Heh, I had good relatives, good dad, good grandfathers...taught me 'its okay to make mistakes, its NOT okay to fail to learn from them'...if you did everything perfect the first time, would you learn? Doubt it. I did wait till I married at an older age, thats the only thing I did perfect the first time, marry my wife. Feel sorry for the rest of you poor saps!
Reminds me of a friend in H.S. who had no fewer than 22 speeding tickets by age 18. His license was finally suspended (nowadays, its suspended faster!)...he drove anyway, bragged about his speed tickets. Died in a high speed collision into a tree trying to negoiate a curve. Darwins theory applies I believe. Gotta learn from your mistakes, and make adjustments...)