Aces High should have a Cross country VOX filter setting, that has 3 options
Never
Always
and Prompt me.
And it should default to Never Allow, except possibly that trainers should be able to be permitted to VOX all players regardless of the setting. I've not had the dubious pleasure of being on the receiving end of these particular individuals, unless they are the reincarnation of another player famous for his rants when killed. (City in Texas, anyone?)
It's ridiculous that players (especially new players who, as I was at the time, are feeling out the game) are subject to such nonsense.
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