K, here is the difference.
Real Life
The only thing available to them was the P40. They could not choose a different plane. If they tried anything else vs the Japanese planes, they were dead. HOing was their best and probably only option.
Game
YOU have a choice of planes. YOU have the choice to up again after you die. So, if you are flying something that can only HO, YOU are an idiot. Get in a plane that can fight. Stop using the acts of desperate people fighting for their lifes as an excuse to be a retard in a video game. Try fighting! you may like it. Flying for 10 minutes only to collide with someone in a HO attempt is a waste of time for both of you. What is the point of paing to play a game with 'fighters' if you are not willing to fight?
If you just 'like' hoing, that is fine. Just please stop using these stupid excuses for it.