Holy Cow Mighty1! Look at it on the upside; you may have prevented these folks from harming students at your school or district. What’s really scary is that these folks didn’t understand limits, didn’t have much self control and may have been obsessive; not the kind of folks you want working with kids. I’d say that they were posing a serious risk to your students. Maybe not the Ebay one, but she did have a warning. I can understand not enjoying the conflict and turmoil, but you’ve done a good thing.
I’m a computer teacher at a K-8 Catholic school. I also do minimal network admin stuff; minimal because I only know a minimum about servers and networks. We don’t have anyone like you, mostly because we don’t have the budget for any IT personnel whatsoever.
A few questions:
What exactly are your job duties? Just the “Thought Police” stuff? Or do you also manage the network and accounts? Also, how big is your school and/or district? How many employees, schools/buildings, PCs, servers and student accounts are you in charge of? How many other folks do you work with and how are their job duties divided up? Lastly, who does your school website; is it hired out, or one of you?