Aces High Bulletin Board
General Forums => The O' Club => Topic started by: Cherlie on February 15, 2003, 10:52:27 AM
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Well I wrote an email about my life and me wife, many of you told me me run.
Well I am moving back ot Australia this thursday........still married........but I'm going back home.
I'm excited but I will miss my wife (even though msot would say I'm nuts).
I pray things will get better but I want to thank all who helped and gave em advice.
to all and when I get home, I'll be in the skies soon I pray.
CB
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Good luck man. Hope it works out for you.
I'm not surprised you will miss your wife, hell you didn't marry her for nothing. I think you are making a wise choice. Maybe this will give her time to examine how she has treated you and been acting since the wedding, and maybe, just maybe, she will change.
All the best,
Curval
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Thanks for the update, but...dude - why are you still married?
99% of the time I'll be the first one to say 'BBS opinions/intellect often leave much to be desired' (mainly when someone feels the need to comment on something they have no knolwedge of - I try to avoid this at all costs, which is why you'll never see me 'talk' when lazs2 and company are talking about car engines, etc.).
But in your case - you asked for advice and you got advice from people who had nothing to gain from you...so you can trust (in this case only) that people were telling you the truth as they knew it.
If you talked to your family, or her family, and have been 'talked out of a divorce'...dude trust me here - if you divorce her and it's 'really true love' YOU CAN ALWAYS GET MARRIED AGAIN LATER.
Once again - don't get her pregnant (and don't 'take her word for it' when it comes to birth control) and don't get locked into being married to her.
If you got married in the U.S.A., I believe (never been married myself) that if you get it annuled within a certain period of time you won't own alimony, etc. MAKE SURE you don't get 'delayed' past that date dude.
Mike/wulfie