The X-45 Throttle itself has a friction setting, which I actually turned up. The stick does not, and Im guessing your a Ex-Ch Fighterstick type user? It is just not that sloppy, and for the better I always thought.
I bought a TM F22 last year, upgraded it to digital chips and all that, and actually sold it for a beating just because it was like arm wrestling every flight. The X-45 is just about perfect, I can only assume your used to CH stuff, which for me was so sloppy, it was hard to control.
Your fight with the X-45 isn't complete till the main Hat view wears out. It's its only flaw, otherwise it is the perfect $79 HOTAS. I'll never change, just replace them every year for cheap.
Edit- Oh, and buy the store warrantee, you get 2 for 1 that way.