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Title: Im gonna be a dad as some of you know
Post by: Nilsen on September 06, 2003, 05:28:04 PM

Is it normal/healthy to be really terrified that you wont cut it as a dad?

:confused:

Title: Im gonna be a dad as some of you know
Post by: Thrawn on September 06, 2003, 06:29:53 PM

I was.  Luckily my wife is a hundred times smarter and wiser than I am.

Title: Im gonna be a dad as some of you know
Post by: Sandman on September 06, 2003, 06:45:22 PM

You'll be fine. The fact that you're even worried about it speaks much.

Title: Im gonna be a dad as some of you know
Post by: Maverick on September 06, 2003, 07:41:24 PM

Quote

Originally posted by Sandman_SBM
You'll be fine. The fact that you're even worried about it speaks much.

Unfortunately I find myself in agreement with sandy here.

Contemplation of failure does NOT lead to failure. However not contemplating it frequently does.

Think first then act and you'll likely be fine.

Title: Im gonna be a dad as some of you know
Post by: type_char on September 07, 2003, 04:37:49 AM

Just curious, is the baby expected to be big?

Pull my finger.

:D

Title: Im gonna be a dad as some of you know
Post by: capt. apathy on September 07, 2003, 06:24:10 AM

The most important advice I can give any new or expectant father is this.  BE THERE.  thats the most important thing you can do.  be there often, and as much as possable.  whenever you have a choice between spending time with your kid or doing anything else, choose the kid whenever possable and if not possable do your best to make it possable.

it's not just critical for the kid, it's for your own good too.  raising your kid is the most important thing you will do in your whole life,  keep it in perspective and keep them first.

thats damn near the whole battle right there.  if you are there to know the kid, there to see whats going on , and there to take action when it's needed, the rest is easy.

good luck.

Title: Im gonna be a dad as some of you know
Post by: capt. apathy on September 07, 2003, 06:26:26 AM

ok I lied about the easy part :p  


but it's easier then trying to go back and correct bad behavior that developed when you aren't around.

Title: Im gonna be a dad as some of you know
Post by: frank3 on September 07, 2003, 06:46:49 AM

Congrats Nilsen! hope he/she'll fly aces high too in a while :D

Title: Im gonna be a dad as some of you know
Post by: Nilsen on September 07, 2003, 07:07:15 AM

Thx all :)

Oh yeah frank, by the time his/her can sit on chair i will prolly have a puter that is good enough for AH2.

No sound tho, cant have all your filthy words be the first english he/she learns :D

Title: Im gonna be a dad as some of you know
Post by: type_char on September 07, 2003, 07:34:35 AM

A gift for you nilsen10.

:rolleyes:

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