Domestic Violence TRUTH?

[Brenjen]

I'm of the opinion that at least SOME, not all mind you but SOME, of the women in a domestic violence situation actually create that situation.

 I would alter that & say MOST women create the situation. I have known some guys in my life that were just A-HOLES. Nothing their girl did was right or good enough & they were abusive. You could tell these couples because the guy always had that false swagger & the girl was always shy & quiet & almost always had that look of fear just waiting on the hammer to fall.

 I have been in many knock down drag out fights over that & hitting kids. I got into it with a bruiser about twice my size in a McDonalds one time when I was about 19 or 20 because he backhanded an infant in a high chair so hard it tipped the kid over backwards & the child hit it's head on that tile floor hard enough to bounce.

 I ended up bloody & having to go out the back of the Mickey D's but that dude wasn't able to leave before the cops got there & the manager had seen what he did & was a mother herself (she led me out the back when the cops arrived)

 There are some things in this world a REAL man will stand up against, win, lose or draw, or with public opinion on his side or not. Like women & children first on a sinking ship, you just have to understand your place in life is to serve & secure their place in life. Some women will mistake that kindness for weakness; those are usually the ones that get in over their heads before they realize it.

[wrag]

So far no real answer................

I remember a couple.  Was very strange to me.  She would start in with her mouth, and if that failed she would finally physically attack him.  He would at that point slap or punch her and then she would get all kissy kissy??????????????

She would do this over and over and over??????????????????

Is it a sexual thing?

Hey I knew this guy since we were kids.  He was NEVER that way when we were growing up.  He was more like what Brenjen talks about.  It was like she trained him somehow or ?????????

Finally stopped seeing them.  Was just too much to watch.  Lost a friend I had known for years

Even got to where I wanted her to get popped or to even pop her one myself    

So please can anyone explain or TRY to explain.  Cause I have yet to come up with, or seen, a satisfactory answer.

[Brenjen]

Well The women that ask for it like what you described are in it for the "whip me - beat me - take away my credit card sexual thrill"

 My oldest sister was in an abusive relationship, actually still with the guy, they've been married for years, anyway he used to put her in the hospital. I remember my dad & mom discussing it & my dad said; "She must WANT to get beaten up because she just keeps going back to him & saying, But I loooove him dad."

 I've known a few like that & a few that would fight like cats with their tails tied together hung over a clothes-line, then like you said wrag, thet'd be all kissy-kissy & into the bedroom before the swelling & bleeding stopped. Worlds just full of wierdos; no explaining it really.