You can't fix stupid... People, especially women, should not shoot high powered weapons without some instruction prior.
I like this old lady in the video linked below... Gonna "shoot him in the toodles..."
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xB7iz1HTh9U&NR=1
It depends on the woman in question- I doubt the drama club guys would stand much of a chance against the girls field hockey team if the sand hit the fan. I see your point in that men can become larger and stronger than women, just because of genetics. Otherwise, it's all about practice.
-Penguin