Get rid iof the wife and you won't have to deal with all here relatives anymore. you should do it now while you are still young and are able to recover from the inevitable finanacial setback. In the future... do not get any girlfriend lwho lives less than 50 miles away. you can do it my way now or have it thrust upon you later when you least expect it and can least afford it. or.... you can just kiss her bellybutton for the next 30 or forty years.
lazs