Sandy,
Totally agree with your assessments about "the right tool for the right job". You have to know the limits of your vehicle, and if you don't have some after-market suspension parts, you're probably gonna break something if you go outside that circle of what your vehicle is capable of. I learned the hard way with my 1976 International Scout.
Incidently, here is the update:
I test drove one (again, this time on road, not offroad like my buddies rig) and the thing is pretty peppy. The advertised 0-60 was 7.6 seconds but it felt MUCH quicker than that to me. Doing 70 mph felt like 50 mph. Very smooth ride.
The dealer wouldn't give me close to even a fair dealer trade in for my BMW. I put it up for sale in Craigs list, and I have two people interested within 4 hours of posting. One is coming out Tue to look at the car.
If I sell it within 7 days, I'll order the FJ Cruiser (or have a dealer find one within the area from other dealerships that matches the customized vehicle I want) If I don't sell the BMW, I'll just keep it for another 88,000 miles.
Oh, and I would prefer a stick but the wife whine rating was 9.5 (she can drive a stick, but prefers auto) so I succumbed to deciding on an automatic. I really like the fact that you can lock in the rear differential when in 4WD.(basically, posi-traction)