As you gain more experience and knowledge in an area, you access that from your memory as holistic pictures and no longer discrete steps. Often while explaining something you don't realize at the very beginning as you started to speak, your brain showed you everything as one image. Because as you learned and mastered it, it became a whole versus the original related bits and pieces. While you are working with what you learned you no longer have to pull it up in memory by it's discrete steps. This is why grad students are better at teaching than their professor who is a master of the subject. His mastery came at the price of loosing the ability to relate to and separate the subject into discrete digestible steps anymore. You can be taught how to teach which requires breaking down the holistic image into discrete steps, while some do it naturally as a self realization and make great mentors.
In the real world if your daughter intends to work with other people versus alone, she will either catch on to this or constantly be confused about how she and others relate to one another. Having a quick mind and greater mental capacity than your peers when you are young manifests in some of your problems with your daughter. It's also a hallmark of youth to be oblivious to these things while running rough shod with youthful exuberance over those around her in an absolutely clueless manner. Brings to mind where that saying "the dumbest smart person in the room" comes from. High intelligence often goes hand in hand during youth with a lack of empathy for others which is the social lubrication to interpersonal friction.
If she perceives your intervention as telling her, her ability is a negative in social situations and that she is lacking in that area of communication. She may well not listen while blaming others for not being as accomplished as herself. It all depends on that empathy thing. After all, at that age, If you are smarter and brighter, why do you have to be saddled with other's short comings. If she does have empathy and cares about others and can take the criticism. Talking to her over time, you can help her see what is taking place. In the end as a parent, all you can do is talk and hope she finds personal value in your conversation. Some people who are incredibly bright choose to emotionally defend themselves from their peers by very brightly running rough shod over those they interact with as a self defense for not being understood or fitting in.
Try to find out how your daughter feels about her gift......
