Author Topic: Downers/pain killers..a one way ticket  (Read 558 times)

Offline Nwbie

  • Gold Member
  • *****
  • Posts: 2022
Downers/pain killers..a one way ticket
« Reply #15 on: May 05, 2005, 08:42:43 PM »
My thoughts are with you ...

NwBie
Skuzzy-- "Facts are slowly becoming irrelevant in favor of the nutjob."

Offline Jackal1

  • Plutonium Member
  • *******
  • Posts: 9092
Downers/pain killers..a one way ticket
« Reply #16 on: May 06, 2005, 10:15:26 PM »
Never thought a few days could be so long.
  My bro lost his life on Sunday and we had the funeral today (Friday).
  The family night was on Thursday.
  He got exactly what he wanted and what we had discussed on quite a few occasions. His jeans, his shirt, his rings, and most importantly, his doo rag.
  Never been to an all day long funeral, but basicaly that`s what this was. Services was to be held at 10:00 A.M. this morning.
  We`ve done some ,what other people would consider some weird stuff, at biker funerals in my life, but I got to say this was a hell fo a tribute.
  After us pallbearers got our  Boutonnieres pinned on , we stepped out into the entrance lobby of the chapel. I was standing there when it sunk through that what I was hearing was actualy being piped through the entire place. It was Stairway To Heaven. :) After that came Knocking On Heavens Door. His daughter had made a disc with the music that was played continously and had a screen set up beside the casket with a continuous slide show of David with all of us at different times when we were having fun and with him and his grandkids. Was pretty touching and one of the most cool things I had ever seen done as a tribute.
  Services over and we set off on a 1 1/2 to 2 hour journey to the piney woods , ten or so mile out of Troup Texas to lay him to rest beside of his brother. Way out there in a small little place with nothing but trees, sky and quiet . Was too cool.
  Of course the wife wasn`t able to make the final journey due to her condition, but she was able to attend the funeral.
  Upon returning home this afternoon, myself and my wife walked over to talk to his wife. I stayed a few minutes and then had to return home because I had one of the pallbearers waiting on me. My wife stayed for a while.
  After an hour or so my wife came and got me and said that David`s wife wanted to talk to me.
  I went back to their house. He was supposed to go into the hospital this week for an angiogram and hopefully just angioplasty, but he had been told that it could possibly be more serious.
  His wife told me that he had discussed with her what he wanted done if something unexpected happened. One of his requests was that I recieve his replica Harley collection.
  So, this is what she wanted to give me. We both loved HDs and both had a collection of some pretty detailed stuff.
  One of his that I got was one we had both ooed and awed over many times. It was one he had gotten on a trip to Tennessee last year. It is a hand carved, super detailed sculpture out of beautifull wood.  The rest are some of the most awesome detailed replicas you can imagine.
  They are now resting in shelves in my living room. Something that will always be a reminder of him, our good times and all we shared in common.
  Probably a rambling most are not interested in, but means a lot to me.
  Ride on bro. You will be missed, but always remembered.
« Last Edit: May 06, 2005, 10:20:04 PM by Jackal1 »
Democracy is two wolves deciding on what to eat. Freedom is a well armed sheep protesting the vote.
------------------------------------------------------------------

Offline Ghosth

  • AH Training Corps (retired)
  • Plutonium Member
  • *******
  • Posts: 8497
      • http://332nd.org
Downers/pain killers..a one way ticket
« Reply #17 on: May 07, 2005, 06:52:55 AM »
I had a close call with Vicoden last year after a abcessed wisdom tooth.

Granted I was able to walk away, but I had to hand the last pills to my wife & say put these where I can't find em. I've been thought a lot in my life, and it was perhaps the hardest thing I've ever done.

My dad (81 now) is the strongest man I know, (in every respect) and he fought the same battle with Codine after a hernia surgery.

The world is a whole different place when seen through a "LaLa" pills purple haze.

Offline Dago

  • Parolee
  • Platinum Member
  • ******
  • Posts: 5324
Downers/pain killers..a one way ticket
« Reply #18 on: May 07, 2005, 07:58:19 AM »
Maybe I am lucky, but the few times I have had pain pills prescribed, I didnt feel anything close to addiction.  Took them as needed, as little as possible, then stopped when I didnt need them.  

Pepsi and Pistachios is more addictive to me.

My sympathies on the loss of your friend. My best friend died a year ago and I still feel the hole in my life that left.  

dago
"Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, chocolate in one hand, martini in the other, body thoroughly used up, totally worn out and screaming "WOO HOO what a ride!"