If you are only against them now because they are picketing soldiers funeral's, then why get enraged at all? They are picketing because the soldiers died for a country that kind of let's homosexuality run free, and they don't agree with it. It's not like they are sending anti war messages because they aren't, for the most part they chant about how god hates gays and all that jazz. It's not much more then an anti gay parade going throughout the country.
If you ask me, Fred Phelps might be batting for the other team...