! :D
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Originally posted by moose
(hey dinger, remember that lost c-47 in Afrika Korps?)
Thats the pictures that Thrawn was referring too, post THOSE! :D
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Hey Moose!
Life is good......................... ...................until you weaken:)
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There's a simple solution to your problem: Leave the AssAssIns and join the FDBs. They'll give you all the attention you could want... and even more attention that you really don't want.
AKDejaVu
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Rip LOL on your first post.
Moose, been there done that. Time to move along. Don't try to make this into something it ain't. The fact that you are even asking this question should answer the question.
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Whatever you deside. Do it from hope not fear. Hope may disapoint you but your fears will always betray you.
Assess. Make up your mind. Move ahead.
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Where you in a Bike gang?
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A Sergeant once gave me some excellent advice about women....
and I quote..
"At 3 0'clock in the morning son, their all the same with half a turd hanging out of their ar$es."
I live by that rule :)
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HOOOOOO RAHHHH
yes join the armed forces..tour the world..see how much sex you can get...and how cheap it is..(especially asia)..omg...Me love u long ting Suky Suky 5 dollas..
Biches are all over....
Wait for many more years before (girlfriend ) gets you..man right now is when u are supposed to "Hone" your tecnic....\\
I my self am a porno star...dam these ho's always wan tto Hang out...hell no..i need more ....
Sht ..phones rining...ahhh Eva,,,shes the tall italian..24 yrs old...umm she does me right..lolol
AND OMG..u are asking this on the AH BB..lololloo
One more word of ADVICE.....!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
WRAP UP YOUR WILLY --Before you bump up against that philly...BOYYYYY.....
Men and women all over the world are full of diseases...and of course..dont become "dady"
Love BiGB
xoxoxo
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Listen to the sunscreen song, the answer to all lifes problems are in those lyrics.
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we prefered the term "club".
lazs
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Originally posted by lazs2
we prefered the term "club".
lazs
You know, I finally found that picture of Lazs...
(http://www.villagepeople-official.com/images/ericmont.jpg)
Who knew our Lazs was famous... http://www.villagepeople-official.com/biker.htm
LOL
Just teasing ya, Lazs!
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Thats damn close to lazs, just put the on California Prune dried face, add 20 years to the age...bingo!
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What club?
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Is that an austrailian thing?
Originally posted by SC-Sp00k
A Sergeant once gave me some excellent advice about women....
and I quote..
"At 3 0'clock in the morning son, their all the same with half a turd hanging out of their ar$es."
I live by that rule :)