Hi Adonai,
I am online most every night. I start out in the DA then move to the MA (11pm CST till...). You are welcome to join my plane anytime and I can tell you what I am doing. That is better learning I think then just dualing me and filming. Throttle and flaps are the real secret to 109 flying and especially the 109k4 and the quickest way to learn that is so see it in action. If I am not involved in any squad flying or schedualed duals mabey we can do a few drills. But its hit and miss. Just pm me and if I can I will.
Also if you haven't already, download my training films listed here. Watch the narrated versions.