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Offline Masherbrum

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« Reply #15 on: July 24, 2007, 09:32:46 AM »
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This isn't exactly new news...  If you have a vagina in a marriage dispute, you're going to win.


Like, take for example my father.  He had been paying child support for my sister, who recently turned 18.  My (evil) mother went to child services and asked for more money, even though the contract for the child support ended the moment my sister turned 18.  She was awarded the money, regardless of what the contract said (and violating my Father's due process rights).

He's going to try to not even address it.  He won't pay it, he won't even reply.  We don't know what will happen.
Incorrect, my brother got a divorce after 2 years.   His lawyer was the difference maker.  

His ex between her "post-divorce alcoholism" and "running off with the mouth", my brother was granted joint physical custody.   The youngest of two daughters now lives with my brother, so she was spared.   Their oldest daughter is a fruitcake like her mom.  

Lawyers are like cigars and scotch.  The more you pay, the better they are.
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« Reply #16 on: July 24, 2007, 07:16:42 PM »
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Incorrect, my brother got a divorce after 2 years.   His lawyer was the difference maker.  

His ex between her "post-divorce alcoholism" and "running off with the mouth", my brother was granted joint physical custody.   The youngest of two daughters now lives with my brother, so she was spared.   Their oldest daughter is a fruitcake like her mom.  

Lawyers are like cigars and scotch.  The more you pay, the better they are.


Bull****.  

I met a guy who spent an incredible amount of money to get custody of his kids.  The mother was negligent and running a meth lab out of the back of the house.  

Later, I heard the mother's lawyer barely even tried and won the case.
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« Reply #17 on: July 24, 2007, 08:09:24 PM »
I've spent the Summer working in family law here in Texas. In my experience, Lasersailor's friend most likely beat his wife and/or the child.  Or he's exaggerating to make a point. Or.,perhaps, he heard wrong.

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« Reply #18 on: July 24, 2007, 09:24:03 PM »
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But the thing is that he has NO BACK CHILD SUPPORT.  He paid off all the money he "owed" including the 2 thousand dollars that was put up for no real reason 2 days before my sister's 18th.


This is what I was replying to.

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He's going to try to not even address it. He won't pay it, he won't even reply. We don't know what will happen."

Ignoring it will end up with him being charged for avoiding child support. He needs to address this with a lawyer. Ignoring it is arecipe for disaster. He will end up being punished for the back child support he was ordered to pay. The courts are pretty serious about "dead beat dads". Tell him to get proper legal assistance and work through the court.
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« Reply #19 on: July 24, 2007, 09:24:55 PM »
I'm running into the problem of assets and debts in my search to retain a lawyer in my divorce.  My wife has litterally gone crazy and drinks 24/7.  The problem is just about 95% of the debt is in my name even though she pays several of the bills.  My credit report doesn't show this unless I include her on the application.  

Both of us refuse to move out of the house and neither of us agree on anything nor can we afford lawyers right now.  

Previously we agreed on everything and were going to file uncontested but she backed out of the deal and robbed my checking account blind.

She blew $3k in one month and I have no clue where the money went.  Now she's refusing to pay "her bills"

All of wich I'm keeping maticulous records of.
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« Reply #20 on: July 24, 2007, 09:33:34 PM »
Gunslinger several of us told you that would happen and to get a lawyer right off the bat. I believe you were also advised to seperate your funds asap with seperate bank accounts immediately. That advice was based on others prior experiance which you are now getting on your own.

You cannot afford to screw around like you are doing. If you want to mess up your life to the max, keep on doing what you are doing. Get your own lawyer you do NOT need the wife's permission or acceptance of the choice of YOUR lawyer.

If you can't get on to taking care of yourself and securing your kids financial security you will just end up losing more than you can possibly believe. You are well on your way to that right now.
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« Reply #21 on: July 24, 2007, 09:37:45 PM »
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When I said, "Until Death Do Us Part," I meant it . . . even if I have to kill her.
Words to live by, apparently.
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« Reply #22 on: July 24, 2007, 09:52:45 PM »
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Bull****.  

I met a guy who spent an incredible amount of money to get custody of his kids.  The mother was negligent and running a meth lab out of the back of the house.  

Later, I heard the mother's lawyer barely even tried and won the case.
Seems like the Lawyer overcharged for his services.   It happens.
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« Reply #23 on: July 24, 2007, 10:05:08 PM »
Well since I started this thread, I can say, be patient and do the right thing, document everything and get the best lawyer you can find in your area who has won cases for the men.  In Mississippi, there is an outbreak of women doing meth, they start it and see that it makes them lose weight and then it gets out of control.  Mississippi passed a law recently that steers judges to look at meth abuse and if the woman is caught with any meth in their system, they lose........period!  I might also add, that no matter what the Ex is doing, never, ever, ever let the children hear you say anything bad about their mother, you will pay for it in the end.  Just keep quiet and document!!!!  Let them shoot their own selves in the foot!


Mark<-------Proud single full custody father of two beautiful children!

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« Reply #24 on: July 25, 2007, 05:06:31 AM »
i feel doubly sorry for this guy...imagine how screwed up this guy's head must have been when he found out his wife was cheating on him with another woman.

i hope there wasn't any children involved.

Entering into a marriage without letting him in on her little secret...

What a pos biatch.
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« Reply #25 on: July 25, 2007, 05:58:24 AM »
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Bull****.  

I met a guy who spent an incredible amount of money to get custody of his kids.  The mother was negligent and running a meth lab out of the back of the house.  

Later, I heard the mother's lawyer barely even tried and won the case.


Have you any idea how common it is during custody battles to have unfounded accusations being thrown back and forth? Hes an alcoholic, shes an alcoholic, he hits me, she hits the kids, shes insane, she does drugs...etc. etc. etc.

If you make an accusation of negligence and "running a meth lab out of the back of the house" you better damn well prove your accusation too, or else you will have ailienated the judge and just shot yourself in the foot.

My bet is that this guy who apparently lost, was one of these wild-accusations-type guys, and lost because he could not back up his accusations with hard evidence.
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« Reply #26 on: July 25, 2007, 10:59:06 AM »
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The problem is just about 95% of the debt is in my name even though she pays several of the bills.  

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 nor can we afford lawyers right now.  
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She blew $3k in one month and I have no clue where the money went.  Now she's refusing to pay "her bills"

 


See anything wrong with this picture bud?
You can`t afford not to afford a lawyer.
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« Reply #27 on: July 25, 2007, 11:48:19 AM »
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All of wich I'm keeping maticulous records of.


This wont matter at all, but it will help fuel righteous indignation when you get it busted off in your butt :)

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« Reply #28 on: July 25, 2007, 11:55:26 AM »
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This wont matter at all, but it will help fuel righteous indignation when you get it busted off in your butt :)

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Gunslinger I hope you read this as it is the unvarnished truth. No matter what she spent you won't get any of it back and your records won't matter a whit. If you are in a community property state all assets are shared including ALL the money. Once the money is gone YOU will share the debt which means she got the fun of spending it but won't have to pay for all of it. You will end up paying for a BUNCH of HER spending.

Close ALL bank accounts. Freeze ALL joint credit accounts. Separate your pay into an account in YOUR name only. If she wants a bank card she must get it in her name. Get a freaking lawyer and get a court order to stop her spending in joint activities.
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« Reply #29 on: July 25, 2007, 12:16:13 PM »
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Gunslinger I hope you read this as it is the unvarnished truth. No matter what she spent you won't get any of it back and your records won't matter a whit. If you are in a community property state all assets are shared including ALL the money. Once the money is gone YOU will share the debt which means she got the fun of spending it but won't have to pay for all of it. You will end up paying for a BUNCH of HER spending.

Close ALL bank accounts. Freeze ALL joint credit accounts. Separate your pay into an account in YOUR name only. If she wants a bank card she must get it in her name. Get a freaking lawyer and get a court order to stop her spending in joint activities.

Very true!
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