UPDATE:
still no reply from eD,
been raking the guru 3d forums, and have tried various nvida drivers (display and stereo) and also the eD drivers and combos of both.. bet drivers, older drives, drivers that climb on rocks..
glasses will not work with any application, get the same result as soon as I turn 3d on, my desktop gets blurry and flickers, and no game, 3d app will even launch.