Billiken, changing the Joystick sensitivity will only help you, when in the heat of the fight you yank hard on your stick. I myself prefer light, sensitive control - but its mostly personal preference and stick type, so youll have to play on those settings yourself.
Id suggest a staircase scheme, starting with the first slider about halfway to the top, the rest ascending. Deadband always as little as possible, as much as neccessary. Damping sill slow the overall reaction to inputs... id put that rather low as well.
Black out: Too high G means your either too fast or turn too hard (for the speed youre at). To turn around quick (ie small radius) while keeping your speed ("Energy"), use the vertical. For example, to turn around 180 degrees, dont do a flat turn, but an immelman. Try both and compare what happens (speed, altitude, space you need to turn).... youll see what i mean. Theres a few good articles on
Energy and
Merges ("Mastering the Merge") on
NetAces.
This will also help you avoiding getting too low and slow to maneuver, ie stall.
Riding the edge of stall is something that takes practice. In the heat of a big furball, where you already struggle with your SA and (usually) multiple opponents its even harder to concentrate on your plane and stall on top of it all. What helps you with that is sticking to one plane for the time being. Untill you know what it can do and what it cant, untill you no longer have to check speedmeter, but FEEL your speed. Fly by the seat of your pants
. Some acrobatics can help you learn the limits of your plane. Flying through hangars, fly low between trees, upside down, go straight up untill you stall (maybe add some "twist" with rudder) and catch your plane on the way down......
Give it some time, practice, fight people like Batfink or BaitBug, practice, ask questions, read some and practice again - i think your on the right way to learn fast
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Edit: One thing i forgot: Film your fights. You can review them later and watch them also from the opponents perspective. Its a great tool to help you see how you got outmaneuvered. And you can always pot films here, youll get plenty opinions on what was good and what was not so good
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