So I thought I would pass along what I did to fix them and perhaps get a bit more feedback. Let me cut to the chase a hair. It wasn't genius but desperation.
The symptoms were many micro warps, some freezes, and much calibration. I calibrated all the time. I would have what seemed like a sure shot and then the micro warp. The con would be on my 6. It was ugly. Then when I got into a turn fight I would often lose control. The final straw there was when I missed a sure shot on a tempest and stalled out unexpectedly. I couldn't take it anymore it was time to do something. Morfiend suggested I check my net status. I did, it was good.
Thinking things through a bit I think the issues started with all the new updates. That was my theory anyway. Then too I could see others having the same issue. Just watching them spin out of control until crash time.
Like I said earlier it was out of desperation. So I deleted the game and reinstalled. I was told to copy my settings so I could paste them back in. In error I didn't do this. I figured I could easily recreate the views in each plane. Well I forgot about the rudders, throttle assembly, and stick and all those buttons that go with it. That took a bit of time and some flights to figure out what I was missing and if I had the right buttons, for me, set up correctly.
I'm still adjusting but it is so much better. I've been hitting more planes and been in some tough fights. I did stall out once but I think I was missing some pieces. Tried a tight left hand turn and went into the water. That was after being hit at least 3 times by 3 different planes.
If you are having the problems described above give it a shot. It does take time if you don't copy your setting. However like my squaddie Razorbck said, "You're getting a fresh setup." So it's not all bad.