My opinion, for what its worth (which is exactly 0)
Anyone who has an acct and flys aces high is a dweeb.
You could have a real life, but as long as you fly here regularly you are at least part dweeb or closet dweeb.
Thats a given, like death and taxes, it isn't going to change.
Now, that being said, there are high class dweebs, and there are low class dweebs.
Now some would say that as a trainer, I should only fly the harder planes.
That you should never catch me in a La7 or a nik.
Yet I say to each his own, viva la difference!
Some days going out and dancing into a furball with a nik and coming home to land a few kills just FEELS TOO GOOD, not to do it.
You have a problem with that, ok, thats YOUR problem.
You died to my guns, well shouldn't have let me get them on you then should you. Everyone flys, everyone dies. If you died, you made a mistake, someplace. Even if it was just upping the wrong field at the wrong time.
Lose the egos, we don't need em. Accept that YOU screwed up, don't blame the other guy because you died.