Trim Tabs are of two type fixed and pilot adjustable. The fixed are just that they are set on the ground by maintenance and cant be moved by the pilot, they are set to deflect the control surface that they are attached to to compensate for and correct that bad attitude of the plane in flight.
The trim tabs that are pilot adjustable also have the fixed tabs on them th correct minor flight carectoristics of the plane. The pilot can then move a trim wheel lever or what ever he uses to move the trim tab to make the plane fly to what he sees as straight and level. Trim tabs move in the opposite direction that you want the airplane to move so that they deflect the control surface towards the direction you want it to go. The only thing trim tabs do is relieve control pressure from the pilots body (arms and legs) you can still fly the plane without touching the trim tabs if its set for a good straight and level flight. Where you can run into problems with trim is where you have alot of down trim for instance and want to pull up the trim tab will fight against you adding only control surface force, again wearing down the pilot.
We do not feel control pressure in a online sim and wont with present day joysticks. If we had real life stick movement at full speed you would only move the stick about a quarter of the total stick deflection and it would be stiff to the feel. If you had full hydraulic control of a WWII plane and yank the stick full back at full speed not only would you put your head in your lap but the wings would unass your airframe in a hart beat, you wouldnt just black out it would probably kill you. If you have any doubt go take a ride with a CFI and see for your self.
Heres another way go out on the highway get up to your legal speed limt and change lanes see how much you move the wheel to get there then do it at much slower speeds much more wheel movement. All trim does is ease pilot work load on his muscle thats it nothing else.
I work on avionics of some of the largest planes around and its all to ease pilot work load.
One thing that could work is to buffet the cockpit of the planes as they get up to speed and and near compression so that you cant get a good sight picture to shoot at, this could also be done at stall speed most planes shake pretty good at stall speeds.
I use auto trim to set level flight at the speed I want to fly at and thats it. I dont touch it again I use the controls to fly the plane becuase the trim tabs are only moveing the same flight control that my stick does.
What HT said by adding trim and the stick movement probably gave you extra control surface movement by using them together you cant go beoyund what the control can actually move.
I hope some of this makes sence I reread it in the morning and correct it if I dont like it.
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Tommy (INDIAN) Toon
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