We wear a lot of headsets (Cans) between us engineers. Common pattern is JBL. I’m one of the few who strictly use Bose ($250). Some brands make them how they want them to sound, IMO, Bose makes them to how it should sound.
IF one can find a 4pin CommSet, used for stages, production, AC. it can be converted to 2 - 1/8” connectors. For sims thats what I did. Same thing you use in a real plane. Costly brand new, my Beyer Dynamics list around $500. But I got it for free, not working. Fixed it and it was great. Still have it. It took s hit on storage issues.
JBL has some good cheaper midels.