Well said PakRat, I agree. I fly a fair amount and I cannot remember the last time I thought I saw someone cheating. Maybe it happens on occasion, but I think if it does it is rare.
I havent even noticed that many cases of someone accusing another of cheating, since RAM stopped flying anyway, at least as RAM. He never could seem to understand that when you log on from Spain, you might see a warp or two, and it wont always be intentional. Its the distance/lag factor there.
Most of the time I think when someone starts this, its a matter of an inflated ego. Some guys just seem convinced they are great fighter pilots, nearly invincible, and when this illusion might be shattered, they take refuge in the claim that the other guy just had to be cheating.
I find it easier to accept that someone killed me, end of story, and move on with my next flight/fight. I do see the occasional big warp that affected a fight. When I do, I try to go private with the guy and mention it, hoping he will offer to relog. Most usually do this. Before doing this, first I will consider if it could be my connect, and will ask countrymen or squaddies if they saw the warps.
Anyway, my two cents,
Dago