I don't really understand why folks feel the need to go off on others, either on 200 or in private. It was always my fault when I died, either because I allowed my SA to break down, or I stayed in too long and was overwhelmed, or I just wasn't good enough to beat that guy 1v1. Learn from it, appreciate the opportunity, and move on. It's a lot less stressful than blaming others for not flying exactly the way I think they should.