Well, since you leave the area when shot down, the film doesnt have any data on what the opponents do afterwards. Also note that most times the mistake is made long before the killing occurs. As for you "dissappearing" when entering his gunsights is strange... im not using default sights either, but dont have that problem... hmmm........... can you take a screenie? does it happen in *all* planes? Maybe you can even post a film here?
The recorded views are ALWAYS your own views, no matter which plane you jump into. In other words, when jumping into enemy plane using recorded view, you dont see where *he* looked at that time, but where you did. Only way to obtain *his* views is watch the film *he* recorded. A workaround would be to uncheck recorded views and use the numpad to keep yourself in views. Its a pretty safe guess that he kept his eyes on you at all times.
As for default view blocking.... either watch film in external, or - internal - adjust head positions same way as ingame (arrow, page up/down to move, F10 to save).
If you have trouble analyzing your films, post them here.... youll get lots of opinions hint and tips
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