It does not matter that you suck, or I suck Anax.
The sooner you embrace the fact that it doesn't matter that you suck, the sooner you will begin not to suck.
Unless you are only embracing detachment because secretly you are desperate not to suck, in that case you must detach yourself from your detachment unless you are only doing that because you are still so attached to the desire to not suck that your teeth hurt...darnit! Caught in a feedback loop again!