Join the Club Monza. You're not the only one who's frustrated with the lack of communication in the MA. Take a look at my post in the Wish List, "Better Communication in the MA". It's a total mess. Even WITH a perfectly operating microphone. Your not any better off.
Same situation with squadrons i'm afraid. You might as well continue to operate as a lone wolf. The search for a professional squad is a waste of time. In the end, you get the same thing Dorothy got when she brought the Wizard the witches broom in "The Wizard of OZ". That is to say.. ABSOLUTELY NOTHING. If there is a "Professional" squadron in AH, it's doing a better job of hiding itself than a Leprechaun's magical pot of gold. There's nothing there at the end of the rainbow Monza.
The problem appears to be "Cultural" more than anything else. The "Community" in the MA is extremely dysfunctional compared to other online games i've seen. Frankly it's dysfunctional compared to the "Community" in a State Mental Hospital. Don't bother country hopping either, it's the same across the board.
I've decided just to let my subscription expire in July and wait to see if anything ever materializes with Combat Tour. I think HiTech is doing the right thing with Combat Tour by taking the operations and training side of the game out of the hands of AH players and running it themselves.