I had a very similar experience yesterday. People whining and squeaking about who knows what, insulting me and so forth almost pushed me to the point of cancelling my account. I can deal with the Niki and any real or perceived problems with its FM (it's not like I can't choose to fly one if I wanted) or any other "topic of daily BBS whine." What makes this game suck is the same thing that really makes it great. The people.
What made me decide not to leave, were the people. For every guy that insults me or what not, there are about 20 people that give me help when I need it or a good natured ribbing when mood needs to be lightened. Just when I was getting to the point of deletion, several guys made me see what is good about this game. Guys like Nash, AKHog, Oct, BAne, Booky, Nomde, and many others too numerous to list, made me realize what is best about this game. No matter what happens, we are all in this for basically the same reason. To have fun "flying" WW2 planes against each other. Whether is is getting bounced by a high P-51 (Gee, wonder if that is Bane?), nailed by some unseen opponent (Oh no, not Nash AGAIN), finding a Jug that wants to TnB my hellcat (Frenchy or Nomde, makes no difference, always a tough fight), fighting alongsude the AK's one month and against them the next, this is what gives me the most pleasure in this game. No matter the outcome, I know that I will always get an <S> and/or a good natured ribbing. All my "despised enemies" challenge me and get me to push my virtual plane to its limits, hopefully, I provide the same to them.
So basically, what I am trying to say, is don't let one or two bad apples ruin YOUR fun. Find where the guys you like to fight are, and take them on. Always fun and always a learning experience. Screw the lamers, the only thing they are good for is testing your convergence or deflection shots.
-math