I had that problem on my old Dell. Already had a gig of ram.
Once I upgraded to a new graphics card (PCI) and in BIOS turned my motherboard graphics thingy off and also got a better, newer DSL hub, things are much better and when tanking I can see nme way, way out thru turret muzzle.
A new PC is on my wish list one of these days. I just need to know what to get for around 3 grand. 500 mb graphics card and 2 gigs of ram, at least I know is a start.
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