I think I can see what you're saying about the contradiction being apparent; I'll need to study the two paragraphs some more. As for your question, the ball should be to the right in a left hand (counterclockwise) spin and to the left in a right hand spin.
Edit: I got it now. Thank you for your help. I had to look up the definitions of slip and skid, then use hand and feet motions to figure it out. According to this article, then, I think that X-Plane has the banked stalls backwards. Hmmm. In X-Plane, if I remember correctly, the higher wing always stalls first regardless of rudder use.