Since when is being elite a bad thing?
Let's see we want elite pilots to fly our airplanes. We want elite doctors to operate on our children. We want elite businessmen running our corporations. However, we don't want an elite president? Of course... we want someone who is just like you and I to run our country; Someone "we can have a beer with."
Someone elected to be the leader of the most powerful country in the world should be considered elite. The job of being POTUS is not for the Joe Schmo's of this world.
You are confusing elite for professional…
Professional – conforming to the standards of skill, competence, or character normally expected of a properly qualified and experienced person in a work environment.
Elite – a small group of people within a larger group who have more power, social standing, wealth, or talent than the rest of the group.
You have to earn the right to call yourself a professional but people can be born in to social standing, wealth and power none of which means they are any more qualified that you or I. Talent can come from all walks of life and when you set one group on a pedestal you cut out all others. The term ruling elite makes me think of a monarchy and that is not what this countries about.
What makes American great is that it doesn’t matter what your background is, if you are determined enough you can achieve anything. To think otherwise only holds you back.