With regards to who is good, and who is a good leader, the only name that comes to mind is fester, and even that is a throwback to AH1. While many capable cartoon pilots could lead missions, they don't, so saying who's good at both is entirely arbitrary. I can think of quite a few names that organized successful missions, despite odds or situations, and I can think of plenty of folks who'll handily slaughter me in a fight, but the names that appear in one list don't typically appear in the other.
Just saying.