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General Forums => The O' Club => Topic started by: mia389 on September 30, 2003, 01:28:20 AM
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Hi all,
Something been really kickin my arse lately. Ive logged about 47 hours in my private pilots course and my checkride is next week. I have alittle problem though. My instructor is a 23 year old women that is engaged. Im starting to fall in love with her, but its not effecting my training "so far". Im going to tell her tomorrow hoping things will be ok but am worried about losing her as an instructor. I think she's feeling something towards me cause she sure flurts alot. Sometimes we will do ground work that is suppose to take an hour but ends up being 4 hours. She only will charge me for the hour though:D She will be my instrutor though my instrument,twin,comercial, and my CFI courses. Think I should ditch her and goto a diff. school or keep her and try to just work through it. I dont have much experiance with women so I need some help on this one. I think she is starting to question her boyfriend too. (wich is good:) ) I could ask for a new instructor if I wanted to, but would be wierd seeing her around the school. I also want her as an instructor cause I love being with her. I think I would just go somewhere else and act like none of this happened if something got goofy. All this has turned me into an alcholic the last 2 weeks. Anyway Im asking, you think I should keep her as an instructor, and see what the feeling are all about, or get the hell out of here and leave it behind.
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AAARRRGGHH! KEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT!
Oh sweet jesus, don't say a goldanged thing. You'll screw up a friendship, mess up your licensing, and in general you'll die of embarrasment.
Whatever you think you're reading, you are WRONG! Keep telling yourself this right up until she puts her hand down your pants, and then, and ONLY THEN, start to wonder whether or not your original thoughts were correct.
Never say anything. I swear, I have a friend who has made this mistake MANY TIMES. I beg of you, just SHUT UP and finish your cert work, then pay them, thank her quietly, and leave.
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ruh row,,, hope it aint to late. I sent her a email lastnight that Im sure gave her a hint but actually didnt say it. Can I be slaped now
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Show up to your next lesson nude and see if she notices. By her reaction you'll know without needless embarrasment.
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Mia389, how old are you?
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23
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get the license first.
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You went a bit hot there, mate. She might just be the flirtatious type. Have you ever arranged to see her outside of the flying lessons? You might be able to spin it into a 'just friends' situation and seen what happened. She might have let her guard down and you could have gauged it from there.
Oh yeah - never, ever send an email proclaiming your undying love or anything daft like that. In fact never ever use email for anything remotely like this. Too easily ignored for a start - ends up looking a bit juvenile from their end.
I hope I'm wrong and good luck! :)
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Gee, a flight instructor that flirts with a potencial CFI cash cow student for the school? Unreal!
You better stop thinking your Chuck Yeager, and play Hand Solo to cool yer urges before some large black man that's engaged whips your ass.
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Oh dear, looks like you have a bad crush there.
I suggest you finish your test before making a move. But you have to make a move if she doesn't beat you to it. If you don't, it'll always be gnawing you, , ,what if and so on.
Good luck !:)
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LOL!!!!
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Listen to these guys they know. Let her decide if she wants to take it to the next level. Enjoy her attention while you have it. You are getting extra mentoring for free. That alone is reason enough not to blow it.
There is an old saying (I forget exactly what it is as I am not that old) that goes something like:
A smart dog does not cheese on his master's doorstep.
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Good Lord Dude...
I agree with all above. Keep your mouth shut. If she's seriously interested, let her make the first move...
To many nutcase boyfriends out there with firearms.....
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Any skin?
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Originally posted by capt. apathy
get the license first.
I agree. With the license, you can get more chicks.
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yep sound advice.
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It's natural to get crushes on teachers, and for teachers to get crushes on students. But as long as it remains a crush, and you don't do anything about it, you can continue on flirting.
But yeah, don't do it. You spend a lot of time with this instructor, but in only one (professional) context. You don't know her.
Basically, it's a low-percentage shot, with a lot of bad things that can come out of it.
Then again, while I haven't made exactly this mistake, I have made ones in analogous cases, and at the time, nobody could have stopped me. So just remember that when we're saying "Don't do it", it's because we've been there. Acknowledge it, and cheerfully go and ruin your life.
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Another good reason not to:
http://www.ntsb.gov/ntsb/brief.asp?ev_id=20001212X18632&key=1
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This has trainwreck written all over it...
Charon
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Oh sweet jesus, don't say a goldanged thing. You'll screw up a friendship, mess up your licensing, and in general you'll die of embarrasment.
Whatever you think you're reading, you are WRONG! Keep telling yourself this right up until she puts her hand down your pants, and then, and ONLY THEN, start to wonder whether or not your original thoughts were correct.
Gotta go with the wise words of chairboy, here. A lot of women are friendly, and have no idea they are turning you on. She'll be surprised and you'll both be embarrassed if you make a play for her now.
Get the license, keep your mind on the task at hand. As soon as you get your license, though, go for it! :)
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I don't believe it's a great idea to have anything other than a professional relationship with an instructor. It can cause a conflict of interest and affect the objectivity of the training you may receive.
In fact I would consider getting another instructor. You may be thinking too much about her and not learning to fly safely.
Yeah she flirts. Women like to be liked. They like the attention. They will fish for it. They may show interest to get attention while knowing at the same time you are never going to get a shot at the title.
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Originally posted by Modas
Good Lord Dude...
I agree with all above. Keep your mouth shut. If she's seriously interested, let her make the first move...
To many nutcase boyfriends out there with firearms.....
heh thats scary her boyfriend is alittle different:rolleyes: He owns some guns to I know.
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Is anyone else afraid of a lovesick alcholic spending time staring down his instructors blouse when he should be worried about flying?
Mia-
Please let me know which airline you eventually go to work for.
Thanks.:D
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Originally posted by Dinger
It's natural to get crushes on teachers, and for teachers to get crushes on students. But as long as it remains a crush, and you don't do anything about it, you can continue on flirting.
But yeah, don't do it. You spend a lot of time with this instructor, but in only one (professional) context. You don't know her.
Basically, it's a low-percentage shot, with a lot of bad things that can come out of it.
Then again, while I haven't made exactly this mistake, I have made ones in analogous cases, and at the time, nobody could have stopped me. So just remember that when we're saying "Don't do it", it's because we've been there. Acknowledge it, and cheerfully go and ruin your life. [/QUOTE
This is true. I do know her outside of school though too. Ive gone out drinkin with her a couple of times.
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Hmmmm for some reason Jethro Tull's "Locomotive Breath" keeps playing in my head when I read all of this......
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Originally posted by Chairboy
Whatever you think you're reading, you are WRONG! Keep telling yourself this right up until she puts her hand down your pants, and then, and ONLY THEN, start to wonder whether or not your original thoughts were correct.
A new sig, Thanks:lol :) :rofl
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whoa!! While I agree with the advice... I think we need some pictures to um, properly assess the situation :D
Good luck mia! Keep us updated :D
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Giving advice is probably about as useful as pissing in the wind. The trouser snake always wins in the end. I'd say go for it, you only live once and at worst you'll have either a really crappy or a really cool story to tell someday.
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Originally posted by Raubvogel
Giving advice is probably about as useful as pissing in the wind. The trouser snake always wins in the end. I'd say go for it, you only live once and at worst you'll have either a really crappy or a really cool story to tell someday.
Just cop that feel while she's on the controls...this way you can get your rocks off until she trims out the plane.
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"High Blower Engaged"
AW3 Mustang...what'd ya think I meant?
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Wait until she breaks up with her boyfriend. Then pounce on her like a democrat on a welfare check.
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just the woman you want though......if she cheats on her fiance, weeee what a foundation.
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Originally posted by muckmaw
Is anyone else afraid of a lovesick alcholic spending time staring down his instructors blouse when he should be worried about flying?
Mia-
Please let me know which airline you eventually go to work for.
Thanks.:D
LOL
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As a lover of many women... I'll ad these few tips.
Just be your self and let her make the moves.
Always ebb and flow with the woman until she gives you the reins to lead.
Where does she take the conversation.
Does she ask you about your personal life...
Does she compliment you - perhaps too much.
Does she lead you on with innuendo.
Does she suggest to see you outside of "flight" instruction.
If you're only interaction with her is the course work ... ok she's a flirt... just may be her personality.
if she wears a mini skirt and bends over infront of you while checking the wheel chocks and presents you with a full rear view sanz panties.... ok, here's a clue - those are your reins take them and ride into the sunset.
Otherwise don't get conflicted... any move on your part may seem like you're trying gain favor by your advances in order to get a better score on your test.
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Originally posted by mia389
23
going on 16 by the sound of it
follow the advice given in the movie "Something About Mary" before your next class
just don't leave it dangling from ur ear :)
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Originally posted by mia389
Hi all,
Something been really kickin my arse lately. Ive logged about 47 hours in my private pilots course and my checkride is next week. I have alittle problem though. My instructor is a 23 year old women that is engaged. Im starting to fall in love with her, but its not effecting my training "so far". Im going to tell her tomorrow hoping things will be ok but am worried about losing her as an instructor. I think she's feeling something towards me cause she sure flurts alot. Sometimes we will do ground work that is suppose to take an hour but ends up being 4 hours. She only will charge me for the hour though:D She will be my instrutor though my instrument,twin,comercial, and my CFI courses. Think I should ditch her and goto a diff. school or keep her and try to just work through it. I dont have much experiance with women so I need some help on this one. I think she is starting to question her boyfriend too. (wich is good:) ) I could ask for a new instructor if I wanted to, but would be wierd seeing her around the school. I also want her as an instructor cause I love being with her. I think I would just go somewhere else and act like none of this happened if something got goofy. All this has turned me into an alcholic the last 2 weeks. Anyway Im asking, you think I should keep her as an instructor, and see what the feeling are all about, or get the hell out of here and leave it behind.
For God's sake grow up and go hire the most expensive hooker you can afford - you're in lust, not love.
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relax and get your pilot licence.
when finished ask her out for a date and thats it.( stay outta it until then)
If you do it now then youre doomed to fail in both cases, loosing your pilot licence and the woman.
If you cant let it be, get anohter instructor to do the final stuff, and date her anyway.
you got options dont worry, and you might get slapped on your arms too even if you think she is feeling the same way ;)
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Originally posted by _Schadenfreude_
For God's sake grow up and go hire the most expensive hooker you can afford - you're in lust, not love.
Let me get this straight... hiring a hooker is the grown up solution to all this?
-Sik
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well dating an engaged woman is not the smartest of ideas.
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Just think of my instructor...
Drank too much coffee...
Smoked too many cigarettes...
Wore too little deodorant...
I was done in nearly FAA minimums and i think it was because i knew if i couldn't get my steep turns nailed on the first try i'd have to stay there baking in the airplane with a walking talking breathing old stinky shoe...not flirtatious eye candy.
Keep your mind on the yoke, your hand on your stick and scan for traffic...I'm flying around out there too ya know. Besides, when you get your ticket, rent something with an autopilot take some hot little number and tell her that she's been selected for the mile high club.
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Originally posted by Eagler
going on 16 by the sound of it
Eagler you seem to have a prejudice for young whippersnappers.
Age has nothing to do with anything.
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It's not Eagler.
From the way the post was written, and the question at hand, it sounded like somthing someone about that age would ask.
I was surprised to hear his age as well.
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Originally posted by Golfer
Keep your mind on the yoke, your hand on your stick and scan for traffic.
Must... resist... hidden... meanings....
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Originally posted by muckmaw
It's not Eagler.
From the way the post was written, and the question at hand, it sounded like somthing someone about that age would ask.
I was surprised to hear his age as well.
Muck I drew that conclusion from reading other posts between he and other relatively young posters.
HiTech can't seeme to spall reel well... not exactly the best communicator spelling-wise, does that reflect his age or even uber-intelligence in the programming ways?
All I mean is, unless ya meet mia in person or know him personally, it's kinda tough to make an assumption from one sample of text on the internet.
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Originally posted by DmdNexus
As a lover of many women... I'll ad these few tips.
if she wears a mini skirt and bends over infront of you while checking the wheel chocks and presents you with a full rear view sanz panties.... ok, here's a clue - those are your reins take them and ride into the sunset.
ARGGHHH....must....resist.... the ...urge ...to use rolleyes emoticons...
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Good stuff guys,, thanks for all the advice. Ill keep ya updated. Think Ill go for it. I like the advice your only gonna live once:) We get to meet thursday I think for a ground lesson before my checkride. Think after Ill say something. Will be very interesting how she will react.
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Originally posted by mia389
Good stuff guys,, thanks for all the advice. Ill keep ya updated. Think Ill go for it. I like the advice your only gonna live once:) We get to meet thursday I think for a ground lesson before my checkride. Think after Ill say something. Will be very interesting how she will react.
Dumbest thing you can do. Period.
On Friday morning you will realize this too.
However, some things you need to learn the hard way. Unfortunately. Your call, but you are making a mistake.
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Ya never know, Hort :D Maybe it'll be... ah nevermind.
good luck mia, you'll need it :D
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Originally posted by Dnil
just the woman you want though......if she cheats on her fiance, weeee what a foundation.
These are wise words too mia. Careful man. I've fallen into the "Well she won't do that to ME" trap a couple of times.
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Mia, go by Stetson and find yourself a girlfriend.
Or come to Daytona and we'll go drinking and clubbing, and maybe find you a ready and willing babe :)
Anyways, with your checkride approaching, your mind should be on that and not avacados.
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Stuff like that only happens in movies aimed at teenagers in love.
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Mia: "I love you"
She-FI: "Oh you want an endorsement to take your checkride...well how bout this. How bout no."
Mia: "Wh..wh...whyyy? What about all that ground instruction you didn't charge me for"
She-FI: "A courtesy from one pilot to another you hopeless piece of trash, ask Golfer...he had a human locomotive as a CFI and wasnt charged for ground instruction. My god I wanted to help you achieve a goal and you just wanted to help me out of my skirt."
Mia: "But...I love you."
Brutus: "Die puny little bastage!"
The End.
You don't get your certificate because she wouldnt sign you off, and you are now a dinner plate. Tell me, do you want to be a dinner plate for the rest of your life? If you do not, then leave well enough alone and settle for a peek in moderation.
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Originally posted by Octavius
Muck I drew that conclusion from reading other posts between he and other relatively young posters.
HiTech can't seeme to spall reel well... not exactly the best communicator spelling-wise, does that reflect his age or even uber-intelligence in the programming ways?
All I mean is, unless ya meet mia in person or know him personally, it's kinda tough to make an assumption from one sample of text on the internet.
you're right
at 23 you think with the little head more than you do with the big one just as much as when you did when you were 16
just at 23, you are more able to act on those "thoughts" :)
like stated above - you want to get involved with someone who would cheat on her finance? nice relationship 4 sure ..
as if learning to fly was not enough.. you gotta get willie into the act
gl mia with your "pilots license" LOL
as for young posters, it is my right as a middle aged american to argue their inexperienced opinions :)
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dinner plates are fun.
Hort, stuff like what? Makes for good entertainment. (not the movies)
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Originally posted by Eagler
you want to get involved with someone who would cheat on her finance?
NNNOOOOOOOOOO!!!! NOT HER FINANCE!
-SW
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Oh come now Eagler...
Where are you pulling that from? Statistics? :p I'd like to see'em.
I dont believe there is a golden "average" or even an accurate statistic that you can draw all these conclusions of all 23 year olds.
It's b-u-n-k.
You may be right, but you may be wrong. But only 99.9999% either way :)
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Originally posted by udet
Mia, go by Stetson and find yourself a girlfriend.
Or come to Daytona and we'll go drinking and clubbing, and maybe find you a ready and willing babe :)
Anyways, with your checkride approaching, your mind should be on that and not avacados.
Been going to that place MIA TIA's alot 4 bucks a pitcher and happy hour from 9-1. Usally go there tuesdays,thursdays,Sunday, sometimes Mondays. Let me know if ya want hang out sometime.
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Originally posted by AKS\/\/ulfe
NNNOOOOOOOOOO!!!! NOT HER FINANCE!
-SW
LOL
that too :)
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Mia, please let us know how the train wreck turned out. It's always interesting to hear the details. Don't leave anything out. Remember to tell us about how the expression on her face changed from curiousity to shock as you spoke, then transformed into a mix of embarassment and anger.
Also, please be sure to describe the extent of your mortification and whether or not you wanted to just die or if you wanted to kill yourself spectacularly.
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Ah hell guys I dunno,, Ill find out Thursday if Ill say something or not. Would make me feel 10times better at first but like you guys say I think I would regret in the long run. I get along pretty good with her fiancee too but he has no idea something is up. She did call me this morning and she defintely knows something is up from that damn email I sent her the other night. toejam gonna get intresting next couple of days. I think telling her would be the wrong thing to do but I it get this off my mind
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there's an email now? .... what did you say?
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Dear Penthouse,
I never thought I'd be writing you about this but I just had to share. ....................... snip......................... ... when we landed we both had a cigarette and laughed .
Yours Truely,
Dreaming I'll someday get laid.
MIA
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"there's an email now? .... what did you say?"
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Kool.
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More bad news...
The finance knows what you look like...
FI: I'm leaving you for a student
Finance: Which one?
FI: Mia
Finance: You know that stands for Missing in Action, Right?
hehe...Finance...
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Heh ok I found it in my sent messages....
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this the email
Hi *****, something has really been on mind and I need to get rid of it. I almost told you tonight but I didnt have the balls to say it. Im sure you could tell I wanted to say something but I couldnt. First of all I would like to say I really, really like you as an instructor and I dont want to do or say anything that would make me lose you as an instructor. I think thats my biggest fear and thats why I havnt said anything. Anyway just confront me tomorrow about this email and Ill fill you in. Im just not sure if telling you is the right thing to do, but it will make me feel better, I think,and hope.
Should I tell her Im becoming an alcholic and its bothering me
:p
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yer toast.
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I flew with her the next day but she didnt read her mail before she went into the school. heh I almost didnt wanna show up that day.
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whoa.
i digress
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Originally posted by midnight Target
yer toast.
yep.
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Ok I have nothing to do today,,, Im gonna get drunk now and slap myself every 5min.
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Originally posted by mia389
Been going to that place MIA TIA's alot 4 bucks a pitcher and happy hour from 9-1. Usally go there tuesdays,thursdays,Sunday, sometimes Mondays. Let me know if ya want hang out sometime.
Mai Tai
been there last Friday. I'll let you know if I go again this weekend.
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Oh man...its never pretty to watch a crash and burn in progress...
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I've told all my friends at work, and we are alternating between howls of laughter and cringes of embarassment at Mia's predicament.
If you can, laugh it off saying you were drunk and you don't remember what you typed. Something about flying jets.
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You know you're an O'Club addict if yu come here for love advice.. :eek:
Hope it goes well, in any case..
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Originally posted by udet
Mai Tai
been there last Friday. I'll let you know if I go again this weekend.
heh, try to avoid the weekends its too busy,, usally goto fuel or lolly pops or something on the weekends
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Careful, being drunk due to making a poor decision usually results in making an even poorer decision.
-SW
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Lolipops is nice. (for those who don't know-it's a STRIPCLUB :))
I don't like Fuel cause they charge everybody $2, whereas at the other clubs I go in for free with a Riddle ID.
Anyways, you seem to spend an awful lot of time drinking and partying. :eek: , with your checkride approaching. Instead of freaking out about that you worry about what your instructor has to say about your feelings.
She'll prolly be like: oh that's cute, but I'm taken...
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Originally posted by mia389
Heh ok I found it in my sent messages....
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this the email
Hi *****, something has really been on mind and I need to get rid of it. I almost told you tonight but I didnt have the balls to say it. Im sure you could tell I wanted to say something but I couldnt. First of all I would like to say I really, really like you as an instructor and I dont want to do or say anything that would make me lose you as an instructor. I think thats my biggest fear and thats why I havnt said anything. Anyway just confront me tomorrow about this email and Ill fill you in. Im just not sure if telling you is the right thing to do, but it will make me feel better, I think,and hope.
Should I tell her Im becoming an alcholic and its bothering me
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man oh man...
this is looking like it's gonna be a trainwreck to the n-th power.
go with the you were drunk when you wrote that email and can't remember with what it was about. She might buy it.
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Originally posted by Hortlund
Oh man...its never pretty to watch a crash and burn in progress...
No kidding, I couldn't actually read what he posted, I just had to look away lol.
Oh well Mia, sound Collision and brace for impact.
-Sik
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this is starting to get funny and Ill just be laughin so hard next time I see her,(thinking about this message board) I prolly just walk away.
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If you go for it and it goes awry, at least you know the outcome and you have an interesting story. If you keep it to yourself, 10 years from now you'll be sitting around sipping a beer and thinking "man, wonder if I coulda tagged her?"
Love? There's time for love later, at 23 it's all about tappin that bellybutton :)
And if you take any of the advice in this thread, take this: Never listen to someone who begins their advice with "As a lover of many women"
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44DD?:D
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Originally posted by Raubvogel
Love? There's time for love later, at 23 it's all about tappin that bellybutton :)
heh I came out of a 7 year relation ship prior to moving down here and tappin that asss is not my kind of thing or the kind of person I am.
I could see me 10years down the road thinking what if though. I still do that about some cars Ive owned.
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You're 23 with a 7 year relationship in the baggage?
sheet
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hehe why i dont have any experiance with women,, been with the same one forever.
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:D
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hmm, fiance, sees his girls pic on the net, then finds your e-mail.
drink'n & think'n should rarely be done at the same time.
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good thinkin capt
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"tonight but I didnt have the balls to say it ..."
and ppl think romance is dead - LOL
be sure to post the after pictures - after her boyfriend finishes with you :)
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This is funniest thread in ages. Sorry mia, but this is funny stuff. :D
I'd like to echo the sentiments of others regarding the email. Bad, bad idea. Like really.
Oh and posts starting with "As a lover of many women..." always sound a bit like that fella out of cheers - the post service guy.
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Originally posted by Eagler
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be sure to post the after pictures - after her boyfriend finishes with you :)
IM bigger then him so no worries there. He does own some guns though :eek:
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Originally posted by mia389
IM bigger then him so no worries there. He does own some guns though :eek:
but if he doesn't play AH he's not good at deflection shooting...so run like hell :)
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well, at least you can say you were really drunk.
Man, they should make a breathalyzer for email and BBS posting.
I'd be there.
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Sunday night I was playing with my four-year old daughter. I was squeezing this toy, soft-plastic, cylindrical, Fischer-Price-type, little guy, and realized that it could work like a suction cup. So I stuck it on my forehead and pretended that I didn’t know it was there while my daughter was laughing and saying, “It’s right there on your forehead!” Typical dad stuff, except that it left a perfectly-round, nickel-sized, purple dot, smack-dab in the middle of my forehead. I call it my stupidity mark. Yeah, a little blue man gave me a hickey. I’ve been feeling pretty dumb, until I read this thread…
Now I feel like a genius…
eskimo
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C'mon guys, being in love is all about doing dumb things!!
Mia, I don't have much experience in this field, but the 33 yrs old I am should say you're doomed.... But the kid (err...teen in this case) still sleeping in me is hoping for a happy conclusion. So we both cross fingers for you! Keep us informed.
One advice tho: go easy on the booze...Drinking a lot will keep you away from the real ladies. And when you feel the urge to write another e-mail, go have a cold shower instead
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This is great stuff MIA. Keep us posted man. If you really like the girl, I say keep it slow, but dont walk away. She isnt married after all.
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turds! all of you :D
There's still an ounce of optimism in me. There's a chance, a very small chance, that this'll turn out good :D If not, then it'll just turn out... in that case, run for the hills.
originally suggested by Chairboy:
If you can, laugh it off saying you were drunk and you don't remember what you typed. Something about flying jets.
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I LIKE THIS OPTION! :D But the spelling and grammar is pretty damn good for inebriation... say you were dictating.
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What you should do is go up flying with her and then nail her while over 5500 feet. Then, the next day wear a "Migh High Club Member" teeshirt with a big ****-eating grin and never talk to her again.
I did the same thing to FunkedUp and it was awesome.
MiniD
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Mia389 I can't help you if you don't give us pictures.
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Originally posted by FUNKED1
Mia389 I can't help you if you don't give us pictures.
i second that! :D
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I've been 23 twice now... you're still toast.
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:)
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Go for it. You're not going to ever get another chance at a chick less than 600 lbs.
MiniD
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Originally posted by Mini D
Go for it. You're not going to ever get another chance at a chick less than 600 lbs.
MiniD
:rofl
she's a cutie!
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she's a cutie!
She sure is. I suppose that'll make the fact Mia will never be able to face her again that much more tragic.
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Hell yeah, go for it! Dont live a life wondering "what if I only had the guts?".
Worst case, she says no thanks, and you move on and dont have a question hanging over ya. Best case, she shares the feelings and you have a relationship starting with a girl that you like who also likes airplanes. As far as her fiance goes, if she is interested in you now, she obviously didnt care enough about him and its better he learned that early.
Waiting till after your checkride would probably have been a good idea, but you have made the move, now have the nads to see it through.
good luck,
dago
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Worst case, she says no thanks, and you move on and dont have a question hanging over ya.
you forgot the other option, she goes for it, they date, they break-up before he gets his license, she turns vindictive(she is a woman after all), she torpedo's his training, badmouths him to other instructors, and screws up his license.
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But apathy... he can get laid and that's all that really matters. Besides... he's got to learn the do's and DON'TS someday... might as well be when something like his pilot's license is on the line.
MiniD
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Go for it. You only live once. Follow your heart and treat her with respect. At 23 you're still developing into an adult. These are some of the situations that will help mold you into the man you'll become, good or bad.
Good luck to you.
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yep, and 23 ain't bad if he learns. some guys I know make it into their 50's and still don't know that there's not enough blood for a man to use both heads at the same time.
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since you're toast, I will add one little bit of elderly advice (I am a grandfather you know)
As you get older you won't remember the women you went to bed with quite as well as the ones you "almost" went to bed with.... just my 2 cents.
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Dunno if i'd call her that large gents...shes got some skinny arms and i never did see a girl who looked good in a crew shirt. Mia...anything with a bikini?
Declare emergency, call for equipment because you're PIC is incapacitated and you'll be on the ground in moments.
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Originally posted by mia389
Ok Ill put some pictsures up. heh I really hope u guys dont know her though.
me (http://www.althomashome.com/pictures/Me%20after%20my%20solo.jpg)
her (http://althomashome.com/pictures/Heather%20my%20instructor.jpg)
Thats my sister you bastard!!!
:D
Go for it, life is short...fly fast
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Focus...Focus...Focus GET THE TICKET.
I want you to get a beer, turn on a MAN SHOW rerun, settle down, look at her for what she really is at the moment, YOUR INSTRUCTOR TO FLIGHT. DON'T BE HER PUDKNOCKER...YET!
After you get your ticket...whoa, what a freakin trip it will be to fly her....go for it! And, if it turns out, you click with her...NEVER SAY ANYTHING TO ANYONE ON THIS BBS ABOUT IT AGAIN...EVER. ;)
Thorns
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I gotta keep ya guys updated:) think Im gonna yank that picture, dunno what she would do if she found her picture on the internet hehe
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What in the world would you think she'd think of her picture being posted without her permission? Maybe you should pay more attention to those little red flags that pop up once in awhile ;)
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Hey my parents own a couple of time shares on New Symerna Beach. I go there for holidays occasionally. Nice place to live.
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(http://home.earthlink.net/~mathmanahs/miasgirl.jpg)
smallish tits and a big ass... can she hum?
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Pic link no workee.
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Heck, I'll teach ya to fly. Go for it.
Just about any decent instructor could finish you out.
;)
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Pic not working.
Well , this is the best soap opera I ever have followed :D
Continue to the bitter end, you got only your reputation (in her eyes ) to lose , and so much to win.. You live only once you know?
Wait until you get your licence though. That way you got perfectly good reason to offer her a drink or two or three.... you know where this leads.. ;)
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Originally posted by LLv34 Jarsci
Pic not working.
Well , this is the best soap opera I ever have followed :D
Continue to the bitter end, you got only your reputation (in her eyes ) to lose , and so much to win.. You live only once you know?
Wait until you get your licence though. That way you got perfectly good reason to offer her a drink or two or three.... you know where this leads.. ;)
Ya I did that after my first solo flight and she brought her boyfriend with:mad: That was awhile ago though. Havnt been out with her since weve had this tension going on between us. We both know something is cooking in each others heads.
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sorry about the pic link, she can be found on my website though
www.althomashome.com (http://www.althomashome.com)
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"I think she's feeling something towards me cause she sure flurts alot"
Typical chick don't fall for that crap.
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you forgot the other option, she goes for it, they date, they break-up before he gets his license, she turns vindictive(she is a woman after all), she torpedo's his training, badmouths him to other instructors, and screws up his license.
She is only an Instructor, and I kinda suspect the FBO or Flight School she teaches from is not the only one in the area. Geez, dont be so paranoid or such a wuss. The man has to have some nads and not run around being afraid of every little thing.
It dont work with her, there are only a million other flight instructors out there.
If it works out, great. If they dont last, he will have some fond memories anyway, he will have lived a little more life, and learned another lesson while moving along the road.
GO FOR IT DAMMIT, chicks dig hearing guys are interested.
dago
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actually there aren't even a million pilots out there. Its between 600,000-700,000 in the US, pilots with (only) commercial ratings number less than 150,000 and there are also under 150,000 ATPs (in addition to commercial pilot certificates)
something along the lines of a whopping 350 recreational pilots.
Losing an instructor is no big deal, from day 1 to checkride day ive got endorsements from 11 different instructors. Yep, 11.
Hal, Krzys, Adam, Gerry, Mike, Whitlow, Samir, Christina, Charlene, Al, and Chad signed me off for my checkride.
Hal 'got promoted' after only 3 student solos.
Krzys took a job flying Commanders, only to have one run out of fuel when the line guys didnt fill one of the tanks and lived through a forced landing in IMC with ceilings less than 500 feet at night.
Gerry is a new guy from riddle.
Mike's an old guy from the airforce who owed me a free 90-day reup since I sold his car for him.
Whitlow is an older friend who signed me off to another local airport for the purpose of refueling flights for the FBO.
Samir is a buddy from high school signing me off for an X/C.
Christina (chris) signed me off to solo in 152s in Mansfield.
Charlene checked me out in another FBO's 152 in Lancaster.
Al was a knucklehead who didnt know the FARs from a lunch menu but signed me off on my first solo X/C...incorrectly.
Chad is one of the funniest guys i know...first rate CFI.
The day before my checkride i suggested to chad that we sing all of our radio calls, he disagreed so Gomer Pyle called tower and was issued clearance to land from the controller/friend of mine. Unfortunately he is not a Double-I so now Gerry is my Instrument Instructor...which I am nearly complete :)
So you see...changing instructors is no big deal. Passed my checkride with 50 hours (flew a lot when i didnt need to) and nearly 30 of them were with Hal. Lots of bouncing around after that. Good luck with the checkride, mine was a breeze. less than an hour oral exam (thats verbal for you gutterminds) and .9 flight time rounded up to 1.4 by the examiner.
By the way...Mia, you have much to learn grasshopper about the power of the pu**y. It is much more powerful than you think, and you must give it more respect. Only when you meet 'the one' will you give into the true power of the pu**y and fall in love. until then, may you find many safe boxes to store your cylinder.
Matane.
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Originally posted by Toad
Heck, I'll teach ya to fly. Go for it.
Just about any decent instructor could finish you out.
;)
I think you have a "bit" too much facial hair for mia's taste Toad.:p
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mia
after examining the pictures....
.....you have to get out more son :)
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MIA,
Regardless of how it turns out try to remember something...
Love, true love, comes from a deep friendship with another human being. If you would like to be her best friend and she would like to be yours you two are off to a great start. The simple fact that you both enjoy a common interest, flying, is a good thing.
If it's just lust you feel that is ok too but it won't suffice for the kind of lasting relationship that you seem to be seeking. Remember that in years to come, as passion subsides, and it will to varying degrees, you need something more concrete to hold your relationship together than just sex.
Good luck and I hope all turns out as you would like it to. If it doesn't, never fear, it will one day.
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POst a pic ,then we can better direct you how to proceed..:)
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Originally posted by Frogm4n
(http://home.earthlink.net/~mathmanahs/miasgirl.jpg)
That's pretty freakin' hilarious!
If that doesn't kill his "enthusiasm", nothing will.
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damn.
I came in this a.m. and started reading this topic with my morning coffee. Hoping to hear of a semi climactic and over melodramatic face-to-face showdow. Or to at least witness to the derailing and subsequent destruction of a young man's self esteem.
But as soon as I got to page three of this topic all I heard was the stall buzzer blaring (although that pic is hilarious!).
This is beginning to turn into a web board version of "Gigli" :(
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I think Mia got pissed off with the alterations cause he erased his post with the pics AND the large version of the pic on his webpage. The small one is still there on his page lol :)
Can't really tell but she looks a lot like the girl I grided with last Friday at 600N (a club in Daytona). That's the original, not the 'improved' pic.
Mia, please post the large pic again, I think we might be on to something here...
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The links dont work, please repost the pictures!
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Oh jeekus, I just found 'the email'.
Hi *****, something has really been on mind and I need to get rid of it. I almost told you tonight but I didnt have the balls to say it. Im sure you could tell I wanted to say something but I couldnt. First of all I would like to say I really, really like you as an instructor and I dont want to do or say anything that would make me lose you as an instructor. I think thats my biggest fear and thats why I havnt said anything. Anyway just confront me tomorrow about this email and Ill fill you in. Im just not sure if telling you is the right thing to do, but it will make me feel better, I think,and hope.
Tell her you have a drinking problem. Your situation is analogous to a B-17 spinning in from 30,000 feet with its entire crew trapped inside from centrifugal force. Somehow you have to climb to an escape hatch and bail out without being smashed by the tail or propellors.
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:lol
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heh I never figured this would turn into a 3 page post:D She called me this morning asking about a message I left on her phone yesterday. Was kindof funny. The chief flight instructor called me at about 5pm yesterday when I was petty hammered. He told me my final stage check would be thursday at 8am and to plan a crosscountry to Sarasota. I then said ok Ill be there tomorrow at 8. He was like no man thursday, tomorrow is wednesday. I was like oh ya thursday at 8 then laughin. He said the first question will be what day it is:rolleyes: Anyway after that I called my instructor to tell her about my stage check, she told me to let her know when it was scheduled. hehe So I called her got her voice mail and started sluring leaving a message, then I just started cracking up thinkin about this whole board. So I hung up and called back leaving a "normal" message. Didnt hear from her at all lastnight. This morning she called and woke me up at 9am. She was like Al I got this message on my phone that didnt make any sence and she started lauging. I was still waking up trying to think what I said, then I rembered it was just to tell her about my stage check. So I told her I have my stage check at 8am Thursday. She then said," good luck and after your stage check lets meet at the school to talk about that email you sent me the other night" I asked her if she can just forget about that email. She said no, lets talk Thursday ,so I agreed.
Dont worry guys Ill defiently fill you in about that one
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a drunken message!
SWulfe predicted that one.
Like sands through the hour glass...
***STAY TUNED FOR THE EXCITING CONCLUSION OF "AH: DAYS OF OUR LIVES"***
[edit]: I actually think the drinking problem excuse is beginning to hold some water [/edit]
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Dont mix beer with chinesse food, bigest lesson I learned yesterday:)
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Originally posted by mia389
She then said," good luck and after your stage check lets meet at the school to talk about that email you sent me the other night" I asked her if she can just forget about that email. She said no, lets talk Thursday ,so I agreed.
Dont worry guys Ill defiently fill you in about that one
hmmm.
Not sure how you should take that.
On the one hand it sounds encouraging, but meeting at the school seems strange for some reason. It's just too official a place.
Who knows though. The first man to actually figure out a woman's thought process will be very very rich.
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Mia-
Seriously, pal. I know the woman is important to you. But if you're drinking as much as you say you are, don't waste your time. She's not gonna stay with an alcoholic. Most women can't.
If your as bad as you sound, you need to get some help before you kill yourself or someone else.
Good Luck.
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lets meet at the school to talk about that email you sent me the other night"
Dont show up drunk. :)
dago
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Stop drinking.
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Inebriation was a problem for the message only once.
I highly doubt he has a drinking problem. Mia, you've been drunk what, twice in the last week? I see nothing wrong with that. It's unfortunate that you were inebriated during the phone call(s) though.
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I'm with Grunhertz 100% on this one, STOP DRINKING. PERIOD.
If you feel you can't or won't given the importance of this woman you're going after, then you've got a problem.
Trouble with alcohol is that usually you lose your ability to know when to shut up. You're supposed to be impressing her.
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Ah love!
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Originally posted by Sikboy
Let me get this straight... hiring a hooker is the grown up solution to all this?
-Sik
A lot more fun and a lot less expensive in the long run.
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come on, cut the guy some slack. Back in the uni days I was working as a bartender...being piss drunk 3-4 days a week was normal back then.
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Originally posted by Hortlund
come on, cut the guy some slack. Back in the uni days I was working as a bartender...being piss drunk 3-4 days a week was normal back then.
You really think he should be getting bombed a 2 days before his check ride?
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I put my money on the kid:D
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" She said ..lets talk Thursday ,so I agreed"
WOW! Talk about pulling out of a nose dive and having the prop clip the tips of the bushes. This soap has been reinjected with a healthy good does of suspense and anticipation! WTG
So.... ?
Will she show up armed with a "come hither" look and in a sheer, see-thru silk blouse ????
....
Or...
Will she be a 'toting a big ole can o'mace and have the stations mechanics standing behind her with all of them looking at you as if you're a sack of old dog meat and swinging large cast steel monkey wrenches?
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Originally posted by muckmaw
You really think he should be getting bombed a 2 days before his check ride?
He's young, doing stupid things is part of that experience.
Anyway...two days before? Sure. Personally I have done alot more stupid things than that...
So what is a check ride anyway?
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Smells like an ambush to me.
" Hey Mia meet my fiance'"
Midnight said:
As you get older you won't remember the women you went to bed with quite as well as the ones you "almost" went to bed with.... just my 2 cents.
IMHO
I enjoyed and remember the "did" much better than the almosts
Drftr
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Check ride is a practical test.
A Flight Examiner (fear him as though you would god) pokes and prods your mind to see that you are a safe pilot and can safely operate a flying machine. If you're within perscribed standards of airspeeds, altitudes, and headings...you pass. if not...they chop your hands off, remove your tonuge and poke out one eye.
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Damn, tards, the boy's only 23 years old. Drunk should be a part of life!
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this thread is so funny. I keep coming back to the computer labs to check it.
Mia, I hope your instructor doesn't come back here anymore, or she might see her pic with a hag's head and then you'll have a LOT of xplaining to do lol.
I remember her face vaguely but I haven't seen her here at all this semester.
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hags head? lol, thats grampa munster.
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Originally posted by muckmaw
You really think he should be getting bombed a 2 days before his check ride?
Blaaaah....That's 48 hours, the rules state no alcohol within 12 hours before flying.:)
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SOB my LCD monitor took a chit. At a friends house hehe. I only been getting drunk the last couple of weeks. Now its time to clear my mind and get ready for my checkride and ready to meet with my instrucotor. I have a feeling couple of us will go out after my stage check and meeting with my instructor though. I dunno though time will tell now.
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Originally posted by mia389
heh I never figured this would turn into a 3 page post:D She called me this morning asking about a message I left on her phone yesterday. Was kindof funny. The chief flight instructor called me at about 5pm yesterday when I was petty hammered. He told me my final stage check would be thursday at 8am and to plan a crosscountry to Sarasota. I then said ok Ill be there tomorrow at 8. He was like no man thursday, tomorrow is wednesday. I was like oh ya thursday at 8 then laughin. He said the first question will be what day it is:rolleyes: Anyway after that I called my instructor to tell her about my stage check, she told me to let her know when it was scheduled. hehe So I called her got her voice mail and started sluring leaving a message, then I just started cracking up thinkin about this whole board. So I hung up and called back leaving a "normal" message. Didnt hear from her at all lastnight. This morning she called and woke me up at 9am. She was like Al I got this message on my phone that didnt make any sence and she started lauging. I was still waking up trying to think what I said, then I rembered it was just to tell her about my stage check. So I told her I have my stage check at 8am Thursday. She then said," good luck and after your stage check lets meet at the school to talk about that email you sent me the other night" I asked her if she can just forget about that email. She said no, lets talk Thursday ,so I agreed.
Dont worry guys Ill defiently fill you in about that one
I think this is a good sign as it would have been easer for her to just say ok forget it, my wife says maybe not as woman like to "talk things out". She thinks that she may want to let you down easy and not have you crash and burn but she agrees that its a toe hold and could be a start.
I still think its better then " ok lets just forget it then"
we are staying tuned for the next update...
;)
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Punt
This is too good to live front page.
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DUde!!!
Get you check ride done first, then take her out to dinner as a way to say thankyou for her time, and see how it goes from there. You will have a good Idea by this point as what to do next.
p.s. I just had one of the female emt's hit on me and she knows my wife very well. Try dealing with this and working 24hrs and staying in the same apartment (one of our stations) just the 2 of us!!! And she's very hot, red head, and 6 years older than me. She is also engaged, and has twin daughters. Man I can't wait to get to Montana...
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Originally posted by medicboy
DUde!!!
Get you check ride done first, then take her out to dinner as a way to say thankyou for her time, and see how it goes from there. You will have a good Idea by this point as what to do next.
p.s. I just had one of the female emt's hit on me and she knows my wife very well. Try dealing with this and working 24hrs and staying in the same apartment (one of our stations) just the 2 of us!!! And she's very hot, red head, and 6 years older than me. She is also engaged, and has twin daughters. Man I can't wait to get to Montana...
Good advice Medic!
It's suave, mature, and innocent enough. A nice "Thank you" dinner. (Followed by a "Your Welcome" hummer!)
Where was I...oh mature...
Don't take her to a Jack-in-the-box, either.
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Originally posted by muckmaw
It's suave, mature, and innocent enough.
Thats me! Oh wait, I'm on wife #2 and I'm not even 30, maybe it's not me....
I never had a problem getting girlfriends, just had a hard time delaing with the mind games. I think that is why I am glued to this thread, it is so innocent and fun, what I would give to be like that again...
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Don't get your hopes up. If it was going to have an optimal ending, we'd all know by now.
Checkride will be with another instructor. She needs to "Talk things out" so you can both deal with it. It's going to be excruciatingly painful. Start preparing all your "we're adults, it's natural for these feelings to develop, but my way of dealing with it by getting drunk and doing stupid things was simply not appropriate" speeches.
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this guy is sad....
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Originally posted by Dago
Dont show up drunk. :)
dago
Show up nude! :D
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Originally posted by SunKing
this guy is sad....
ditto that,
and attention starved.
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This thread is so funny, he must be pulling our legs... :D
Now, let me ask you guys a few questions. But first, let's all read this part again:
"She then said, 'good luck and after your stage check lets meet at the school to talk about that email you sent me the other night.' I asked her if she can just forget about that email. She said no, lets talk Thursday ,so I agreed."
Question #1: "... lets [sic] meet at the school..."
Hmm. I'm pretty sure she knows whats up and is roping him just before she brings guns to bear. If she was interested, don't you think she'd say something like, "Let's meet somewhere after your checkride to celebrate..."?
Question #2: "She said no, let's talk Thursday..."
Hmm. Don't you think she wants to get this 'hormone thing' settled quickly?
You know... I don't think I would like to be 23 again. :D
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"Red Leader I'm taking fire"
"Stay on target"
:D
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To be a true soap opera she must have identical twin sister who is "Evil." Kidnaps her and takes her place.
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I'm tuning into Nexus shows next!!
But in the meantime...
HELLO!!??
Mia?
What's happening? Any more phone calls? Emails?! Recollect any dreams from last night about what today will bring?
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Yeah it's Thursaday already. Let's get on with the show ! :D
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Yep, and stop bashing our hero!
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Yeah were all rooting for you Mia!
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Didnt he have his check ride at 8:15 this morning?
Was that pacific time? He may be still flying..
or knee deep in Poooooooo-Haaaaa by now!
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man i wish my instructor was a hottie. mia you lucky bastard :)
hope it turns out well. since you're both pilots joining the mile high club wont be a problem ;)
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This is like waiting for the final episode of Survivor the first time that series was on.
Man I can hardly wait for the update to see how this all turns out.
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mia-NEWS????
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C'mon, we're dying here! I'm guessing that she says you need to get another instructor, and that you'll want to shoot yourself. I suggest you skip the latter and just learn from it.
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I have been on both sides. I daded some of my instructors, and I dated some of my students. I broke up and still learned/taught.
When you fly, you fly. When you have sex, have sex. :D
No compromizes or favors because your life, and worse, the one of others will depend on it. Make it clear, then "sky is the limit".
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I bet he got kicked out of the airplane at 2000feet, any takers?
-SW
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Originally posted by moose
man i wish my instructor was a hottie. mia you lucky bastard :)
hope it turns out well. since you're both pilots joining the mile high club wont be a problem ;)
Did you see the picture?
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Originally posted by Animal
Did you see the picture?
Hey, I didnt think she was bad... but she's definitely not the girl in the halloween picture you posted last year :D
.... mia we're waaaaating!
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Originally posted by Habu
This is like waiting for the final episode of Survivor the first time that series was on.
ROFLMAO :rofl
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Originally posted by Animal
Did you see the picture?
ya - but did you see him? :)
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Originally posted by Eagler
ya - but did you see him? :)
hey, whatever floats your boat, eagler :D
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Originally posted by Octavius
hey, whatever floats your boat, eagler :D
LOL
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just found this thread - wonderfully refreshing ;)
Update please !!!
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You guys are cold blooded:D
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Originally posted by SFRT - Frenchy
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When you fly, you fly. When you have sex, have sex. :D
This is so dammmm French!
:D
Mia is probably looking for an extinguisher about now...
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she looked cute to me
mia you edited out the pic site but someone quoted it :) nice homepage!
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Looks like some of you scared him off. Thanks a million!:(
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:D
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The fiance must have shown up. Poor bastard.
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mia is MIA. :(
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I hope he at least passed the checkride. that's more important than anything else...
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I've got a few possibilities here.
1) Mia failed his check ride, and the FI shot him down so he crawled inside a bottle somewhere, and shortly thereafter drove his pick-up into a bridge abuttment
2) Mia Failed his check ride, but his FI gave it up, so he's nose deep in Pooooo-haaaaa right now, not thinking of us for second.
3) Mia Passed his check ride, but his FI shot him down, and he's sitting in his car right now, sipping on some Cuervo, thinking about a creative way to off himself in such a manner that the FI feels guilty for the rest of her life.
My money is on 3.
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Maybe he is getting some "private instruction"? :)
or drowning his sorrows?
dago
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this is retarded. If I were to take my cehckride I'd be sweating that for a month in advance and not even care about a woman.
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Com'on MIA...........Are you a swaggerin' pilot with lipstick on your lips, or are you checking your wallet to see how much money you can spend at the liquior store? We can take it....TELL US! Starting 5th page now......I might have to break down and call the MIA hotline....1-800-LOVEHURTS :eek:
Thorns
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That number is out of service was the message I recieved, I was redirected to 1-900-THUGLUV
Guess he did have a bad day and got in deep with the Fiance.
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C'mon, we gotta know. What's the scoop?
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Oh geez... I just thought about it, if Mia really goes through with it, then the logical next step (I use the word logical to describe what, based on his past record of decision making indicates, Mia will do) would be for him to show her this message thread.
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Originally posted by Chairboy
Oh geez... I just thought about it, if Mia really goes through with it, then the logical next step (I use the word logical to describe what, based on his past record of decision making indicates, Mia will do) would be for him to show her this message thread.
OMG..you could be right man.
A feeling of impending disaster arises.
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Oh, I would not advise showing her this message thread. Woman do NOT like to be talked about with others as a general rule, and they want to know everything FIRST. Not after you shared it on the internet with a bunch of strange strangers.
I hope it all turned out well for the guy.
dago
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He can not be so obtuse to show her this thread! That has disaster clearly written all over it!
I am waiting with baited breath as well..
Who knows maybe he got lucky and she dropped the Zero and got with the hero and Mia is out having fun right now... lol...
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This thread is far far more interesting than some silly old WB vs AH mudslinging. :) :)
I'm hooked on this thread like my wife gets hooked on Lifetime movies on Sundays! (http://www.ironmaiden.org/bb/images/smilies/lol.gif)
I hoping for the best for ya MIA!
Kekule
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Remember my post a few months ago about the "bullpen"?
Mia389 IS the bullpen.
I just hope that right now he's got his ticket punched in more ways than one, not collapsed sobbing in a pool of his own vomit.
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We should have gotten his cell number. This is far too important to make us wait like this. I'm normally the lone optimist but this will be an exception. I'm guessing the checkride went ok but the chat afterward consisted of a "your sweet and all but you got your signals crossed and I wish you all the best" speech.
:rolleyes: women.....
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I'm telling you, he was forcefully bailed out of the plane at 2000feet with no parachute.
-SW
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So how does it end?
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if it ended ok he'd have already checked in.
so it's either really good or really bad. I'd guess bad.
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I hooked up with my ex wife tonight....if that helps any....sure helped me :)
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Originally posted by Kekule
I'm hooked on this thread like my wife gets hooked on Lifetime movies on Sundays!
You guys will read anything as long it has airplanes in it.
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Dang!! No news yet!!!! I went to bed a bit disappointed yesterday, but I fully expected to read the conclusion of this hair-raising, heart-tearing drama by this morning!
Mia, suspense is usually ok, but it's getting too hitchcokian for my nerves. And even lying in a hospital bed after Finance beat the pulp out of you isn't a good enough reason: c'mon, it's 21st century! Even your 3rd rate clinics are linked to the net!
WE WANT NEEEEEWS!!
PS I'm even more impatient than for the latest Harry Potter...
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It's 12:30 here in LA, and my wife and I are also sitting here refreshing the page. Dude!
C'mon, we know you got seriously shot down. Let us hear the details! Consider it an... an after-action report.
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We've made Mount Fuji out of a mole-hill... dissapointment is the only likely conclusion.
But maybe... just maybe...
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what if we never DO hear from mia?
what will we do with this unfinished product that will and can never be completed?
Insanity will set in... our F5 key will be worn down to a smooth stub...
I think I'm more interested in news in this thread than I am news on AH2!
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Damn season ending cliffhanger... :mad:
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"Femme fatale"?
Les
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Do you think Ross walked in on them? Oh, wrong person, I mean the "Fiance". If Mia is beat to a pulp, just barely breathing, she could have flown him to a remote airstrip, kicked him out, and he defending himself against the wilds. It's cloudy, he has no ideal where his location is, and all he sees is sand. Should he start walking, or should he stay put? :rolleyes:
Thorns
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Thorns,
Sounds like he is stuck in the Pizza map at a remote desolute area. Oh all the bases on that map are remote and desolute. Geez he would not even show up on Dar.
Should we launch search partys?
He is like our little brother now.
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Mia, if you can see this send up a blue flare. If you can't see this signal us with a red one!
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Originally posted by Octavius
what if we never DO hear from mia?
what will we do with this unfinished product that will and can never be completed?
Insanity will set in... our F5 key will be worn down to a smooth stub...
I think I'm more interested in news in this thread than I am news on AH2!
OH CRAP! F5 refreshes your screen?
hehe...never knew that.
This story better have a block buster ending for the buildup it's getting.
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Update please....don't make us have to get rough with ya :D
or maybe if I put it another way...
WHAT IN THE WIDE WIDE WORLD OF SPORTS IS A GOIN ON MAN?????
Jeez...this is worse than waiting to find out who shot JR!
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I'm bettin' some large, masked fellow named Gimp has little Mia bent over a fuel tank with an eight ball strapped in his mouth, plowing the Lincoln Tunnel. :o
But ... I could be wrong. Update? :eek:
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You know it could have played out like this.
Mia passes check ride with flying colours. Meets instructor after and she says she is sexually attracted to him but that is all. They go to a Motel 6 to celebrate and have wild sex all night long.
Right now he is hung over and exhausted, but really really happy.
Or he could have failed and she could have told him to piss off......
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Is Mia's saga going to end up like the never aired, last episode of "Woody's Roundup?"
Will any of us ever know the dramatic course of events on October 1st, 2003 or how they effected the lives of the people involved?
Ahrggggghhh....
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Originally posted by aknimitz
I'm bettin' some large, masked fellow named Gimp has little Mia bent over a fuel tank with an eight ball strapped in his mouth, plowing the Lincoln Tunnel. :o
But ... I could be wrong. Update? :eek:
Do you mean to say Mia may be "Gettin' it in the ole' service entrance?"
Are you trying to say some brute is giving him a "Shot in the Pale".
Are you insinuating that some guy is violating mia's "Leather Cheerio?"
Just curious.
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Do you mean to say Mia may be "Gettin' it in the ole' service entrance?"
Are you trying to say some brute is giving him a "Shot in the Pale"
Are you insinuating that some guy is violating mia's "Leather Cheerio?"
Why you put it so eloquently!
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mia, you don't have to post the end of you story. the message board readers can live without that.
but of course please feel encouraged to ask for further help like you should have before writing that email to her.
if you need advice on where to find a new instructor, or where to get some cheap teeth replacement, please just ask. There are many willing to help here.
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:mad:
mia, you don't have to post the end of you story. the message board readers can live without that.
Lynch him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Leather cheerio....lol...gonna use that one whenever possible.:D
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i cant believe a thread this lame is gonna make it to 250 posts
the worst part is that there isn't a flame anywhere in here. what the hell is wrong with you people!
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Anyone scanned the FAA pages for "Student myseriously falls from plane"?
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there's only one thing left to do:
Make bets on the outcome!!!
1. Checkride Passed/Chick Passed
2. Checkride Passed/Chick Failed
3. Checkride Failed/ Chick Passed
4. Checkride Failed/Chick Failed
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either #1 or #2.
a good instructor wouldnt let you go for your checkride if you werent ready
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I'll take #3 and the points.
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Ill take Checkride Passed/Chick Passed if someone gives me 20:1.
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Originally posted by moose
either #1 or #2.
a good instructor wouldnt let you go for your checkride if you werent ready
he said he had only 47 hours 2 days before the checkride. that's very little. the national average is 80hours to get your PPL.
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i find it hard to believe that it takes people 80 hours to just get their ppl
maybe im a little more advanced (i had all my requirements done at 25 hours, and i soloed at 4.3) but every student that my instructor has had who's gone for the checkride went with between 40-45 hours.
i'm at 32 right now, just flying x-cs for fun. i cant imagine needing to be any more ready then this
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I hope MIA responds in this thread soon, before we all go nuts!
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Shut up Moose. You just wish this was all about you.
(how's that?)
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yea, i need a girl somethin fierce!
ok, back on topic! mia, she use whips and chains on you or what?
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80 hours? Maybe if the person is special needs or spreading their flying out over a couple years. 40 hours is the average for most of my friends.
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Originally posted by Westy
Shut up Moose. You just wish this was all about you.
This isn't about mia. This is about his instructor.
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Oh and PS: I think that her 'wanting to talk about it on Thursday' is a clear indicator that your foot is in the door. If she were honestly happy with her fiancee she wouldnt be 'meeting' you to 'talk' about an 'email' you sent her.
She wants your junk man - dont blow it - let her feel like shes in control of the situation - let her talk and only open your mouth when youre asked a direct question. Always answer those questions with direct answers; Yes, No, Absolutely work... "I think... I guess... I love... nah... nevermind..." will make her clam dry up quick.
In any event, I dunno how comfortable I'd be in a relationship with a girl who flirted her bellybutton off and/or screwed around with another guy (you) while she was engaged. Fortunately for you, lust is much more applicable than love in this situation. :cool:
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heard he is at the doctor getting a shot to stop the burning :)
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Originally posted by Eagler
heard he is at the doctor getting a shot to stop the burning :)
Rectal Seepage?
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Originally posted by muckmaw
Rectal Seepage?
don't think he went to your doc :)
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isnt 40 hours the min requirement to get your PPL?
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Part 141 is 35
Part 61 is 40
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Did a search for posts by mia, his last post on this bbs was on 10-01-2003 08:58 PM.
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Hmmmm doesn't sound good for the home team.....
:(
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I perfectly understand if he doesn't want to post in this thread anymore.... But if he scored he probably would have said something.
Poor guy.:(
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There are some people on this board that are either clueless or malicious.
She wants to talk, so that means his foot is still in the door? My god! No, ADULTS deal with these things by talking about them. The person who said that is clueless or egging him on to be super embarrased.
All of you who seriously think that she's going to do anything other then tell him he had a crush and that it's no appropriate and that he needs to find another instructor, y'all are out of your minds.
I know it didn't end well, I just want to hear the specifics of how badly 'didn't end well' means this time.
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Mia, if you're out there, and you don't want to talk about it, at least give us a thumbs up, or a thumbs down sign. STOP THIS BLEEDING! Do we have to take an personal ad out in the newspaper? Desperately seeking MIA!!
Thorns
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Originally posted by mia389
I think she's feeling something towards me cause she sure flurts alot. Sometimes we will do ground work that is suppose to take an hour but ends up being 4 hours. She only will charge me for the hour though:D
I do know her outside of school though too. Ive gone out drinkin with her a couple of times.
Yeah, real professional conduct from an instructor that's supposed to be getting married to someone else.
That "crush" thing could be going both ways.
His leaving private email and phone messages esp while drunk was not good. That alone is enough to scare away the other one from entering a relationship.
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So, Mia's silence should be ample evidence to all you jerkies saying 'give it a shot' that things did not go well.
This "crush" thing could be going both ways
:rolleyes:
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her boyfriend did not know how to pilot, and they needed to teach him in case both of them passed out as they banged madly at 20kft.
They're stuck on a tropical isle after yanking the plane in a spin from KamaSutra threesome position #439 page 250.
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That's basically the Amelia Earhart story in a nutshell, isn't it?
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Originally posted by Chairboy
There are some people on this board that are either clueless or malicious.
She wants to talk, so that means his foot is still in the door? My god! No, ADULTS deal with these things by talking about them.
Everytime a girl wanted me to come 'talk' in person she had alternative plans. Sorry these things never seemed to work out for you. :D
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I say ya tag her and ask her to bring a friend along just in case.:rofl
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if it was possitive they'd have met to 'talk' at a bar (likely one in a hotel).
meeting to talk at the school sounds a lot like setting up a safe environment to turn him down without a scene. if she wanted to hook-up with him she wouldn't do it around witnesses
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I'm thinking his drunken messages went over with the same result as Rush's on ESPN. :(
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Will someone PuhlEEze Bail him out so we can hear his side of the story now.
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My bet is that he has never had this much attention and is basking in all his glory while he can....
Pathetic :rolleyes:
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Or .................
This could be one of the all time greatest trolls?
:)
Nim
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damn, 270 posts and no flaming. that would make him the master troller.
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LOL guys,,, Sorry guys I have no monitor so Im kindof screwed. Holy watermelon 6 pages now. Ok for the update. hehe you guys gonna be pissed. She showed up with another instructor, thats her best friend, a women too. Im not sure what her intentions were but I chickened out telling her, specially with her friend there. All 3 of us ended up talking for about 3 hours and about .5 of it was her talking about her wedding. I left, she called later lastnight asking to meet again tomorrow at 6pm for another "review". Im not sure if Im gonna say something since she was talking about her damn wedding today. Oh ya I was on a stage check since Im part 141, my check ride is next week. I passed my stage check and got the go for my checkride now. Ill check back in Sunday and let ya know about tomorrow night. I might say something cause Im still going nuts.
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ALL THAT WAIT FOR THAT! :D
Alls well that doesnt end catastrophically :) Congrats.
Nim
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This might just turn out to be a good thing. You were not immediately shot down in flames, in public....the door is still open. She may have wanted her friends opinion. Women are devious in this matter. They need a second opinion. If you did not make an prettythang of yourself you possibly just passed your "checkride".
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I don't recall things being this crazy when I was single. Back then if you dug a chick you just told her. Nowadays you have to like her 'friend' as well. :D
I'm glad things did not turn out any worse than they did.
Keep us posted.
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riveting
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when I was dating it was simple, ignore them, forget to return calls, cancel dates to hang out with my friends. if she was still around you know you're ok.
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This could be a TV movie...if, the ending is a cat fight between Mia's instructor and her friend, and Mia walks away with the girlfriend! ;)
Thorns
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yeah, the girlfiriend was there in case you went ballistic. Keep your guidance unit. Let her talk, but the ball ain't in your court. And to be frank, keep your expectations to the minimum. You've taken your shot, now you gotta wait for the consequences. In my personal opinion, they won't be good. But even if they are, it's not in your control, and a postive outlook will only serve to crush you. So prepare for the worst, expect the worst. If it's good, well, we're all surprised, and damn happy to be wrong. It's called an aggressive defense.
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maybe her plan was to hook him up with the friend all along.
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Originally posted by capt. apathy
maybe her plan was to hook him up with the friend all along.
Bingo.
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Originally posted by mia389
LOL guys,,, Sorry guys I have no monitor so Im kindof screwed. Holy watermelon 6 pages now. Ok for the update. hehe you guys gonna be pissed. She showed up with another instructor, thats her best friend, a women too. Im not sure what her intentions were but I chickened out telling her, specially with her friend there. All 3 of us ended up talking for about 3 hours and about .5 of it was her talking about her wedding. I left, she called later lastnight asking to meet again tomorrow at 6pm for another "review". Im not sure if Im gonna say something since she was talking about her damn wedding today. Oh ya I was on a stage check since Im part 141, my check ride is next week. I passed my stage check and got the go for my checkride now. Ill check back in Sunday and let ya know about tomorrow night. I might say something cause Im still going nuts.
If she brought her friend along, she's probably not quite ready to trade it her fiance for you. However, she is interested in you way beyond a teacher - student friendship, and may be considering it.
If you are going to say anything to her about how you feel, first ask her how sure she is that she's ready to get married. It's an innocent enough question that any friend could ask her, but coming from you would probably carry a sugestive second meaning. Whatever her answer, you'll be better prepared to decide what to do or say next.
Good luck mia,
We are all rooting for you!
(And you're turning us into a bunch of women! I think I'll just go buy one of those romance novels now.)
eskimo
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Originally posted by Animal
Did you see the picture?
Truck Stop Waitress's need love too.
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Originally posted by Creamo
Truck Stop Waitress's need love too.
Thats your job, keep up the good work and remember to buy only Trojan brand
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Originally posted by Creamo
Truck Stop Waitress's need love too.
I think it's been established that her job is a little beyond that of a Truck Stop Waitress.
eskimo
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cool My roomate let me use his monitor until mine gets fixed. Ok I meet with her tonight and I dont feel like an asss yet, so thats good. When we met last nothing was really said about my email so thats good but, she still read it and knows somethings cooking. Tonight Im sure it will be just me and her, so if it feels right Ill prolly say something. Hearing her talk about her wedding made me not wanna say a damn thing and stay away from that lol. We still had a good time though. Might just ask her out for dinner after were done reviewing for my oral. Get a few beers in her and me and that would be a good thing:D . I know for a fact I would say something then. Im still monitoring her and woundering if I should say anything at all though. For sure Im gonna have to explain that damn email. Ill tell ya how it went tonight.
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Originally posted by eskimo2
We are all rooting for you!
(And you're turning us into a bunch of women! I think I'll just go buy one of those romance novels now.)
I didn't say it! I've been reading this thread for a few days and MAN what an eye opener! I think that this should be printed off and distributed with the 'Book' all women get that list the 'rules'. "Insight into the male mind," or somethin! ;)
Some of you guys got real good advice, and the rest of you guys... listen to the guys who know what they're talking about! Got a few good laughs throughout this thread. You guys are great.
MIA- Good luck. Go with your gut, best advice anyone can give you. Don't think about it too much. If it *feels* like the right time to say something; say it. If it don't? Then.. well, keep yer mouth shut.
The situation right now could be read two ways; #1- She kind of likes you too, but loves her fiance and really doesn't want to screw that up. She's not sure if she should follow through with the feelings, that's why she brought her girlfriend along. The girlfriend could meet you that way, talk to you a little.. get a reading on ya, and then they could talk later. Most likely she wants her girlfriend to tell her that she should stay with the fiance, there's just a little bit of her saying.. eh, but.. but... #2- She brought the girlfriend along to avoid an ugly scene; chances are she knows that you kind of like her and such and is afraid that's what you're going to bring up. If a friend should suddenly show up tonight too while you're talking, I'd go with that one. She doesn't want you to embarass yourself.
That's *my* take on things. :)
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Youngman,
Let me get this straight:
She says: "Im getting married?"
And you want to ask her out? :(
FUHGET ABOUT IT!!!
Leave her alone. Buy the latest Penthouse and get over it. Something is not right about you thinking of breaking up her marriage plans when you dont even know her.
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Dude take the hint...she spent like 3 hours talking about her wedding. That "should" tell you someting.
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Its gonna be fun reading her tonight. First its all gonna be work or school. When were done with the books its gonna get fun. Ill think of posts from every action she takes. hehe this thread has gotten me little more prepared. From last time we met, I got the feeling no matter what I say to her, I dont think its gonna be bad as I think. Just might be "goofy" feeling first couple of mins. after, but if anything, we will make good friends. Ive questioned myself after yesterday If I wanna get involved. Maybe her talking about her wedding was a hint to not say anything lol. I still gotta say something about that damn email though. Think Ill just tell her. See how she reacts. Ive got plans for whatever she says. I know I could impress her with passing my checkride nextweek hehe. 3 guys from my class have all failed it so far lol. Im the next one to take it now. She told me to break that trend. I pretty sure Ill pass though, shes really drilled me hard on watermelon and my flying has been great. One of the guys didnt know what a blue airport, on the sectional was. lol thats another reason why I wanna keep my instructor. I know theres some pretty awful ones out there.
Oh ya, Thanks guys for all the advice. This thread has had good advice and has been funny. Ill be checking it quite often again since I have a monitor.
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I didnt say I was gonna break up her mariage now. Was about a half hour not 3 hours. Other 2 1/2 hours we just bull****ted.
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I dunno about the rest of you guys, but personally I always back off when I see a ring. I suppose its a mix of respect for her and the guy, and also something that enables me to look myself in the mirror every morning without asking what the hell Im doing.
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1 small bit of advice...avoid the "few Beers" to get the courage to talk. Women definitely do not like drunks.
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i had a male glider instuctor who strongly suggested that i could obtain my solo licience easily if i was to err, meet him at a location of his choosing etc etc. (i'm female).
so if i had done what he wanted then maybe i would have got my solo cert earlier, but then maybe i would also be dead by now due to poor training.
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Originally posted by Hortlund
I dunno about the rest of you guys, but personally I always back off when I see a ring. I suppose its a mix of respect for her and the guy, and also something that enables me to look myself in the mirror every morning without asking what the hell Im doing.
I just got rid of all my mirrors instead.
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Rings schmings. Its a dog eat dog world. If the woman is married, ok - maybe she's off limits. But whos to say she is happily married?
If she aint married yet, whos to say she isnt maknig the wrong decision?
Mia, I like the approach of asking if she is sure she wants to get married, ask her if she's nervous, etc. Depending on responses to those, easy your way into your email.
Nim
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Originally posted by aknimitz
Rings schmings. Its a dog eat dog world. If the woman is married, ok - maybe she's off limits. But whos to say she is happily married?
If she aint married yet, whos to say she isnt maknig the wrong decision?
Well, Id say this pretty much sums up the difference in morals between you and me.
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Originally posted by Hortlund
I dunno about the rest of you guys, but personally I always back off when I see a ring. I suppose its a mix of respect for her and the guy, and also something that enables me to look myself in the mirror every morning without asking what the hell Im doing.
So, if when you met your wife, had she been engaged to someone else, and felt even a bit queezey about her engagement, you would have walked away? Even knowing, and feeling, that she was the one?
eskimo
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Well, Id say this pretty much sums up the difference in morals between you and me.
Well, I dunno anything about your morals. And simply because you will not approach a woman that is engaged does not tell me anything about your morals.
Whose to say that this woman is not going to be the love of his life for the rest of their lives? My wife was dating someone else when we met. Now granted, it was a no brainer for her because I am simply the man of all men ... but if I hadnt pursued her because of her boyfriend, then I would never have married her (obviosuly). :cool:
Sometimes people just need a little coaxing to get out of relationships they have no business being in in the first place. There is absolutely nothing wrong with feeling this one out to see how she really feels about this guy and the marrage. If she's happy and serious ... abandon ship. If she is uncertain and insecure, investigate further.
Nim
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Originally posted by eskimo2
So, if when you met your wife, had she been engaged to someone else, and felt even a bit queezey about her engagement, you would have walked away? Even knowing, and feeling, that she was the one?
eskimo
I would have walked away yeah. Heck I have done just that once. However I am of the opinion that there is not just one "the one" but several potential that we all meet.
If she feels "queezey" about her engagement, then she prolly should not get married. But Im not gonna be a part of her stay/leave-equation. At least not intentionally.
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Originally posted by Hortlund
I dunno about the rest of you guys, but personally I always back off when I see a ring.
I've received more propositions while wearing a wedding band than I ever did without it.
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Originally posted by aknimitz
Well, I dunno anything about your morals. And simply because you will not approach a woman that is engaged does not tell me anything about your morals.
Well, to be honest I didnt mean it in a derogatory way. Its just that you and me see things differently when it comes to women who are married/engaged. I back off. Period. Both because I think it is wrong and disrespectful not to, but also because I *try* to stay clear of certain sins. If they are married, I have no business whatsoever to meddle with that. If they are engaged, its "not as bad", but it is bad enough...imo.
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Whose to say that this woman is not going to be the love of his life for the rest of their lives?
it's possable, but I heard a statistc the other day (I can't remember the exact source though, I do remember it was one I feltwas fairly reliable, but like I said I can't find it).
but anyway, it said that of relationships that start while one or both where already in a serious relationship (married, engaged, or living together more than 3 years) the % that make it last more than 5 years is 5%.
so, the odds that she'd be the love of his life are about 5%, the other 95% of the time the person who sees something better and jumps ship is likely to do it again.
if I was interested in something serious I'd only go for it if she showed up not wearing a ring and the conversation starts out with "so I broke up with my fiance today".
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I *try* to stay clear of certain sins.
Well now what the hell is the fun in that? I guess its a religious thing, which of course I wouldnt understand :)
Nim
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Don't you think Mia is playing with fire? There is a fiance lurking about, and do you think he will be understanding if Mia and his instructor get together? Hmm, I doubt it.
Nim, did you give Mia your phone number in case he needs legal advice? I would hate to see, "Fiance sends student pilot into orbit, news at 11:00 pm" :(
Thorns
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Don't you think Mia is playing with fire? There is a fiance lurking about, and do you think he will be understanding if Mia and his instructor get together? Hmm, I doubt it.
Nothing personal mind you, but maybe Mia actually has a set of nads and is willing to take a risk to try and achieve something he desires. How sad it would be living life afraid to take a chance, afraid of shadows. Mia is showing some guts, risking rejection, risking pissing off a fiance.
Go Mia!
dago
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Im betting she has nads as well.
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If she does dump her fiance for you mia,who's to say won't do the same to you later?If she ends up willing to do it to him,she may do the same to you.
Just sayin'
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Sox, worthy point. However, even if he saves some woman from marrying the wroong man, I think it was a move worth taking. If she's the type of woman that is shaky on the onset, she's certainly to be the type of woman that will be shaky into the future. Better that her fiance finds out now, as opposed to ten years from now.
Nim
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Dago, thanks for the reply for Mia. I sent the question to get an observation. I wish the best for Mia. The newspaper is full of people who had great nads, but over-stepped their boundries, and I'm sure a lot of their friends and relatives were very sad of the ending. Now I'm not afraid of taking risks, God knows all about me, but I alway keep my eyes wide open. I calculate the risk. Infatuation is blinding, and maybe he should go out with his instructors girlfriend, and possibly along with the instuctor and her fiance. His instructor is the key, and didn't she talk about her wedding for 3 hours? My gut reaction, she is just a nice friendly person, easily her personna can be taken for affection.
Thorns
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It's good to see so much chivalry amost this group of guys, but allow me to interject something...Women cheat. ALL women. Married, engaged, dating, ect. If something better comes along in a woman's eyes they WILL gravitate in that direction like white on rice.
We don't know jack about her fiance. He could be a slug and mia a definite step up. Unless she comes right out and says "I'm not interested" the game is still on. Women....the chase is 90% of the fun. Of course the other 10% is interesting as well.
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heh met with her tonight and it went pretty good. It was mostly intruction and alittle bit of flirting. I still havnt said anything and still not sure if, or when Im gonna. She let me listen to a voice mail on her phone her boyfriend left today. It was horriable. He said Hi ***** when are you gonna come and make some food Im hungry. LOL she was pissed. I dont blame her, but I asked her, "so you really wanna marry him huh," I had a big watermelon grin on my face hehe. She quickly changed the subject. That and other hints have me thinking shes thinking about what shes really doing. I also think of her talking about the wedding for a half hour though too. For now Im gonna be her friend for alittle longer and feel her out. I dont think its time to let her know yet. I wont know when it will be, it will just come out.
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Maybe she is talking about the wedding so much because she wants someone to tell her its the wrong thing to do. If she is only 23 I'll tell her right now it's wrong and will never work. Too young. Bring it up in a hypothetical situation or something, she already knows but wants you to say something.
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BULLPEN
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Animal had an elbow stinger, put me in Funkypants, please.
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mia, just make sure that your relationship with her does not contribute to her breaking up with her fiance.
if it happens, give her some time to be alone.
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bleh ccvi!
:D
I agree with Funked - its time to go to the bullpen.
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Arrrggggg!!!
You guys make my head hurt:D
I just read the last 25 posts, what a stitch, sounds like an Opra show.
To much estrogen in here, need to watch the "Man Show" about 10 times all of you.;)
now go get some beers
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Originally posted by Scootter
Arrrggggg!!!
You guys make my head hurt:D
I just read the last 25 posts, what a stitch, sounds like an Opra show.
To much estrogen in here, need to watch the "Man Show" about 10 times all of you.;)
now go get some beers
Hehe,
That's what you say,
But you'll be back!
eskimo
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Scootter,
Got my beer, and watching reruns..........feels good too. So, as far as the Mia case is concerned............Thorns out! :cool:
Thorns
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Mia, hook up with her friend and then you'll spend a lot more time with your instructor as friends. Then when you have the chance (you and her all alone, she's kidna tipsy) get in her pants/skirt :)
I still want to know if your instructor really is that girl I danced with at 600N.
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hmm Ill ask her udet :-) Ill ask did you dance with udet? lol She was sick lastweek end so Im guessing she didnt go out. I dont think she like to dance though.
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Is there an actual wedding date set... or is it one of those "we're gonna do this probably when he gets out of school in a couple of years and we can save some money first but I needed to feel like he was actually committed to me and that this relationship was going somewhere" type of engagements that 21 year-olds make? How much time do ya got to work with?
(http://www.saonet.ucla.edu/osd/docs/Newsletter/2001Fall_Images/Con1.gif)
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Originally posted by mia389
She showed up with another instructor, thats her best friend, a women too. Im not sure what her intentions were ...
3-way!
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"3-way!"
SCHWING!
Well well well. Even though I missed the weekend episodes I found that I've caught right back up at just the right point!
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Oh come on Westy, everyone knows your idea of a three way is you, a Playboy magazine and a bottle of Wesson oil. :D
your hero and bestest buddy,
dago
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;)
Wesson is just too "common." Would have to be 100% extra virgin Olive oil.
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Originally posted by Nash
Is there an actual wedding date set... or is it one of those "we're gonna do this probably when he gets out of school in a couple of years and we can save some money first but I needed to feel like he was actually committed to me and that this relationship was going somewhere" type of engagements that 21 year-olds make? How much time do ya got to work with?
(http://www.saonet.ucla.edu/osd/docs/Newsletter/2001Fall_Images/Con1.gif)
I gotta year to work with. Next September is the date hehe.
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Originally posted by Westy
"3-way!"
SCHWING!
Well well well. Even though I missed the weekend episodes I found that I've caught right back up at just the right point!
woohoo!
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Bump,
Just found this thing off the front page.
eskimo
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If she does dump her fiance for you mia,who's to say won't do the same to you later?If she ends up
willing to do it to him,she may do the same to you.
One of my girlfriends was dating a guy when we met. She broke up with him because of me. :p (Of course, they were not engaged or anything...)
That was 16 years ago, and we are still together today, been married for 11 years. :)
Nothing is certain in life.
Kekule
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Hey, the Yardbirds did it.
Take a look at George Harris and Eric Clapton. :cool:
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this thread is slipping away.
mia,send her another drunken email lol :)
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When I was 18 I met a 21 year old who was engaged. She was pretty cool, going into her final year of college, but was home for the summer. She was set to marry her college boyfriend, but from our conversations, he seemed like a jerk. But then, the only things I knew about him were detailis which were provided to me from this woman. So perhaps she was signaling, I really don't know. So, I told her how ****ed up he was being, and that she shouldn't put up with that ****.
Long story short (too late!) they broke off the engagement, and we spent the summer together before she went back to school. It was fun, and she was a tiger in the sack. J_A_B says I lack charactor for this, but I have no regrets.
Epilogue: In 2000, while I was finishing up my BA I received an email from her. She and her former fiance did finally get married, and they seemed reasonably happy. So everyone got what they wanted and lived happily ever after the end.
-Sik
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Looks like there's no choice but to call "Gigli" on this topic. :(
Although big WTG for Sikboy sliding into home on his girl. That ended up being a win-win for everyone!
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Originally posted by Sikboy
When I was 18 I met a 21 year old who was engaged. She was pretty cool, going into her final year of college, but was home for the summer. She was set to marry her college boyfriend, but from our conversations, he seemed like a jerk. But then, the only things I knew about him were detailis which were provided to me from this woman. So perhaps she was signaling, I really don't know. So, I told her how ****ed up he was being, and that she shouldn't put up with that ****.
Long story short (too late!) they broke off the engagement, and we spent the summer together before she went back to school. It was fun, and she was a tiger in the sack. J_A_B says I lack charactor for this, but I have no regrets.
Epilogue: In 2000, while I was finishing up my BA I received an email from her. She and her former fiance did finally get married, and they seemed reasonably happy. So everyone got what they wanted and lived happily ever after the end.
-Sik
Excellent bullpen work. You went from bullpen to a prime time relief appearance, and got the big save.
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let it die guys, even MIA has lost intrest in this thread:D
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This has pretty much run the course folks.