I dont think you fully understand. You want teamwork, some do not, at least in the way you do. Some want to fly and find a fight, kill or be killed and do it all over again. Base captures can be fun, as long its not a horde. 4 or 5 guys taking a base, defended by near equal numbers is tons of fun, at least until the vulchfest starts, defending is too. But, I for one, and many others don't play this game for the strategic points. I dont care so much about base captures unless there is gonna be a fight involved, and many seem to feel the same.
Now dont get me wrong, if there are a couple of knits out there who need a bit of help, I'm willing to lend a hand, but if theres 20 - 30 of 'em and they need my help, they may as well give up cause I wont do them any good
I'll speak on country if I have killed a vh somewhere, so the GV's know there are no more coming to that spawn, or if I sink a ship (very rare for me lol). I'll give a report if i see something and someone needs to know. But, I almost never tell when I am in a goon, except in the above mentioned low number capture attempt. What if I dont make it? The other guy who was gonna grab troops didn't and now there will be no capture. I generally run a goon as back up anyway, and try indirect routes which take longer and provide no fighter support, so saying I have the goon for XX base is pointless.
I will say that its pretty rare for a CV to be sunk and it not be announced to the country, but sometimes people forget, or get busy fighting off the enemy. Dantoo is a good guy, he probably had other things on his mind. One player jumping another over something like this will almost never result in good feelings. I know if it was me, I'd not take kindly to it.